Hello all...Virgo women here...who is on a break with her Gemini man. I hate it..I am going nuts..the kicker is we live together and he wants to be best friends....and he says there is still hope.
Am I wasting my time??? Is he just saying that?? Who knows I just know he has been in one hell of a funk for the last year and hates everyone but himself.
Here is my theory: run away! As in tell him peace out. I bet you he comes running back don't fall for it. No reason to be tortured.
We have not had sex in a long time
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Or maybe this is one of those threads where the girl just wants to bitch about how aweful her life is ... but, doesn't want to do anything about it, she just wants pity
We talked finally....I am happy to still have a best friend....screw relationshits!
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Furthermore, you should realize who you are talking to before opening your mouth .... because I fully comprehend that there is no way a woman who has feelings for a man could settle with platonic friendship ... and if you engage in this deception than that makes you fake.
Also, every man in the world also know this, and grown women ..... to lie like that is foolish, and we all know the fool would be you.
If you plan on looking good, I would suggest that you realize that we realize the reality of truths.
From day one we did say we would always be best friends no matter what...it is my fault for trying to hang on.
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
No wonder he friend zoned you...You have no standards. Why give you the whole relationship when he recognize he could have have you for less, once he see you'll stick around for crumbs and you'd be willing to have that as long as you can be in his life in some small kind of way it's over him, once he see you'd rather accept less than be alone he's no longer going to give you the best parts of him. How very pathetic of you and of course he's thinking the same thing.