I asked him if he wants me to move on

He had feelings, idk where they went, but it's been about a month, n I just asked him if he wants me to move on, n he said, if you want. I don't but I figured thats whats, then he said then I mean idk. I think I should move on. But I wanna make sure. Should I?

Why not just hold on to him and continue to meet new people.

Sometimes people need a break, something I have a hard time accepting too.

However when the break is during I find myself and needed the break just as much.

Pay attention to the actions! Those cant lie.

I never looked at it like that. The convos are short, we get like 3 messages in n after that it's over. He was never like this before we met. I was just confused. Cuz we pretty much acted like a couple last time, now he is away? But I understand now.

I'm new to this, this is the first guy I've ever talked to on this level. I decided I was ready to try mingling for the first time. So I have a whole bunch of questions, I am confused, If something doesn't seem right I'm going to ask cuz I'm not experienced. So I don't need anyone like p angel judging me on my questions, cuz she doesn't know me. Respectful answers are good for me. I'm learning how to deal with guys, relationships, mingling, etc. That's why I ask questions.

Posted by j519oe
He had feelings, idk where they went, but it's been about a month, n I just asked him if he wants me to move on, n he said, if you want. I don't but I figured thats whats, then he said then I mean idk. I think I should move on. But I wanna make sure. Should I?

Come over here..ah lil closer..whispering in ear" it's a game too see how much you really care about him..don't go for it!! Now really show him love and attention ...but still give him his space,and let him coming around...but don't lose yourself in all of this..still go out and have fun...act single when with friends,but act girly,sweet around him...he might come around,and he might not...just try it..Good Luck..😉

Omg yess!!! I see now!! I was just going to let him go! I'm learning!!! That's exactly what he is doing for sure. I kinda did lose myself a lil, always stressing over him always wondering what he is doing but I see now. Thanks alot avg! 😄

Virgos are by far the most confusing sign 😢 you never know if they truly want you or not or what they are thinking. Their actions and words never add up! They distance themselves from you and if you try move on they act surprised and are all like 'but I liked you'. UGH!

Posted by LilyTree
A wise DXP member once asked me, "If you truly believe in what you and your Virguy had, why not do both? Move on while still keeping faith?"

This is what I have chosen to try and do.

Wow it's so strange that you say that because that is what i'm doing without even willingly choosing to. I don't know why but a part of me believes he will come back and realise. I don't know if i'm just being a stupid girl or if i'm doing it because a part of me knows its true. Only thing is, if I actually move on then he comes round, it may be too late :/ but I feel like it won't because if you keep him in your heart and they return, the feelings will come back to the surface.

Yes! Ariesgal92 since the little talk yesterday I feel like I'm moving on, but I get the wildest feeling that he will come back but then I say he won't cuz I think thats just what I want n my mind is having me think he is but in reality he probably won't. I never know

Posted by CluelessCancer
I'm starting to understand what P-ANGEL spews on here constantly. Ownership of self is so important

applauds your epiphany

Posted by j519oe
Yes! Ariesgal92 since the little talk yesterday I feel like I'm moving on, but I get the wildest feeling that he will come back but then I say he won't cuz I think thats just what I want n my mind is having me think he is but in reality he probably won't. I never know

Yep they do the whole 'push/pull' thing constantly. They say/do something to pull you in then push you away. Even if they have left, it never really feels like they have. I think the same thing, I think he will maybe because I want him too but I dunno sometimes when it doesn't feel over it's not...so we will just have to wait and see 🙂

Posted by Ariesgal92
Virgos are by far the most confusing sign 😢 you never know if they truly want you or not or what they are thinking. Their actions and words never add up! They distance themselves from you and if you try move on they act surprised and are all like 'but I liked you'. UGH!

THEIR ACTIONS AND WORDS NEVER ADD UP......

BINGO. 😉

thus the confusion and constant detachment.

Posted by Ariesgal92

Posted by j519oe
Yes! Ariesgal92 since the little talk yesterday I feel like I'm moving on, but I get the wildest feeling that he will come back but then I say he won't cuz I think thats just what I want n my mind is having me think he is but in reality he probably won't. I never know

Yep they do the whole 'push/pull' thing constantly. They say/do something to pull you in then push you away. Even if they have left, it never really feels like they have. I think the same thing, I think he will maybe because I want him too but I dunno sometimes when it doesn't feel over it's not...so we will just have to wait and see 🙂

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best thing you can do is be yourself, do your own thing and stay busy with your life. male virgo's are masters of push (criticize you) pull (compliment you). it's all about getting you to desire them more and control. don't fall for it. be in control of you. don't let anyone dictate how you should feel and when you should feel it.

youtube the rubber band effect. virgos live by this theory. what you have to do is be proactive instead of reactive. don't react to them. do your own thing. they will distance and try to pull you to their end. you pull twice as hard back. if they truly like you and want to pursue you, they will come back. but with virgo's, it will take longer. they have to analyze every detail about you first.

honestly the best thing you can do to attract a virgo man is be a strong independent woman who has a good head on her shoulders and know who you are, what you want and what you won't put up with. if you're a shrinking violet, you'll only repel him.

u don't want 2 settl for that.do u rly want to be a doormat

@gemini64 it does my head in, why don't their words/actions ever add up?! I am definatly being myself and pretty much moving on and keeping busy. He hasn't said a single word to me in over a week and the last few times we spoke was only because I messaged him first. It's making me angry, and thinking he may never actually speak to me again. He's giving me no attention what so ever. Yet a few weeks ago told me he liked me and could see himself with me... :/ I would say I am definatly an independent and strong woman, being an Aries haha but i'm running out of patience. Right now, it does not seem like he is interested what so ever 😢