I broke up with my virgo bf

Leo

I commend you for leaving him, Leo girl.

Maybe it's the scorpio moon in me but I for one can't stand Virgo guys. The self-important attitude make them tasteless if not tactless. I do have one long-time friend who is a Virgo, I didn't know at first but now that I know, I realize why I can't stand him either. If he is not a long-time friend, I'd have ditch him but yeah he is my long-time friend who wants to make friends now with hubby, etc, etc.

You breaking up with him because he took a break from you = he broke up with you, and you can't handle that fact, so you fabricated some .... he wasn't devastated with you telling him it's over because he had already broken up with you.


Reality doesn't seem to be your forte ... maybe that's why he can't handle you any longer




besides, why would you even want him to be devastated?

sounds like you're a Player .... only a player would look for emotional devastation for satisfaction

My question : Do you think the fact that I ended it when he didnt want to will make it impossible for him to reach out and contact me again? Pride...or ego..whatever? I know in previous times when we argued I mostly always reached out first ( pathetic...I know ) thoughts?

hi i'm a virgo and my sag has broken up with me but for very good reasons as I damaged her trust, BUT I will do anything to get back with her, we were together for 6 years, I think about her every second of the day, pride will never get in the way of me going back with someone if i'm in love, I do have pride but i can also swallow pride to get to the place i need to be, I was burnt once by a Leo and I did switch off from her completely, How did your break up occur did an event take place or were you both tired of eachother?

If he is anything like me he will want to try and regain the relationship, ask him to go for a drink with you somewhere, make it something relaxing and fun, I had issues opening up in relationships but my sag brought me out of my shell and I learnt to be more like her albeit she is on another level for being open!!

I'm here if you need advice

Posted by girlonfire84

He wasnt devastated when i told him it was over ....

Posted by girlonfire84

He did not wanna break up and kept saying so when I told him it was best.

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The likely reason he doesn't want to be with you is due to your inability to reason.

Take here for example ... you contradict yourself and have no clue.

Just like all the other Players .... you are looking for reactions from him.

Because if you really wanted a break up then that's what would happen ... instead, here you are whining about missing him and getting him back ...

... so, it was just a play for attention.



Cunts like you are dime a dozen ... and he can find one of those anywhere.

In my experience Virgos don't like anything that isn't rational and logic. Emotions are probably not in the game for him at this point so he will go with the former 9/10 times. MY experience with them (I am a Virgo asc and Mars) is that when they are done, they are done. Even if YOU came to that conclusion for them by "breaking up".

Also, "taking breaks" is pure bullsh1t in my opinion. It's either on or permanent f ucking off.

To take a break in a relationship means it's finished.

So, the reality here is ... he broke up with her, but, she can't handle that so she says that she broke up with him.

And regardless of who is the breaker upper .... what is important is that it means it was never meant to be, so instead of trying to force a failure into being valuable ... grow some fucking dignity and walk away.


Most women would rather create more drama to deal with drama, rather than being a grown up and stepping away.

Posted by P-Angel

Most women would rather create more drama to deal with drama, rather than being a grown up and stepping away.

Ditto this.

Posted by WolfMoon
In my experience Virgos don't like anything that isn't rational and logic. Emotions are probably not in the game for him at this point so he will go with the former 9/10 times. MY experience with them (I am a Virgo asc and Mars) is that when they are done, they are done. Even if YOU came to that conclusion for them by "breaking up".

If virgos didn't like anything that isn't rational and logic, there would be none on this forum

Posted by girlonfire84
My question : Do you think the fact that I ended it when he didnt want to will make it impossible for him to reach out and contact me again? Pride...or ego..whatever? I know in previous times when we argued I mostly always reached out first ( pathetic...I know ) thoughts?

Whatever your back story is...be sure of this. No matter if he is hurting, or worried or well beyond both. When a Virgo male gets sick and tired of bullshit..they walk and NEVER look back. When they are done with someone they are DONE. So you might want to begin the process of getting over him and moving on. He will only allow you to reach back out first so many times, but really..when their mind is made up, there will be NOTHING you can do to salvage the drama.

Hell, I'm amazed he lasted five years not being appreciated. That shit doesn't usually fly with Virgos. They'd rather be let go than to feel like or told they are a disappointment.

I think I clearly said I wasnt reaching out to him ...didnt I? Our relationship was not a disappointment but thanks for the gratuitous judgement. All I said is that in most of arguments - and last time I checked all relationships HAVE them - I made the first move to reconcile regardless of who was right or wrong. I love the guy, I'm not bashing him but the idea of a break of 2 weeks I wasn't down with that, thats the last thing we needed. So yes regardless of who broke it off, I know I did the right thing. I miss him and I still love him but unless he reaches out, we're done. All I was asking is would virgos reach out in this situation, THAT'S ALL. I'm not asking for your opinion on my relationship Geez! Thanks for the ones who actually answered!

P-angel, go take your xanax and keep your theories on women to yourself buddy.

Girlonfire84,

Did you slowly feel him distancing himself from the relationship? If this is true. Don't second guess yourself. You did the right thing. It hurts to know that msy nsve given up and was just waiting for you to make the move. Maybe he didn't want to hurt you. Virgo men can be very prideful, but they usually try to make an attempt to work things out with their SO. It may have been something you did along the way that turned him off, probably made him feel like he could take or leave the relationship.

Five years. You should be able to discuss this with him and be honest about your emotions. Try not to let your pride get in the way. It's the only way your going to receive any real closure.

Posted by girlonfire84All I was asking is would virgos reach out in this situation, THAT'S ALL.

Posted by girlonfire84

.... but the idea of a break of 2 weeks I wasn't down with that

Just like that ^^^^^ I'm always right.

He broke up with you, and you couldn't handle it.

That makes you a liar.

And we also see here that you hid the Op ... which means you can't handle owning your own words.


What do you actually have in the integrity department?

Posted by LetltB

Posted by girlonfire84All I was asking is would virgos reach out in this situation, THAT'S ALL.

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Why would he ever need a break from you after 5 yrs of being together?...cause hes tired of your bs game playing. If I love someone...I wont need to take a break...its either there or it isnt.

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Posted by girlonfire84
Leo

Ok, that didn't come to mind but it makes sense. Leo women and virgo men rarely get along well from experience. The generic dynamics goes where the leo woman has expectations of her man which virgo cannot meet just because of who he is.

I'm not offering any opinions as I have almost no factual experience to relate and share

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+1.

Oh, and P-Angel sounds totally correct in this case. Leos have fragile (and big) egos and they want to do the breaking up, it can't be any other way.

Posted by LetltB

Posted by girlonfire84All I was asking is would virgos reach out in this situation, THAT'S ALL.

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Posted by VirgoDragirl
I commend you for leaving him, Leo girl.

Maybe it's the scorpio moon in me but I for one can't stand Virgo guys. The self-important attitude make them tasteless if not tactless. I do have one long-time friend who is a Virgo, I didn't know at first but now that I know, I realize why I can't stand him either. If he is not a long-time friend, I'd have ditch him but yeah he is my long-time friend who wants to make friends now with hubby, etc, etc.

Im not a fan either. They make great friends though.