I GUESS I WILL LET IT BE

I cant really get any real advice from anyone that has dated a virgo male so I guess I will have to wait it out. I just always feel as though I am being scrutunized and would love to know what he is thinking.

dessandj, you are being scrutinized. i can almost guarantee it. and the only advice i can give you is to be natural, to do what you are naturally inclined to do in this situation. just go with the flow. whether it turns out good or bad, at least you'll know you were true to yourself and you did what you could without sacrificing yourself.

Maybe he's thinking... " I want to go for it but if I bring this Black woman home my family would disown/ kill me." Or he could be thinking, "I wonder what it's like to be with a Black woman."

Message posted by: Roxijam on 4/29/2007 3:44:14 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.131
is there a race issue with this one too?

if he's the kind of man to even consider the issue of colour.......then he's a total arsehole anyway!!

I don't think there ever was a racial issues, this BS being pulled up by infamous racist here namely ?professor brahn? in her original post when she said she is black and her subject of affections is immigrant from south or something..

Ease up ladies?!

Wow, I guess I should have explained a little better Yes I am Black and he is Mexican "btw he is not in need of a green card and we both own our homes so no one would really be marrying up"I dont remember everyone who made those comments but you know who you are. Anyway I should have said that he inspected my hand before he made that comment which I believe was just a response to being silly because I have never known him to be that way but he was laughing and is sometimes a really silly guy. I asked him outright if he was allowed to date outside his race and that was not a issue.I think his real issue is the fact we both work in the same place and as of latley I can see his point I get a lot of kissing noises, smirks, and various other immature treatment that no one would dream of giving him because he is a superviser, the bad part about it is we are noy doing anything to draw attention to us "no kissing ,holding hands, rubbing or anything like that apparently he is a very uptight guy who normally doesn't interact with others as he has with me.Yes he turned me down but has admitted he wants to go out.

dess, I'm not really sure what it is you want to know.

If you can ask specific questions then perhaps someone can help you figure it out.

I'd just check out the aspects in his chart. It saves me loads of time. lol