I knew you all hold grudges but...

Posted by edgelord
i've had more than one virgo take literal years before they've told me something i've done has hurt them or bothered them. i take it as they have a really hard time being vulnerable/feeling safe and once they reach that point they'll tell you.


virgos seem very strong. but they're still people like the rest of us.


i'm sure your friend was deeply hurt by it and didn't know how to tell you until now. which means you didn't make her feel comfortable until now.


virgo bishes are complicated.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
We notice more and better than other signs, we also have exceptional memories, and we don't forget betrayals, especially from "friends" of ours (and rightly so, those ones are even harder to forget) own up to it, apologize and move on, that should be enough for her to move on too. Since you sound so wound up and dramatic about it, there's probably some truth to the whole thing. Don't fool yourself even though you can try fooling us.

Posted by LibraMudra
I don't think you're being punked. I think you were just being yourself without realizing it as flirty and it looked bad to the virgo. Weird she is just now telling you. But as her friend now, I hope you are being empathethic. I know how a leo can get while confronted about something like this. I also know how sensitive a virgo can be. Just tell her you're sorry if you came off that way and that it hurt her even though it wasn't your intention to. If she doesn't move on from that, whatever.

Posted by MiZLeo
What she precieved as flirting was probably typical Leo behaviour that a lot of people mistake for flirting. I've been accused of flirting with people that I had no intention of flirting with before. When people bring it up I'm just like "Wtf are u talking about???? I was just being nice!"


Virgos do hide a lot of shit tho about the way they feel. And instead of asking you about it they hold it in and judge.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Leos are generally not very good at taking a good, deep look inside themselves in part because of their pride and in part because...they are just not very intellectual or emotionally intelligent, etc, and are also generally a bit too "innocent" and superficial to be able to examine the motivations of whatever they do or to be aware of how they might come across to others. Leo is not a sign of introspection. Not saying that they aren't capable of it, but it's just not what comes natural to them. Leos would rather blame anything outside of them for whatever they caused, than admit they were wrong.