I need help from Virgo males 🙏

Hello dear Virgos.

I am a scorpio female, i was in a relationship with an amazing virgo man (sun virgo, moon aquarius, ascendant in cancer and MC is aries). He was always talking about marriage and how much he loves me, and saying that he feels in heaven when we are together sitting looking at the beach. We always had random fight but it was never a serious fights just like a stupid ones. I always prefer to talk about everything that maybe doesnt feel the best in our relationship, for example i do prefer us talking when we calm down after a fight to solve things up, but my virgo is someone who refuses to apologize even when he is wrong, and i end up being the one who apologize because i never wanted to lose him.

When we broke up (a month ago) we had a fight as always but he seemed weird in the last 3 days before the breakup, i just tried to ask about what is wrong with him because i thought that maybe he needs some help or a shoulder, but he was so mean to me saying things he knows it hurts, and then my ego played a role and i said that we should breakup, he said nothing but "take care and i wish u all the best", then he started acting as a child changing his profile picture to a photo that i once asked him to remove, and started uploading photos that shows how happy he is!!

And the next day the big surprise was when he deleted me from social media!!! I tried talking to him on whatsapp and he was so mean to me and acting as if he doesnt know who i am and blocked me on phone and all social media!!!

I am sorry for saying many details but i thought that it is important to let u understand what i have been through, i was thinking that when he calms down he will talk to me but he still didnt and even didnt remove the blocks everywhere (he removes them and put them back).

The problem here is that i think i finally found the real love and i loved him as i never did before in my whole life, and i feel that if it takes me to wait for his msg my whole life i would never complain. I really love him and want him back and all i need now is only contacting him and talking to him as a mature people who can communicate even if we didnt get back together at least i need to calm my heart.

Please help me how can i reach him? And will he ever contact me again?

Virgos please help 🙏 what do u think is going on and why a virgo man who wanted and loved a woman as he said leave her this way without even talking?

For me it is very unrepectable for him to act this way towards me even if he did want a breakup 😭

Note: excuse me for any writing mistakes or any sentence that is not clear, English is my third language.

Posted by Tur

Have you tried smoke signals?

What are the smoke signals — 🤔

Nothing you can do... he has to reach out.

And I would never put that in stone as some never do.

So typical of Virgo guys.. they seem all interested in love one moment, then ice you , play passive aggressive.

You can't do anything, you tried to reach out, but if he doesn't realize your worth let him go.

Posted by Luny7

So typical of Virgo guys.. they seem all interested in love one moment, then ice you , play passive aggressive.

You can't do anything, you tried to reach out, but if he doesn't realize your worth let him go.

Ur right and i never tried to reach him out more than once and he refused to talk and blocked me. The problem is that i really cant get over him i think i fell in love completely as i never did.

Normally, i let go of anyone who acts like fools or mean but this time is different 😭😭

Posted by DiscernmentHumbly

Please help me how can i reach him? And will he ever contact me again?

It takes so much BS for us to block a person. What you're calling "little arguments all the time" sounds more like to me an obvious failure at communication. Those "little" things are precursors for the long haul to us and we have no time or energy to convince anyone of anything initially and we will ghost you if open communication cannot be civil. We do not enjoy wasting thoughts or emotions. Both are very precious to us. I doubt he's contacting you again. As far as reaching him goes, do you have his email?? If you do before you write him you better find a couple of honest, selfless bones and avoid talking about what you want.

Virgos please help 🙏 what do u think is going on and why a virgo man who wanted and loved a woman as he said leave her this way without even talking?

What's going on is you've crossed him someway that's serious. 80% of communication is nonverbal and we speak mostly through our actions. If his actions are cutting you off and actually taking the time to "act" like he doesn't know who you are, you did something to this guy. Your hands aren't clean because our personal relationships are the very heart of us. So either tell the whole story or accept the things you can't change.

Its like before the breakup we didnt argue at all, and 3 days before the breakup i tried to call him (i call once a day and never try to call more before he call me back) so instead of answering my calls he just replied in whatsapp. And i started feeling that there is something wrong, also he said that he miss me (although we met 2 days before) and wanted to go on a date and was planning for it through messages.

I thought that there is something wrong with him necause he never miss a day without calling me even if it was for one minute, thats why i thought that he is acting weird so i tried writing a message telling him about what i am feeling and he said "babe i kbow ur right", and just out of nowhere he started telling me reasons (that i felt they are not true) for not calling me back which lead to the final argument!

And suddenly, a couple weeks after what happened between us he deleted all his spcial media although i know how much he likes to post photos and stuff about his activities.

Im telling those details to say that i have a strong feeling that something happened to him in his personal life which lead him to be angry at me—

I just dont know, all i know is that i am still so in love with him and hope to at least talk about what happened to get a clear image 😭

wow u have the best of both commitment phobic worlds.. Virgo AND aquarius energy in a man..

and he is doing the crab shuffle... cancer rising ;p

hiding away..

omg.



these kind of guys... well.. i dont know... what i have noticed is they love a woman who is always unattainable.

if you have that kind of energy where you are ELUSIVE to them, they can't stop obsessing... just my take..

the virgo part they want to work for it.

He sounds pretty immature. Let him have a chance to grow up on his own and you take this time to yourself to work on whatever you feel is lacking in your own life. Both of you will come out better hopefully and maybe with the time and maturity, you can talk again. Just try not to put too much expectations on him when you do. Patience is the worst when it comes to matters of the heart....

My ex who still lives with me is a Virgo sun Aqua moon who I've been waiting on to mature haha they can be great men once they do. Pretty mean til then heh. Try not to take it personal. He's more frustrated with himself than you I'm sure.