I think im running from this virgo..smh

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by risphoenix on Saturday, January 7, 2012 and has 10 replies.
So I realise that he is still awesome and is a great guy but..I feel like Im running from him Im getting scared...I think he is too affectionate for Im not that type ...wtf is wrong with me? I do this to all the nice guys but Im starting to feel suffocated!!and as soon as I get a guy that doesnt do half of the things he does Im b@tchin and complaining...HELP PLEASE!!
so I think I should tell him we need to slow down...what do yall think? I dont want to hurt his feelings he seems so sensitive...so what would be a nice way to say it to a virgo? and by the way I did warn him that I do run from alot of relationships...but he is coming on so strong I just wanna take 2 steps back..the more he pushs the more I wanna run ..my venus is in sag and my mars is in virgo and he has venus and mars in virgo...smh...wth did I get myself into?
nope scorpio with sag moon
Its those moon in sag horse legs that are causing you to wanting to run away..not the scorpio in you smile
Relax, stay around. No need to drive yourself crazy.
Posted by Kaleidoscorp
risphoenix - It's what Shakalakaboomboom said. That darn Sagi moon can play havoc with a girl. I crave and need closeness and intimacy, but once I feel a guy is starting to crowd my space, and give me too much attention, it can drive me up a wall. I want a man to be a man, and too much togetherness can make me question his masculinity. I don't want someone to cling to me, but someone to walk beside me. I need to know that he is an independent man who is able to be intimate and close at times, and able to do his own things at times. I think my Scorp sun and Sag Moon battle it out and it's a coin toss as to which will win.

wow that is exactly how I feel...my problem if you want to hold my hand and be all over me you look like a female .. I feel that is my job..lol..but yes indeed you took the words right out my mouth...and the walk besides me thing is exactly what I want for it to be equal I dont want to dominate you or you dominate me lets work together..I need balance but then again I want to feel like the woman and have a man provide that security I swear I cant make up my mind..geeez!
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Its those moon in sag horse legs that are causing you to wanting to run away..not the scorpio in you smile
Relax, stay around. No need to drive yourself crazy.

Im trying to hang in there but I keep lookin at my track shoes ready to run for the hills..smh..Ill see how this plays out.
at MoonMan I know Im in a pickle what is a girl to do?? lol! but I think Im going to ask for some space to clear my head.
thank you so much .. I was scared that I might have to let him go cause he is so nice to me and I didnt want to do that ...but thanks for the helpful advise smile
Figure out why do you run? I am not sure about your Sag moon since idk how it impacts your runneresque persona smile, but yes talk to him about it. Slow things down. Virgo men can be very intense and fast. That is great for them, but it generally freaks women out, especially water ones it seems. Not sure how much time you are spending with this man, but it may be best for you to spend some time and just chill together. Get comfortable, trust each other. That sort of thing.
yea just spoke with him and he was very understanding so we plan to slow it down now so I wont run away and disappear lol

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