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I Upset my Virgo friend
Apparantly male and female can just be friends but most of the time one or the other or both want to go further. It is hard but it can work for some. I have male friends but I dont get too close. I guess it depends HOW close you become. When you start telling deep dark secrets and getting involved in deep conversation I guess its hard not to get closer.
Friends to lovers and ruining the friendship? Ummm....not as such because the basis of a wonderful relationship is being the best of friends first or becoming so anyway.....the only time it would ruin the friendship is if it were only a casual fling or one that turned out to be FWB....somebody always gets hurt and its normally the woman.
My own situation with a Virgo has grown from friends a work for the past 8 months and yes we became intimate 6 months down the track and have remained that way since. WE share our feelings and have very deep and meaningful conversations and OMG can we laugh and get along so well....so friends to lovers ruining a friendship? no but I guess if Virgo and I were to call it off yes that probably would strain the friendship to a huge degree...it would take some time to heal and to become distant friends again. Once you become intimate you've crossed that line and you'd better be prepared to take whatever does come after that. One backs out? the other feels rejected and so on and so on. In my case im not sure where we are headed but I cant see him not in my life in one way or the other....slowly but surely we are getting closer every week and I know Im the only one in his life that is that close with.
Your post doesnt give a lot of detail, hard to give any advice.
Friends to lovers and ruining the friendship? Ummm....not as such because the basis of a wonderful relationship is being the best of friends first or becoming so anyway.....the only time it would ruin the friendship is if it were only a casual fling or one that turned out to be FWB....somebody always gets hurt and its normally the woman.
My own situation with a Virgo has grown from friends a work for the past 8 months and yes we became intimate 6 months down the track and have remained that way since. WE share our feelings and have very deep and meaningful conversations and OMG can we laugh and get along so well....so friends to lovers ruining a friendship? no but I guess if Virgo and I were to call it off yes that probably would strain the friendship to a huge degree...it would take some time to heal and to become distant friends again. Once you become intimate you've crossed that line and you'd better be prepared to take whatever does come after that. One backs out? the other feels rejected and so on and so on. In my case im not sure where we are headed but I cant see him not in my life in one way or the other....slowly but surely we are getting closer every week and I know Im the only one in his life that is that close with.
Your post doesnt give a lot of detail, hard to give any advice.
Chatz -- I appreciate your response. Thank you, honey. 🙂
Best wishes to you with your Virgo Man.
No one ever can come close to my admiration I have for Virgo men.
Best wishes to you with your Virgo Man.
No one ever can come close to my admiration I have for Virgo men.
You seem to upset them quite a lot..someone trying to tell you something? lol...
It turns out he was just, busy. 🙂
But I was waiting for someone to pop that comment, missy. It's almost a given on here.
But I was waiting for someone to pop that comment, missy. It's almost a given on here.
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