I will not be made a fool of
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Ixania on Tuesday, December 13, 2011 and has 12 replies.
By this I mean that when it comes to relationships. I can fall madly in love, putting everything else aside and only think of this person for quit some time. Just to be clear I'm no stalker, but when I get my hopes up by a guy only to feel torn down after a period of time for some reason. I will get sad, devastated and mad. But when I understand this, I will no longer respond to this person in nothing more then a neutral way and be completely indifferent.
Someone understand what I mean? :p
and is there more Virgos who feel the same way?
Someone understand what I mean? :p
and is there more Virgos who feel the same way?
Posted by Ixania
By this I mean that when it comes to relationships. I can fall madly in love, putting everything else aside and only think of this person for quit some time. Just to be clear I'm no stalker, but when I get my hopes up by a guy only to feel torn down after a period of time for some reason. I will get sad, devastated and mad. But when I understand this, I will no longer respond to this person in nothing more then a neutral way and be completely indifferent.
Someone understand what I mean? :p
and is there more Virgos who feel the same way?
ask yourself this question what do want in a relationship if you dont know your better off being single till you find your answer lmao.
virgos have very high standards and when they are not fulfilled when become sad and upset and critical so i learned or ask myself what is good for me and what i need vs what i want.
I agree and can be the same way. Or just eliminate them from my life depending on the situation.
Posted by Ixania
I can fall madly in love, putting everything else aside and only think of this person for quit some time.
.... but when I get my hopes up by a guy only to feel torn down after a period of time for some reason. I will get sad, devastated and mad.
The problem that most people face, unbeknownst to even themselves is the fact that they think to love another person is to tolerate those qualities in them you don't like. Everybody has faults, right? Nobody is perfect, right?
But, then the problem arises = how can they possibly measure up to your standard of perfect, if you ignored those traits you didn't like because you thought it was a condition of love?
This seems to be a love-shadow that people fail to recognize and appears to be the number one cause of relationship issues. You see it day by day.
The exact "things" that you don't like, or, are mad at in that other person is what was ignored from the beginning. This now becomes the target used to hate on or argue about ... once disillusioned, this ignored trait now becomes the stick that breaks the camels back.
Posted by Ixania
.... but when I get my hopes up by a guy only to feel torn down after a period of time for some reason.
But when I understand this, I will no longer respond to this person in nothing more then a neutral way and be completely indifferent.
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You say, "for some reason", and the reason why you don't know what the reason is is because you are looking in the wrong place for it. The guy was always the way he is right now, he hasn't changed. There's no period of time to it for him to become a different person.
The problem is you get your hopes up while refusing to recognize what you don't like about him, and in hoping that he isn't that exact way that you ignored.
When I say, "you" I mean everyone, just dissecting this.
I'm certain that people really don't understand .... I'm certain that 99% of the people actually think that other people form thier circumstances, and they are merely reacting to other people. Not true.
The answer is to address that in which isn't attractive to you, that in which you know is going to be a thorn in the side ... and come to terms, rather than just let yourself fall head over heels in love with a person, completely disregarding that you have these standards and values in place for this very reason.
Don't fall in love EVER ... because to fall is your demise
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Posted by Layna
username, just that the lady is male.
Its a good thing his friends were there to say, "Hey man, what the fuck are you doing, are you that drunk?"
wgamador2 that damn that avi! Shit that's X-mas oriented, I seen it all! I can't...lol. Did you get that from South Park?
*that damn avi
Why, yes. Its Mr. Hanky the Christmas Poo.
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