If a Virgo cares about you...
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by MedullaOblongata on Tuesday, April 5, 2011 and has 38 replies.
You can see it in his eyes.
100% . There is no doubt about it.
100% . There is no doubt about it.
I would agree with that totally, yes.
Awe look, the wind is blowing !!!
There's no doubt, I can see it throught the window !!!
Posted by MedullaOblongata
You can see it in his eyes.
100% . There is no doubt about it.
This applies to the Virgo females too. I've been told I relax my gaze when I'm into someone, and smile with my eyes.
Posted by CLCNY30Posted by MedullaOblongata
You can see it in his eyes.
100% . There is no doubt about it.
This applies to the Virgo females too. I've been told I relax my gaze when I'm into someone, and smile with my eyes.click to expand
I've been told the same thing
I never looked into the virgo's eyes im interested in, but I know he looked into my eyes when he kissed me. I (capricorn) don't know why I avoid his eye contact!
Capris. Take a look, you will be able to tell. I guarantee it.
I see this "look" when my Virgo looks at me, as well as when my bestfriend (who is also a Virgo) looks at her boyfriend. You can ALWAYS tell in their eyes.
I see this "look" when my Virgo looks at me, as well as when my bestfriend (who is also a Virgo) looks at her boyfriend. You can ALWAYS tell in their eyes.
Posted by MedullaOblongata
Capris. Take a look, you will be able to tell. I guarantee it.
I see this "look" when my Virgo looks at me, as well as when my bestfriend (who is also a Virgo) looks at her boyfriend. You can ALWAYS tell in their eyes.
well scorps are well known for that then virgos a when virgo looks at you tha virgo is either thinking or analyze you lmao
yep you can see it but if you ask about it they'ld say no.
*snicker*
Posted by MedullaOblongata
Capris. Take a look, you will be able to tell. I guarantee it.
I see this "look" when my Virgo looks at me, as well as when my bestfriend (who is also a Virgo) looks at her boyfriend. You can ALWAYS tell in their eyes.
I think I caught a glimpse of it. He was looking into my eyes or face and kinda almost squinting maybe....I'm really shy when I'm around him so I never look at him directly. That or I'm drunk lol
That's only because we will be staring at you, near endlessly.
Yep! I agree. I saw it - full of love it was.. I even have a photo to prove it! Gosh I am so into this guy but he is so complicated. I can't read him.. He's hot and he's cold, he's up and he's down... you know the song!
I don't know what he is thinking (well, I can feel he really likes me but he doesn't say it right out) and when I ask him personal stuff or stuff about why he suddenly stops sending me messages, he will answer that he is so caught up in shit in his life, and that he want's to change, and that he couldn't be there for me in the way that he wanted to so he couldn't contact me etc. etc. and in the same sentence he will send me a kiss. It's like... what the hell is going on?
Basically I know for sure he likes me. A couple of weeks ago we would talk on the phone (or on the web with the camera on) and just sit quiet and look at eachother. Then suddenly nothing for about 2 weeks. (it got pretty intense in the end)
I know he is passionate.
I think he is probably scared about his passion and so he is trying to think logically and so trying to keep away from me. But in the same time he is basically telling he how he is on long term organising his life to get closer to me. Everything he says is in my favour but he doesn't say anything personal about me. So he will say something like.. I have started thinking that this place is not good for my kids. (knowing for well where I live it is great for kids) Or he will say, I wanna start working properly and I can't do that from here... (again knowing the base of the company we work in, is where I live) Why can't he just say... Listen I am thinking about moving over your way and I really like you, but I have to sort some stuff out first. I can accept that, but now he keeps me guessing.
Does he want reassurance from me? Or is it the opposite, he want's to make sure that I know he is not moving over ONLY for me..
I don't know what he is thinking (well, I can feel he really likes me but he doesn't say it right out) and when I ask him personal stuff or stuff about why he suddenly stops sending me messages, he will answer that he is so caught up in shit in his life, and that he want's to change, and that he couldn't be there for me in the way that he wanted to so he couldn't contact me etc. etc. and in the same sentence he will send me a kiss. It's like... what the hell is going on?
Basically I know for sure he likes me. A couple of weeks ago we would talk on the phone (or on the web with the camera on) and just sit quiet and look at eachother. Then suddenly nothing for about 2 weeks. (it got pretty intense in the end)
I know he is passionate.
I think he is probably scared about his passion and so he is trying to think logically and so trying to keep away from me. But in the same time he is basically telling he how he is on long term organising his life to get closer to me. Everything he says is in my favour but he doesn't say anything personal about me. So he will say something like.. I have started thinking that this place is not good for my kids. (knowing for well where I live it is great for kids) Or he will say, I wanna start working properly and I can't do that from here... (again knowing the base of the company we work in, is where I live) Why can't he just say... Listen I am thinking about moving over your way and I really like you, but I have to sort some stuff out first. I can accept that, but now he keeps me guessing.
Does he want reassurance from me? Or is it the opposite, he want's to make sure that I know he is not moving over ONLY for me..
Libra08,
So true.
Capris,
You kind of have to read between the lines with Virgos. They're not verbally emotive so you have to pay attention to how he shows it in other ways.
Cajun,
HAHA You guys really are peculiar like that.
Leowoman,
He really isn't! If he's even talking to you regularly, you already have a significant advantage. And if he's always looking at you, he's fantasizing about you. lol
So true.
Capris,
You kind of have to read between the lines with Virgos. They're not verbally emotive so you have to pay attention to how he shows it in other ways.
Cajun,
HAHA You guys really are peculiar like that.
Leowoman,
He really isn't! If he's even talking to you regularly, you already have a significant advantage. And if he's always looking at you, he's fantasizing about you. lol
I am presuming that if a Virgo male does things for you, for example in my case, cleans your bike up, gets food for you and suggests meeting every day, walking you home if it is dark, that this means a Virgo likes you somewhat. I tend to go by actions as I have found one cannot anticipate verbal expressions of like too often from this sign. I think I would hit a problem if I were a female who needs everything to be spelt out in words to believe it is there.
Posted by Grael1975
I am presuming that if a Virgo male does things for you, for example in my case, cleans your bike up, gets food for you and suggests meeting every day, walking you home if it is dark, that this means a Virgo likes you somewhat. I tend to go by actions as I have found one cannot anticipate verbal expressions of like too often from this sign. I think I would hit a problem if I were a female who needs everything to be spelt out in words to believe it is there.
Agree.
Posted by Grael1975
I am presuming that if a Virgo male does things for you, for example in my case, cleans your bike up, gets food for you and suggests meeting every day, walking you home if it is dark, that this means a Virgo likes you somewhat. I tend to go by actions as I have found one cannot anticipate verbal expressions of like too often from this sign. I think I would hit a problem if I were a female who needs everything to be spelt out in words to believe it is there.
Two thumbs up!! And yes, it's definitely in the eyes.
Posted by Grael1975
I am presuming that if a Virgo male does things for you, for example in my case, cleans your bike up, gets food for you and suggests meeting every day, walking you home if it is dark, that this means a Virgo likes you somewhat. I tend to go by actions as I have found one cannot anticipate verbal expressions of like too often from this sign. I think I would hit a problem if I were a female who needs everything to be spelt out in words to believe it is there.
yes he cares..and he'd do that for any man or woman he cares about and considers his friend. They have a need to be needed. And i take a back seat often to people my virgo 'cares' for any hour of any day. I've learned that to be with him as his partner, I have to accept that about him, even if sometimes it bugs ME.
I agree...Virgos show they care in the way they look at you and the things they do for you
When the VirGuy looks at me I feel like his eyes are twinkling...He sometimes has the weight of the world on his shoulders but he always seems happy to see me and his mood seems lighter.
Being a Leo, it's not easy to wait for attention and you always have a deep desire to have affection just thrown upon you but in the last year I've learned that someone can show how they feel about you in subtler and more significant ways....taking an interest in your who you are as a person and getting to know you, encouraging you, offering suggestions, texting you while your on vacation just to see how it's going, even teasing you playfully to build a rapport with you have all shown me this guy likes me, thinks about me when we aren't together and cares about me (at least I think that's what all these things mean??!!) I have definitely learned that just because something isn't over the top obvious it doesn't mean it doesn't exist and isn't felt deeply.
When the VirGuy looks at me I feel like his eyes are twinkling...He sometimes has the weight of the world on his shoulders but he always seems happy to see me and his mood seems lighter.
Being a Leo, it's not easy to wait for attention and you always have a deep desire to have affection just thrown upon you but in the last year I've learned that someone can show how they feel about you in subtler and more significant ways....taking an interest in your who you are as a person and getting to know you, encouraging you, offering suggestions, texting you while your on vacation just to see how it's going, even teasing you playfully to build a rapport with you have all shown me this guy likes me, thinks about me when we aren't together and cares about me (at least I think that's what all these things mean??!!) I have definitely learned that just because something isn't over the top obvious it doesn't mean it doesn't exist and isn't felt deeply.
Posted by Burberryplaid
I agree...Virgos show they care in the way they look at you and the things they do for you
When the VirGuy looks at me I feel like his eyes are twinkling...He sometimes has the weight of the world on his shoulders but he always seems happy to see me and his mood seems lighter.
Being a Leo, it's not easy to wait for attention and you always have a deep desire to have affection just thrown upon you but in the last year I've learned that someone can show how they feel about you in subtler and more significant ways....taking an interest in your who you are as a person and getting to know you, encouraging you, offering suggestions, texting you while your on vacation just to see how it's going, even teasing you playfully to build a rapport with you have all shown me this guy likes me, thinks about me when we aren't together and cares about me (at least I think that's what all these things mean??!!) I have definitely learned that just because something isn't over the top obvious it doesn't mean it doesn't exist and isn't felt deeply.
You got it!
Posted by MedullaOblongata
You can see it in his eyes.
100% . There is no doubt about it.
I definitely agree with this!! I've dated quite a few virgos in my life and when they like you they get this goofy look in their eyes. It's adorable.
So true. I love my virgo boyfriend
I cant wait to look into his eyes. Plus he's always complaining that I won't look in his eyes (Im extremely bashful around him), but I will...to see if I see some sparkling care in there lol
Plus he's always complaining that I won't look in his eyes (Im extremely bashful around him), but I will...to see if I see some sparkling care in there lolI heard that if a virgo woman is into u, she will have a concerned or worried look in her eyes when she looks at u. I'm so in love with this Virgal that its driving me crazy. I wish that my mind controlled my feelings ( is that an oxymoron?) Rather than the other way around. Its getting to the point where I want to just tell her i'm in love with her and just deal with the consequences. Somethings gotta happen or I gotta let go. The push/pull is too much. She gives me these little pieces of her ( and during these times I feel complete/whole) and then she's distant. Whats with the pulling away. I cant figure out if she's into me or not, and we were friends before I developed the passionate feelings for her. Something inside tells me she feels what I feel too, but she wont give in or whatever. Sorry for posting my problem on your thread, but I dont talk to anybody about this. This site is pretty much my only outlet.
Well, did you take care of the divorce? Maybe that's why she's hesitant and refuses to give in. She may very well feel the same for you but she has her standards, and refuses to play herself into the role of mistress.
Divorce is happening now. Papers filed and all that goodness. Sorry if i'm being irritating, just confused. I'm sure u all are sick of hearing about it. I'll let u know when something significant happens. Until then, I'll leave ya'll alone. Thanks though.
Posted by VirgoDeVillePosted by VirgoVixxxen
Well, did you take care of the divorce? Maybe that's why she's hesitant and refuses to give in. She may very well feel the same for you but she has her standards, and refuses to play herself into the role of mistress.
+ a million. Idk how many times we've said this but he just keeps playing the helpless victim card, or atleast that's how it'd coming off. Don't like your situation? CHANGE IT!click to expand
Yeah, I don't think she wants to subject herself to this type of situation. He has to put all of his ducks in a row first!
Posted by Joshmoe
Divorce is happening now. Papers filed and all that goodness. Sorry if i'm being irritating, just confused. I'm sure u all are sick of hearing about it. I'll let u know when something significant happens. Until then, I'll leave ya'll alone. Thanks though.
Stop it. No need for the slight dramatics. You don't have to leave. Just handle your situation at home first (separate residences and all), get your heart and mind right, then grow some cojones and tell Virgal how you feel.
We like things in order. No messy situations for us. Big nada.
No dramatics, she knows how I feel and I moved out over a year ago. And cojones?...I got plenty cojones homegirl. It just seems pointless to post about it anymore until something more than the norm happens. Thats all. I'm really not a dramatic person at all. In fact, I cant stand drama.
Good.
i noticed that my virgo smiles with his eyes when he listen to me talk
Posted by MoonMan
" grow some cojones"...I luv it when you talk tough VirgoVixxxen (cos I reckon you're soft on the inside)???
MM!
You blasted Cancers and that damn "intuition"! I should kick ya e-butt for putting me all out there like that!
yessss. awwwww
Posted by MedullaOblongata
You can see it in his eyes.
100% . There is no doubt about it.
Posted by caprisPosted by MedullaOblongata
Capris. Take a look, you will be able to tell. I guarantee it.
I see this "look" when my Virgo looks at me, as well as when my bestfriend (who is also a Virgo) looks at her boyfriend. You can ALWAYS tell in their eyes.
I think I caught a glimpse of it. He was looking into my eyes or face and kinda almost squinting maybe....I'm really shy when I'm around him so I never look at him directly. That or I'm drunk lolclick to expand
Maybe he's short sighted and needs glasses? LOL
true that they don't go all out and express the love verbally.
I can see it from the look in his eyes and what he does to please me & show he cares.
He likes watching what I do when I'm not looking at him & when I catch him, I see him smiling alone with this innocent softening eyes. I'm an affectionate & expressive virgo and I show my passion (maybe because of the passion & intensity I have because of my mars in scorpio placement) but my virgo is not as expressive as I am. He is affectionate but not as affectionate as I am..he shows it in his own way, he loves cuddling me and caressing me when I hug him in the couch, buying me gifts, extending his shoulder when I want to rest my head on him while he's busy replying his emails on the hp, hold the small of my back when i walk/stand next to him, wanting to meet my mom etc
I can see it from the look in his eyes and what he does to please me & show he cares.
He likes watching what I do when I'm not looking at him & when I catch him, I see him smiling alone with this innocent softening eyes. I'm an affectionate & expressive virgo and I show my passion (maybe because of the passion & intensity I have because of my mars in scorpio placement) but my virgo is not as expressive as I am. He is affectionate but not as affectionate as I am..he shows it in his own way, he loves cuddling me and caressing me when I hug him in the couch, buying me gifts, extending his shoulder when I want to rest my head on him while he's busy replying his emails on the hp, hold the small of my back when i walk/stand next to him, wanting to meet my mom etc
Posted by Burberryplaid
I agree...Virgos show they care in the way they look at you and the things they do for you
When the VirGuy looks at me I feel like his eyes are twinkling...He sometimes has the weight of the world on his shoulders but he always seems happy to see me and his mood seems lighter.
Being a Leo, it's not easy to wait for attention and you always have a deep desire to have affection just thrown upon you but in the last year I've learned that someone can show how they feel about you in subtler and more significant ways....taking an interest in your who you are as a person and getting to know you, encouraging you, offering suggestions, texting you while your on vacation just to see how it's going, even teasing you playfully to build a rapport with you have all shown me this guy likes me, thinks about me when we aren't together and cares about me (at least I think that's what all these things mean??!!) I have definitely learned that just because something isn't over the top obvious it doesn't mean it doesn't exist and isn't felt deeply.
oh and resting his head on my head when I rest my head on his shoulder. aww cweet
Signs a Virgo likes you
Eager to please
Virgos are naturally helpful and efficient individuals. Therefore, when a Virgo male or female likes someone, they??re very eager to please. Are you hungry? How are you feeling? Is there anything that I can get you? A Virgo in like/love will make you feel like a king or queen. They??re concerned with you well-being because they care. Rather than waiting to get in a relationship, a Virgo displays their eagerness to please right away. It??s an expression of love in a sense.
Affection
Here??s one thing, Virgos are not quick to give compliments, not because they??re mean, but because they??re already immersed in the thoughts of what??s going on in their world, in their head. However, a Virgo that makes it an effort to compliment you and make you special is definitely into you.
Wait, so why is there distance?
Once a Virgo??s feelings become stronger, they turn within. They resort to going into their own shell and analyzing you to a T. Opening up is a big big big thing for a Virgo, and therefore they have to test your character, assess your worth. They put together every little detail about you and him/her trying to see whether or not the relationship will or will not work. Virgos are the ones who love long term relationships, so if they seem distant and disappear for awhile, leave them be. If a Virgo asks for distance because they want to think, it??s because they need to recharge their mind. They??ll come back. That??s a promise. Just make sure you text them to check up on them; let them know you miss them.
Friction. Cold. Huh?
Some Virgos are really cold when they like you. It can be irritating because you think they??re really mean, but that??s just how they are. You have to be strong when you get into a relationship with a Virgo because they want someone that could handle anything tossed at them. Never be too emotional and sappy; tell them how you feel. Nevertheless, Virgos are very reserved with their feelings. They prefer to have them blossom over time. If you love/like Virgo enough, you will have patience with them when it comes to revealing their feelings.
Let??s Hang out!
Virgos can be hard to read. Yet eyes are the window of the soul and a Virgo will deliver their emotions through their eyes. Staring and eye contact signals that the Virgo likes you. Also, if a Virgo likes you, they??ll want to spend a lot of time with you, talking and find
Eager to please
Virgos are naturally helpful and efficient individuals. Therefore, when a Virgo male or female likes someone, they??re very eager to please. Are you hungry? How are you feeling? Is there anything that I can get you? A Virgo in like/love will make you feel like a king or queen. They??re concerned with you well-being because they care. Rather than waiting to get in a relationship, a Virgo displays their eagerness to please right away. It??s an expression of love in a sense.
Affection
Here??s one thing, Virgos are not quick to give compliments, not because they??re mean, but because they??re already immersed in the thoughts of what??s going on in their world, in their head. However, a Virgo that makes it an effort to compliment you and make you special is definitely into you.
Wait, so why is there distance?
Once a Virgo??s feelings become stronger, they turn within. They resort to going into their own shell and analyzing you to a T. Opening up is a big big big thing for a Virgo, and therefore they have to test your character, assess your worth. They put together every little detail about you and him/her trying to see whether or not the relationship will or will not work. Virgos are the ones who love long term relationships, so if they seem distant and disappear for awhile, leave them be. If a Virgo asks for distance because they want to think, it??s because they need to recharge their mind. They??ll come back. That??s a promise. Just make sure you text them to check up on them; let them know you miss them.
Friction. Cold. Huh?
Some Virgos are really cold when they like you. It can be irritating because you think they??re really mean, but that??s just how they are. You have to be strong when you get into a relationship with a Virgo because they want someone that could handle anything tossed at them. Never be too emotional and sappy; tell them how you feel. Nevertheless, Virgos are very reserved with their feelings. They prefer to have them blossom over time. If you love/like Virgo enough, you will have patience with them when it comes to revealing their feelings.
Let??s Hang out!
Virgos can be hard to read. Yet eyes are the window of the soul and a Virgo will deliver their emotions through their eyes. Staring and eye contact signals that the Virgo likes you. Also, if a Virgo likes you, they??ll want to spend a lot of time with you, talking and find
and a Virgo would never waste. Consider yourself special when time is spent with you.
Positive description
Ultimately, it is hard for a Virgo to trust people. They??re typically very sensitive and easily hurt, and so if they share any intimate details about themselves with you, it??s a sure sign of attraction. Virgos value intelligence, education, knowledge and a good convo in a partner. Therefore, if a Virgo describes you are ???smart??, ???intelligent??, or ???fun to talk to??, it??s a huge indication that they like you!
Positive description
Ultimately, it is hard for a Virgo to trust people. They??re typically very sensitive and easily hurt, and so if they share any intimate details about themselves with you, it??s a sure sign of attraction. Virgos value intelligence, education, knowledge and a good convo in a partner. Therefore, if a Virgo describes you are ???smart??, ???intelligent??, or ???fun to talk to??, it??s a huge indication that they like you!
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