Hi everyone, I met this girl about three years ago, we used to work together, we have so much in common and I feel like can talk to her about anything, but we stopped working together and she moved to out of state, we stayed in contact time to time , but she moved back town and we started talking again , I expressed my interest in her and how I wanted to get to know her on a deeper level, she told me she was also interested to and she wanted to share some other things that was going on in her life , she told me she recently got out of a relationship and how hurt she was from it and she wanted for me and her to move slow , I had no problem with that, so through that week we texted each other more than before and she opened up to me, I was really getting to know her better and I feel that I did get ahead of myself, I sent her a picture complementing her smile and told her good morning, she didn't reply that whole day, for four days straight I text a called her everyday and tried to message her on social media, so on the fifth day I told myself I was just going to wait for her to get back in contact with me, but I couldn't wait sent her one more message , and week past I was still thinking about her , so I text her again and she replied , she told me how sorry she was, and she told me the message I sent her did scare her and sometimes she can shutdown when she's thinking about alot, she just told me that she really had to find herself and she didn't want to put me in a bad situation , were in contact with each other but not the way it was at first, I really don't want to walk away from this
I am a Virgo and in love with a Virgo/ libra cusp, it does get scary if someone is too pushy and direct, she is interested to let you in, if she was not she will shut you out. You have to take it slow. What works with me though is, I like it happen naturally. If you talk about it too much or compliments scare me.
What is your date of birth.
Wow my crushes birthday is same, I can't figure him out, he seems detached and in his own world, with a soft demeanor, but he follows me and flirts a little with me
What are you like what do you think, area you a loner?
Actually the flirting and following that's me, i can be detached and be I my own world but that's because I'm misunderstood alot and I try to think of the best way to explain what some don't understand about me but Im always going to let the ones I care about know how I feel, I'm not a loner , I'm about communication when it comes to a relationship, sometimes I think too much when it comes getting to know someone I'm really interested in , I try make time out for them as much as I can , I don't have to see them everyday but I like to hear from them, very honest, direct, helpful, and for the way I think , if I feel that I can fully express myself to the one I'm interested in we have a understanding and that's how I think, I want to be understood, I hope that answer helps
Thanks dear it does, good luck to.