I'm in love with my best friend
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by FireFish on Wednesday, December 18, 2013 and has 11 replies.
I'm a pisces male and we seem to have the same ina fire for everything emotionally. I cant understand her and she is intrigued by how I work. We seem to be good at handling the emotions the other cant and helping each other through anything that were confused about. We can talk forever about nothing and never get bored. But there's is this huge unspoken vibe between us that I know we both feel burning through us whenever we speak. Its there from the start it doesnt grow in conversation. Weve joked about being together but always brushed it off. Shes been throw alot of pain in her past and im pretty sure is afraid of getn hurt again. Shes seen me with other girls and how much love and faithfulness i give, so im sure she has no doubts about how i am with someone. Im almost certain she will run away and im absolutely dying right now. Ive tried too ignore it too save the friendship but i fear for future relationships and my feelings for her. No distractions will fade this feeling.
My question is how can I get her too convince herself that everything is fine if I make an attempt to do something about this.
Posted by FireFish
I'm a pisces male and we seem to have the same ina fire for everything emotionally. I CAN understand her and she is intrigued by how I work. We seem to be good at handling the emotions the other cant and helping each other through anything that were confused about. We can talk forever about nothing and never get bored. But there's is this huge unspoken vibe between us that I know we both feel burning through us whenever we speak. Its there from the start it doesnt grow in conversation. Weve joked about being together but always brushed it off. Shes been throw alot of pain in her past and im pretty sure is afraid of getn hurt again. Shes seen me with other girls and how much love and faithfulness i give, so im sure she has no doubts about how i am with someone. Im almost certain she will run away and im absolutely dying right now. Ive tried too ignore it too save the friendship but i fear for future relationships and my feelings for her. No distractions will fade this feeling.
You're a pisces and that makes you very intuitive. So I trust your assessment. Still at some point you gotta shit or get off the pot. In the words of Young MC, bust a move!
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Good luck!
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Good luck!
Thanks alot, i used to over analyse everything and get it wrong but ive found a happy medium within the last year and im usually right these days. I just dont know whether it would be better to take an opportunity to kiss her or too simply confess. Which would make her feel more special? spoken or unspoken :S
Spoken, IMO.
You say you don't understand her..this would be a stumbling block later on.
Don't succumb to this illusion of perfection until something actually happens between you two
You say you don't understand her..this would be a stumbling block later on.
Don't succumb to this illusion of perfection until something actually happens between you two
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Dude, just go for it, do whatever your heart is telling you to do next time shes in front of you
Posted by FireFish
Thanks alot, i used to over analyse everything and get it wrong but ive found a happy medium within the last year and im usually right these days. I just dont know whether it would be better to take an opportunity to kiss her or too simply confess. Which would make her feel more special? spoken or unspoken :S
Spoken or unsopoken
A little bit of both :p
Just tell her. Dont just be like omg I like you I want to eat your face omnomnom... Slow down. Have a well thought-out plan. Know youre going in with the intention of letting her know how you feel and lay it on her gently and thoroughly so that she doesnt think you are joking.
Youve said yall have joked about it, so be serious about it this time. Look her in the eyes, BE SINCERE, muster up the courage, and confess your feelings.
You fishes are sooo smooth with expressing your feelings that you have noooothing to worry about
Youve said yall have joked about it, so be serious about it this time. Look her in the eyes, BE SINCERE, muster up the courage, and confess your feelings.
You fishes are sooo smooth with expressing your feelings that you have noooothing to worry about
Thanks Peanutbutter.
I'm not shy at all. I'm just worried ive read it wrong even though im certain i havent. And yeah i know exactly what too say and how too hit her deeply. Its almost second nature. I've just gotta wait for timing
Thanks
I'm not shy at all. I'm just worried ive read it wrong even though im certain i havent. And yeah i know exactly what too say and how too hit her deeply. Its almost second nature. I've just gotta wait for timing
Thanks
Yeh I say if you want to talk to her about this then go for it. Pisces are very adept at things like this, the understanding about each other is the thing here and it will come in time.
You both love each other so yeh just talk to her about this.
You both love each other so yeh just talk to her about this.
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