Is he only interested in sex with me?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by hopelesscapricorn on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 and has 32 replies.
So I've just recently met this new virgo guy and we met at a coffee shop. We hit it off instantly, talked for about 4 hours. Everything was going fine until he asked me what bra size I wear (prior to this, he told me he saw one of my pictures in a bathing suit on social media and he's always been a breast man so he was intrigued by my size).

So I told him I wasn't going to tell him that because I felt that question was inapprops.

Then he asked me if there's a such thing as "too big of a penis" and asked me if I've been with guys who have curved dicks.

Me being the conservative capricorn that I am, I blushed and switched subjects.

Then today he asks me if I'm a freak when it comes to sex or if I'm conservative.

I was really starting to like this guy, but the sex questions are throwing me off. Is this normal for a virguy? Should I be offended or just appreciate his straight-forwardness?
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do you really have to ask this? ffs duh!
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lol I like to give people the benefit of the doubt..
maybe if I tell him he's offending me, he'll stop
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he asked you this at the first meeting, ha! seriously, if you had any class you would have told him to fck off and bounced! what a douche. but they again you are advertising yourself on social media with the bikini pics so there you have it.
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It's funny to me, because I would NEVER ask a girl this unless in a long-term relation with her.

It's just him who's asking these sexual questions. Doesn't have to do anything with all the Virgo guys.

If you tell him that he's offending you, he might not ask again, but in his mind, he'll still wanna talk about all that.

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Move on. If a guy is asking those questions on the first date then all he wants is sex. It's a red flag that he's immature and maybe trying to figure out how receptive you are to having sex with him. He's not even working for it.
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The sarcasm is really not needed. I thought this was a forum for support, not to be ass holes to each other. I swear some people are so unhappy with themselves.

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Posted by VenusStar
Move on. If a guy is asking those questions on the first date then all he wants is sex. It's a red flag that he's immature and maybe trying to figure out how receptive you are to having sex with him. He's not even working for it.


My thoughts exactly, thanks for being respectful and answering my question I appreciate it.
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Posted by KittenLaRouge
he asked you this at the first meeting, ha! seriously, if you had any class you would have told him to fck off and bounced! what a douche. but they again you are advertising yourself on social media with the bikini pics so there you have it.


I don't have class but your avatar is a picture of.....lmao nevermind.
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Posted by Vixen2
Ok...REALLY weird:

"Everything was going fine until he asked me what bra size I wear (prior to this, he told me he saw one of my pictures in a bathing suit on social media and he's always been a breast man so he was intrigued by my size). "

ummm...how would he see a bathing suit pic of you on social media? Do you have mutual friends, is your account private...that sounds so far from coincidental that it is creepy. Just saying....

This guy is a weirdo and obviously doesn't know how to engage women...he sounds a bit amateurish and like his only experience with women are chick's from Tinder.

Keep it moving....dodge this bullet.


well we've been friends on instagram for about 4-5 months and we're just now meeting in person because I was leery. But because I've been trying to get over another virgo guy, I decided to give it a shot and give other guys a chance. And then this is what I end up with! Lol I should have stuck to my gut instinct and left this creep in my DM's.
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Posted by hopelesscapricorn
The sarcasm is really not needed. I thought this was a forum for support, not to be ass holes to each other. I swear some people are so unhappy with themselves.




I have yet to meet a dumb cap. Hello nice to meet you!
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B i t c h how bout F U CK you
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OP I'm curious what is your age? You sound as though you've never gone on dates before and been in relationships all this time.

one word. run the f**k away. this is the kind of guy that has the potential for date rape.
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Follow your gut instinct and RUN. If a guy makes comments that you (not anyone else) think are inappropriate, I suggest you hit the road, because it seems you aren't compatible anyway.
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The only senerio where it'd be okay for a man to ask a women her bra size on a first meeting is if he's exchanging $ $ for sex.

Ditch the ahole, Op.
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Posted by KittenLaRouge
he asked you this at the first meeting, ha! seriously, if you had any class you would have told him to fck off and bounced! what a douche. but they again you are advertising yourself on social media with the bikini pics so there you have it.


Not sure if you were ever taught this in your many etiquette classes, but telling someone to "fuck off" shows what most of us consider to be a *lack* of class.

That's number one.

Number two, I have photos of myself in my bikini on my social media because I was on a beach with my children.

"So there you have it."

Do you blame rape victims, too?
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Posted by hopelesscapricorn
So I've just recently met this new virgo guy and we met at a coffee shop. We hit it off instantly, talked for about 4 hours. Everything was going fine until he asked me what bra size I wear (prior to this, he told me he saw one of my pictures in a bathing suit on social media and he's always been a breast man so he was intrigued by my size).

So I told him I wasn't going to tell him that because I felt that question was inapprops.

Then he asked me if there's a such thing as "too big of a penis" and asked me if I've been with guys who have curved dicks.

Me being the conservative capricorn that I am, I blushed and switched subjects.

Then today he asks me if I'm a freak when it comes to sex or if I'm conservative.

I was really starting to like this guy, but the sex questions are throwing me off. Is this normal for a virguy? Should I be offended or just appreciate his straight-forwardness?


It's not normal for any guy. He was acting like you met on Tinder or Ashley Madison or something.

He wants sex, and if you found any of those questions off-putting, just cut him off. He's clearly looking to get laid and he wants to know if you're DTF without flat-out asking.

The penis questions were icky. Breast questions can happen, odd, but I may have given it a pass if it hadn't gotten any worse.
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He's a pervert.
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Uh, you should be offended. That's just inappropriate, he didn't even give you much time to get to know you, he just wants sex. I agree with what another poster wrote, it's as if you two met on Tinder or some other dating/hook up app and he just wants to go. If you're not into that, especially by him talking about his crooked dick, I would suggest to leave and make sure that he knows that you intend to cut ties with him or that it's not appropriate. And even if he does apologize for saying that to you, I feel like he made his intentions clear in the first place that THAT is what he wants, and if he doesn't get that, the attraction he feels towards you would be significantly decreased. I think he just sees you as a potential sex partner, especially if you're younger, you'd be more attractive to him.

I don't think it's a Virgo thing, and if it is, he either hit rock bottom and is trying to sort out his life and cope, or it has something to do with his mars sign, because I know as a Virgo, I would never dare to just straight up ask my guy whom I had just met about his sex life. I might later on to try to probe into him. If I ask during the early stages, it would be just for fun, but I think he's serious.

If you want to give him some doubt and see what he's about then go ahead, but if you do that, I would be weary of having feelings for him and keep in mind that he might just not value you as a person like you should be.
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I would've told him that I have a curved dick strap on and to pony up!
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He just wants to fuck you.
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Posted by hopelesscapricorn
So I've just recently met this new virgo guy and we met at a coffee shop. We hit it off instantly, talked for about 4 hours. Everything was going fine until he asked me what bra size I wear (prior to this, he told me he saw one of my pictures in a bathing suit on social media and he's always been a breast man so he was intrigued by my size).

So I told him I wasn't going to tell him that because I felt that question was inapprops.

Then he asked me if there's a such thing as "too big of a penis" and asked me if I've been with guys who have curved dicks.

Me being the conservative capricorn that I am, I blushed and switched subjects.

Then today he asks me if I'm a freak when it comes to sex or if I'm conservative.

I was really starting to like this guy, but the sex questions are throwing me off. Is this normal for a virguy? Should I be offended or just appreciate his straight-forwardness?

virgos act like that all the time , if he complitments your boobs is because he really like them and it's not only sex ,virgos have a connection when they have sex (it's not only sex), i know this because my best friend is virgo
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Posted by hopelesscapricorn
So I've just recently met this new virgo guy and we met at a coffee shop. We hit it off instantly, talked for about 4 hours. Everything was going fine until he asked me what bra size I wear (prior to this, he told me he saw one of my pictures in a bathing suit on social media and he's always been a breast man so he was intrigued by my size).

So I told him I wasn't going to tell him that because I felt that question was inapprops.

Then he asked me if there's a such thing as "too big of a penis" and asked me if I've been with guys who have curved dicks.

Me being the conservative capricorn that I am, I blushed and switched subjects.

Then today he asks me if I'm a freak when it comes to sex or if I'm conservative.

I was really starting to like this guy, but the sex questions are throwing me off. Is this normal for a virguy? Should I be offended or just appreciate his straight-forwardness?


I would have left him in the coffee shop with an eyeroll as soon as he made the bra comment.
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Not even a Virgo thing but all men have to have a sexual attraction to women to proceed, the higher the physical attraction for guy especially a Virgo, is a positive, the more he sees you as sexually attractive the more he likes you, other then sex talk is he a good to you, if so, I wouldn't be quick to cut him off. I recommend you make wait until you are ready, you could easily meet a guy who doesn't say a word sexually too you, but once you open he disappears.
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I'm hearing this more and more from women lately.

Sex is such easy access these days, a lot of dudes act like morons because they don't even need game anymore, they can sleep around behaving like a Neanderthal and there is no impetus to change or grow, you would be amazed at just how many women would fall for his bad behavior and just not care.

Its becoming quite common.
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A lot of seduction communities teach dudes to talk like this and not wait around for women who don't fall for this kind of talk and behavior. Its not a "virgo" thing, I know middle aged dudes talking like this now. Its disgusting.
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@cocokat

True I agree with you, so it had become normal, so when a guy now a days bumps into a lady who draws back from his advances at her, he becomes concerned and gets annoyed. I have not met a female virgin pass the age of 19, and in some situations women are the pursuer. I am married but have had women tell me they still wanted a piece" seriously, I bumped into another Virgo women who even Thu was engaged and introduced me to her lover, still made attempts at me at work in my office being very flirty, I had discussed with her I was flattered but not interested . My Aqua wife trust me too much and loves more.

In this day in time women seem to me and in my view have to compete for suitable mate, and when they find them are compelled to oblige to demands that the guy has grown accustom to. The new era favour's the Man.
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Posted by hopelesscapricorn
Posted by Vixen2
Ok...REALLY weird:

"Everything was going fine until he asked me what bra size I wear (prior to this, he told me he saw one of my pictures in a bathing suit on social media and he's always been a breast man so he was intrigued by my size). "

ummm...how would he see a bathing suit pic of you on social media? Do you have mutual friends, is your account private...that sounds so far from coincidental that it is creepy. Just saying....

This guy is a weirdo and obviously doesn't know how to engage women...he sounds a bit amateurish and like his only experience with women are chick's from Tinder.

Keep it moving....dodge this bullet.


well we've been friends on instagram for about 4-5 months and we're just now meeting in person because I was leery. But because I've been trying to get over another virgo guy, I decided to give it a shot and give other guys a chance. And then this is what I end up with! Lol I should have stuck to my gut instinct and left this creep in my DM's.
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You seem like an awesome cute little goat with a good inner gut creeper alarm. That was your alarm. Yes it's fear and people say ignore that but I call bullshit because that's your intuition telling you about this guy. You gave this guy more than a chance and his gross ass should exit stage left.

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Posted by DonnaElvira77
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I thought Virgos were shy I mean it took me a year to get the Virgo to finally give it up lol.


My Virgo Dad married my Aries mother within a year and a half. And he was full on the pursuit!
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Same here! LOLZ!
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My single guy friends tell me all the time they wish they had what I had, but the girls now lack value, they give in easy, or they have slept with there other guy friends, and no man wants what his homie has smashed, because he would have let to one go to sleep easy at night.

I would recommend hold off physical part and his sex talk is him just being a man, maybe immature man but a man.
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At end it's your decision Leo would better fit I hear they drive caps crazy .
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Posted by iVirgo
@cocokat

True I agree with you, so it had become normal, so when a guy now a days bumps into a lady who draws back from his advances at her, he becomes concerned and gets annoyed. I have not met a female virgin pass the age of 19, and in some situations women are the pursuer. I am married but have had women tell me they still wanted a piece" seriously, I bumped into another Virgo women who even Thu was engaged and introduced me to her lover, still made attempts at me at work in my office being very flirty, I had discussed with her I was flattered but not interested . My Aqua wife trust me too much and loves more.

In this day in time women seem to me and in my view have to compete for suitable mate, and when they find them are compelled to oblige to demands that the guy has grown accustom to. The new era favour's the Man.



some valid points. However, I don't think the new era favors the man. Ive never chased a man in my life and I consistently attract quality men who persue me. I am in a relationship now. Most of the quality men I meet are put off by this type of ez lay or cheap woman, the prefer to hold out for quality women they persue, the less intelligent types usually fall for this but hey, like attracts like.
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Posted by iVirgo
My single guy friends tell me all the time they wish they had what I had, but the girls now lack value, they give in easy, or they have slept with there other guy friends, and no man wants what his homie has smashed, because he would have let to one go to sleep easy at night.

I would recommend hold off physical part and his sex talk is him just being a man, maybe immature man but a man.



Yes, this is so true. Its also up to women to "put out" so easily, it lowers their value and secretly guys do want their ladies not to be aggressively sexual with other dudes like this.
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