Is my virgo man done with our relationship or will he come around?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Pisces_minded on Monday, July 10, 2017 and has 6 replies.
Any advice greatly appreciated.

My virgo man (pisces woman) have been together almost a year now. We’ve had acouple blow outs but any other time things have been great. Well I overreacted when he cancelled plans with me because he was in a bad mood and now he has pretty much ostracized me from the relationship. Long talk last night about how I wasn’t there for him and how he was let down and that I am selfish and always need attention. He doesn’t understand that I overreact sometimes but I am sensitive not selfish. He said he has all these mixed feelings and emotions and doesn’t know what to do. I asked him to keep his heart open when he leaves my place and that I hoped we could work this out. What threw me for a loop was he started saying weird things like thank you for everything, tell your family thank you, and said a long goodbye to my dog (obvious right). He hugged me and was just like things have been great thank you for everything, at that point I flat out asked him if he was breaking up with me. He looked like a deer caught in the headlights but nodded his head yes. I said alright and walked back in my place and shut the door. He texted me later that night saying he has never had a better relationship, that we have things to work on as individuals, and that he has alot of mixed feelings and emotions but when I closed the door he said it sunk in.

Does that mean he is done with me? I told him I still wanted to be with him but that I had to distance myself and he said thank you for everythinf like everythinf was already over. Has anyone been in this scenario? Is it time to move on or wait for him to come around. I know Virgo men are notorious for not changing their mind but I can’t tell if feels final about breaking up.
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Posted by Pisces_minded


Does that mean he is done with me?





yep
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Seems like it's over. They usually are not the kind to let go.. but once they do, it's over.
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It means he thinks you guys have things you need to reflect on as individuals

I feel like you've missed the point

Good luck
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Posted by Pisces_minded
but when I closed the door he said it sunk in.
He's done.

He said he had mixed feelings and emotions and people can work through that if they are willing to set their own emotions/overreactions aside when their partner is conflicted and display reassurance/care/effort to meet halfway.

But if you just turned around mid conversation and shut the door in his face...there is no way he will get over that. I commend this dude on his maturity because shutting a door in someone's face either metaphorical or physical..points to malice and basically no decency. And then you get the horror stories with vengeful angry Virgos.

I think his kindness is derived of him realizing you are a child and not a mature adult and he will probably take care to check on you out of kindness/pity.
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Virgo's here will say "Once it's over for a Virgo, it's over!"

There's other threads that pop up here of "Virgo guy came back!"

What will your ex do? Who knows. How are you better off? Only you can decide. I'd say look for another water or earth sign, like Taurus. Between the three earth signs, A Capricorn male is less inclined to act like a bitch. In my experience.

Yeah, Pisces overreact a lot. But in my experience, so do Virgo men. Virgo's have this double standard that's quite sickening. So if you want to be happy, forget the Virgo's. Unless you find one that is really developed and balanced.

Best of luck to you.
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