Is my Virgo Man Jealous or is it something else?

Last night me (scorpio girl) was out with my Virgo male. My ex boyfriend was there who used to live with me. I introduced them and explained the whole thing to him (out of respect better to hear from me then his bf's girlfriend)he became really quiet and distant started being a bit rude and decided to go home. Wouldn't talk to me ignored me kept saying he was tired. No kiss or hug good night just blew me off. Hurt my feelings tremendously. Another time he saw me walk out to the parking lot with a couple male friends and he drove off....I called him and he came back...denying he was jealous. What do you think?

The better question is what do you think. You know him better than we ever could.

I am not sure...he hides his feelings. I know he cares deeply for me. But because he hides his feelings I am not sure if it was jealousy or if it was anger. He did send me a text after I apologized saying he didn't want to text fight this morning and that we will talk about everything that happened last night later today. So obviously he wants me in his life still? He is so unpredictable at times. He just don't open up. Its a really hairy situation with us.

Yes I guess he is ....its complicated....its a complete mess....I fell in to deep before realizing he is married. He is devoted to his kids and is very wealthy cannot leave due to family assets. I have tried to do the right thing but neither can part. I have never been dishonorable to my fellow man and now look at me. I am in a mess. I am a flippin Psychologist for God's sake I know the statistics of this. We are connected mind body and soul. He's not like your typical cheaters. It's hard to explain. The longer we are in it the more he gets to the point of not caring who knows. HELP

Oh...Please don't judge me...I am truly a good person....I help people all the time. Would give my last dollar to my fellow man.

It is his families

If he left she would get half of his families assets. Not to mention he is a wonderful father and wants to maintain a family until his kids get out of the home which is another three years. AMAZING father! Wonderful to his mother as well....he is one of a kind.

We met at a fundraiser.

I guess it is based off heresay no real proof. However, he is friends with several of my acquaintances (as of now) and they all speak highly of his parental role with his children.

First time with a Virgo...but NOW my mind wanders....I know I need to get out I just dont know how...Im only hurting myself and his amazing family who dont deserve this. 😢 Iv tried to leave and we both end up crying....A MESS..

He has no right to get upset about your ex boyfriend being there and has no right to get jealous. He knows that. He may not like it, but he knows he can't say a word.

This is just going to get messier. Your head is going to have to rule over your heart on this one.

He IS a typical cheater. Think about this, if he does leave his wife and you guys stay together, aren't you always going to be wondering if he's doing the same thing to you?

RomancingA is right on! Find the strength to leave! Your story sounds just like mine and many others on here! Find the strength to leave him alone... You can do it.. The longer you wait the harder it will be please please please head the advice!!! He will NEVER EVER EVER NEVER EVER be there for you.....ever! No amount of lust, love, connective ness, higher power whatever will make it work... Even by some chance in hell he divorced he will blame you for tearing his family apart... Consciously or sub conscious... He's only crying because he knows it could ruin his reputation trust me it's about his hurts not yours.. I'm sorry, I really know what your going thru.. You can PM if you want to discuss a little deeper

Posted by ABC3

....its complicated.... he is married.

Everything after that is nothing except babble, blah, blah, blah ...


Take your fucking whining somewhere else ... you are responsible for your life, if you don't like it, then that's your problem ... you're the douchebag making choices for yourself ... so why should anyone else give a fuck?

Posted by ABC3
Yes I guess he is ....its complicated....its a complete mess....I fell in to deep before realizing he is married. He is devoted to his kids and is very wealthy cannot leave due to family assets. I have tried to do the right thing but neither can part. I have never been dishonorable to my fellow man and now look at me. I am in a mess. I am a flippin Psychologist for God's sake I know the statistics of this. We are connected mind body and soul. He's not like your typical cheaters. It's hard to explain. The longer we are in it the more he gets to the point of not caring who knows. HELP

What a pile of horseshit!

Posted by VirgoFlirt
But just like RAdonis, I also wonder the 'Y'.....She's a psychologist.... here to help society and she is in a mess her own self...i am wowing....

There have been this year a couple of psychologists/pschotherapists sexually abusing children in therapy sessions, this piece of crap is no different. She's assisting in helping to destroy this guys children. Disgusting.