Is this normal for Virgo men???????
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Caplady05 on Wednesday, April 20, 2011 and has 12 replies.
Was recently in a relationship with a Virgo man..Things were great! Then he hit me with the we gotta talk it's somethings thats been on my mind..So he told me he was scared of marriage its a big commitment..scared that what if he is wrong about he and I...
He knew the relationship was heading in a direction that was serious..So I'm guessing it scared him
We are now broken up because he felt he had too much going on, didn't wanna continue to hurt me, felt he wasn't being a good boyfriend..Felt he wasn't giving me what I deserved..But he loves and cares for me a lot...
Wants me to remain in his life as his friend he said he couldn't not have me in his life..
But my question is why the hell did he back out and give up when the relationship was going so good?! (The best relationship I might add for myself and for him( he said that))
I feel he doing stuff backwards...Like extremely hot in the beginning now wanting to back out and take things slow and be just my friend......WHY IS THAT?!
Is this Normal Virgos???????? Pls help me to understand this!
He knew the relationship was heading in a direction that was serious..So I'm guessing it scared him
We are now broken up because he felt he had too much going on, didn't wanna continue to hurt me, felt he wasn't being a good boyfriend..Felt he wasn't giving me what I deserved..But he loves and cares for me a lot...
Wants me to remain in his life as his friend he said he couldn't not have me in his life..
But my question is why the hell did he back out and give up when the relationship was going so good?! (The best relationship I might add for myself and for him( he said that))
I feel he doing stuff backwards...Like extremely hot in the beginning now wanting to back out and take things slow and be just my friend......WHY IS THAT?!
Is this Normal Virgos???????? Pls help me to understand this!
Will ya looka there......these oranges are 99 cents a pound. I'll be damn....
Huh?
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Caplady05
Being a Capricorn I'm very cautious when it comes to my heart and feelings ...
... we haven't met in person but I've seen him around my town ....
... I contacted him on FB which was in Dec. Well he was asking me to be his lady and told me he loved me ....
... so I gave in and decided we can be a couple
He was talking marriage and kids and moving in with him ...
He made me feel so good and giving me the love I deserved.
Sadly all that ended ..... saying how he isnt ready fro a relationship and doesnt want one ..I was devastated....
Its killing me because I love this man so much and I know he cares for me and loves me just as much ....
wow .... you said that he gives you the love you deserve.
Careful what you ask for.
When you get out of high school ... you will begin to see things through a different scope of reference.
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Suffer as you wish because that's exactly what you are going to do regardless ....
The real question is, was it the best relationship for him?
Did you meet his needs?
Or did you just bask in the glory of his attention and affection.
We Virgos need reciprocity and if we don't get it, we bail.
Did you meet his needs?
Or did you just bask in the glory of his attention and affection.
We Virgos need reciprocity and if we don't get it, we bail.
Yes I did Cajun...
I met his needs and more.. I didn't just take and not give back..
I met his needs and more.. I didn't just take and not give back..
Posted by Cajunspirit
We Virgos need reciprocity and if we don't get it, we bail.
What is it I'm suffering from P angel???
Explain that to me.....
Explain that to me.....
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Posted by Caplady05
Huh?
Dont mind her, she's a crackhead
You suffer from wanting to suffer not having the love you want from him.
In your own words, you described a man who has only told you surface feelings that all people have during the rush of something new ..... once he came to his senses, he tried to tell you this.
Everyone in here has tried to tell you this ..... you don't want to accept it ..
You WANT to believe his love for you is at the depth of your desire, eventhough he has shown you and told you otherwise .. reality is right in front of your face, but, instead of realizing it, you choose to suffer with him withholding something from you that he never intended to give you.
You've been told, even by him ..... suffer as you wish, though, because that is what you are going to do regardless ...
In your own words, you described a man who has only told you surface feelings that all people have during the rush of something new ..... once he came to his senses, he tried to tell you this.
Everyone in here has tried to tell you this ..... you don't want to accept it ..
You WANT to believe his love for you is at the depth of your desire, eventhough he has shown you and told you otherwise .. reality is right in front of your face, but, instead of realizing it, you choose to suffer with him withholding something from you that he never intended to give you.
You've been told, even by him ..... suffer as you wish, though, because that is what you are going to do regardless ...
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by Caplady05
Huh?
Dont mind her, she's a crackheadclick to expand
Wow, now I see why people think that virgos are so mean. You represent us in a bad light. With all of this negativity it seems as if you are the one that is on crack. I'll call you Charlie Sheen. Good job.
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