is this virgo in love with me?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by valentinastef on Friday, May 10, 2013 and has 16 replies.
Hello.
Im a leo girl who recently met a virgo man at a birthday party. Since then ive invited him for a cup of coffee, he didnt seem interested. Later on (two weeks ago) he invited me for dinner. He stared at me for hours, even though i dont look good (but i make an effort to look good and i cant leave the house without getting my hair or makeup done, or even wear the nicest things, and this is because i have a self confidence problem. i still dont think i look the best). Anyway, he invited me again to go out in the morning, and then at night and then again the same for 5 days straight.
Im a perfectionist and he seems to love it. If i do something wrong he loves how i try to make it perfect.
He seems to like when i take care of him, simple things like trying to protect him from incoming cars, although he is a gentle giant...
He always holds my hand when we go out, and puts his arm around me. I feel like he is also constantly protecting me. He obsesses about me sitting next to him. it has to be exactly by his side, and cannot be in front of him.
He also invited me for dinner with his friends, who adored me and i tried my best to be super social although im shy. He kept telling his friends about all the nice things about me, i felt a bit as if i was being auctioned lol. and he keeps on about how much his friends loved me and what a fantastic person i am.
He introduces me to everyone like a real gentleman.
He kisses me a lot, and looks into my eyes a lot, sometimes this goes on for many minutes. which i absolutely adore. he touches me but he hasnt tried to make love to me yet, which makes me feel safe (i dont know what his real intentions are yet)
I also feel like he is trying to improve my life, and he tells me that im too shy, but he says how much he loves my sensitivity and tenderness.
He picks me up at 6 in the morning to watch the sunrise.. i dont have time to put make up on but he says i look good any way and i smell so nice.
I had to leave yesterday because i work in a different country and he cried, i wasnt sure if this was a real cry or a pretend one because it was a bit exaggerated... then he said he loves me and will never stop loving me. He also says i woke something inside him that was dead a long time ago.
Are these traits of a virgo in love or is he just after sex? maybe im silly but im a bit of a naive person and i cant quite read into people because ive only been in 1 relationship before.
I know i love him like
Im a leo girl who recently met a virgo man at a birthday party. Since then ive invited him for a cup of coffee, he didnt seem interested. Later on (two weeks ago) he invited me for dinner. He stared at me for hours, even though i dont look good (but i make an effort to look good and i cant leave the house without getting my hair or makeup done, or even wear the nicest things, and this is because i have a self confidence problem. i still dont think i look the best). Anyway, he invited me again to go out in the morning, and then at night and then again the same for 5 days straight.
Im a perfectionist and he seems to love it. If i do something wrong he loves how i try to make it perfect.
He seems to like when i take care of him, simple things like trying to protect him from incoming cars, although he is a gentle giant...
He always holds my hand when we go out, and puts his arm around me. I feel like he is also constantly protecting me. He obsesses about me sitting next to him. it has to be exactly by his side, and cannot be in front of him.
He also invited me for dinner with his friends, who adored me and i tried my best to be super social although im shy. He kept telling his friends about all the nice things about me, i felt a bit as if i was being auctioned lol. and he keeps on about how much his friends loved me and what a fantastic person i am.
He introduces me to everyone like a real gentleman.
He kisses me a lot, and looks into my eyes a lot, sometimes this goes on for many minutes. which i absolutely adore. he touches me but he hasnt tried to make love to me yet, which makes me feel safe (i dont know what his real intentions are yet)
I also feel like he is trying to improve my life, and he tells me that im too shy, but he says how much he loves my sensitivity and tenderness.
He picks me up at 6 in the morning to watch the sunrise.. i dont have time to put make up on but he says i look good any way and i smell so nice.
I had to leave yesterday because i work in a different country and he cried, i wasnt sure if this was a real cry or a pretend one because it was a bit exaggerated... then he said he loves me and will never stop loving me. He also says i woke something inside him that was dead a long time ago.
Are these traits of a virgo in love or is he just after sex? maybe im silly but im a bit of a naive person and i cant quite read into people because ive only been in 1 relationship before.
I know i love him like
i know i love him like mad and i miss him a lot already. valentina
Question...
From the time you met him at that birthday party to the time you left, how long did this go on?
From the time you met him at that birthday party to the time you left, how long did this go on?
Sounds like he has Venus (ruler of love) or Mars (ruler of sex drive) in Leo! He places you on a pedestal. I doubt it's all for sex. He will probably be a more dominant (not aggressive!) type in bed.
Thanks for the replies. No im not greek, but im italian and my english is a bit off! haha
ive met him at the party, then invited him for a coffee, which he accepted (but didnt seem romantically interested in me). Then i came back to the country im living in but we exchanged many emails about ourselves for two months.
Then, two weeks ago, i went back and we met again, and its been a lovely week...
He seems especially happy about the fact that everyone he knows seems to like me.
But as i said im very naive and im not sure of whats going on yet, and would love any advice as to whether this guy is serious or not. I just feel like this is almost a joke, because it seems too good to be true?
ive met him at the party, then invited him for a coffee, which he accepted (but didnt seem romantically interested in me). Then i came back to the country im living in but we exchanged many emails about ourselves for two months.
Then, two weeks ago, i went back and we met again, and its been a lovely week...
He seems especially happy about the fact that everyone he knows seems to like me.
But as i said im very naive and im not sure of whats going on yet, and would love any advice as to whether this guy is serious or not. I just feel like this is almost a joke, because it seems too good to be true?
I'm Virgo with Venus in Leo, by the way. 
thanks!
btw he was born on a 20th of semptember if that means anything
btw he was born on a 20th of semptember if that means anythingHmm, well I will whip out my random stalker resource aka my book "What your birthday reveals about you by phyllis vega". Always the prepared & helpful Virgo ;P
September 20:
"On a personal level, you can find it rather difficult to relax and express your deepest feelings. However, partnership has a very high priority for you. It may take you a while to make a commitment, but when you do, you're in it for the long term."
I skipped the overall personality review. dunno if you want me spewing it all out, lol. Seems like a nice individual!
September 20:
"On a personal level, you can find it rather difficult to relax and express your deepest feelings. However, partnership has a very high priority for you. It may take you a while to make a commitment, but when you do, you're in it for the long term."
I skipped the overall personality review. dunno if you want me spewing it all out, lol. Seems like a nice individual!
oh, and if its any help, i know it sounds weird, he is about 20 years older than me... im 27.
thats helpful! Apparently he has told me things he hasnt told anyone before, and although he has many friends, he seems like he needs company! im sure he had many women before, but for some reason i feel like im special, mainly for the fact that he introduced me to everyone. of course i dont know if he does it with all the other girls haha
Hate to be a Debbie Downer but seems a little fast for "love" to be brought up. He might like you a lot, be intrigued by you, enjoy discovering you, but, love? Not likely. Just my opinion.
you are not a debby downer, i absolutely accept all opinions, its a good thing im not an optimistic person so i dont usually get dissapointed! i too think its only some sort of passion and that it will go away with time.
i too think its only some sort of passion and that it will go away with time.
Posted by RomancingA
He seems genuine but you seem untrusting. Life never happened to anyone who didnt take risks....... no better reason to take a risk than the possibility of finding the love of your life.
Based on what you shared.......I think hes genuine and so are you. I see no flaws other than you wont warm up to the idea of being loved.
Totally agree. He WILL eventually tire if he does not see some type of improvements in your self-confidence. He believes a relationship should make the two individuals stronger, so if he doesn't see that on your end, he will then begin to doubt himself...not a good thing.
Posted by Mayze22
Hmm, well I will whip out my random stalker resource aka my book "What your birthday reveals about you by phyllis vega". Always the prepared & helpful Virgo ;P
September 20:
"On a personal level, you can find it rather difficult to relax and express your deepest feelings. However, partnership has a very high priority for you. It may take you a while to make a commitment, but when you do, you're in it for the long term."
I skipped the overall personality review. dunno if you want me spewing it all out, lol. Seems like a nice individual!
can I add a bit more info on Virgo 20th sept ? My ex is a Virgo . The info you put there is spot on especially about the commitment ! We recently broke up 2.5 years and it's the commitment issues he has. He needs time to make up his mind whether he wants to marry me or not ! For the long haul . I am not sitting around waiting for him and I am happily single . Ofcourse he doesn't let me to anywhere and do not want me to have a relationship or date a man yet ! He knows I'm attractive and guys are starting make moves on me now that I am available . He is hating this process too bits and want me to wait it out a bit. However it's been goig in for too long so I put my foot down n left . Amazon relationship though ! He was very very into me the first 6 months . They are very kind individuals ! N helpful ! Afraid to hurt others ! Oh and very very indicisive! He takes at least 1 to pick an item n yet go back and exchange or refund it the next day ! So when comes to making a lifelong commitment ! It's torture ! They have so much in their mind ! Your man is 47 ? Has he been
Married before ? Maybe he's finally ready to settle with you' so he's rushing things ! Not typical but maybe my ex will be like that too ! Wouldn't surprise me hahah
we've both been married before, but both bitten hahaah. So i think i dont really want to marry yet. however he says he is prepared to move with me and have a life with me (without me even asking). This will of his is another thing that makes me think this is too good to be true! its almost like a ''disease'' from his side. he himself admited the last day we saw each other that what he feels for me is like a disease.. im not frightened, but im worried that i might fall deeper for him and then he will not want me anymore, because it sounds so much like a passion and nothing else.
i think i might take a chance though.. see what happens! im not putting my hopes up..
i think i might take a chance though.. see what happens! im not putting my hopes up..
When you had love before like i did in my marriage (my husband died a couple of years ago), its a bit hard to accept passions again. Love makes you not only feel loved but it also gives you safety. whereas passion can go wrong anytime, and im so frightened of starting all over again, frightened of the conflicts, fights.. etc.
I would like to give it a good try of course, but i dont want to feel like a teenager again with all the heartbreaking, fighting and crying, like i did back in the days before i was married.
I would like to give it a good try of course, but i dont want to feel like a teenager again with all the heartbreaking, fighting and crying, like i did back in the days before i was married.
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