We met online, and even though I knew he was being transferred out of state with the military, I decided to see where the relationship went, because he was quite honestly, everything I had ever looked for in a man. He treated me like a queen, always doing little things for me. I fell hard. The sex was mind-blowing. We dated for 3 months, and then I decided it was time (2 months before he was supposed to leave), to have the talk about whether we were going to continue the relationship. He responded by saying "it's a sh*tty situation. You have responsibilities here, and it's not like I'm moving to the next town". I told him that if he didn't want to continue the relationship after he moved, we should call it quits now. That hurt his feelings, and he didn't talk to me for a few days, and then responded saying he didn’t have the time or energy to have a conversation, so I let it go. On a whim, I texted him the day he was supposed to leave for a 3 week vacation home, before reporting to work again. He responded, we met for drinks and talked. He actually brought up the situation and,apologized for not contacting me. Said he walked by my house and I wasn't home, and wanted to call me but didn’t think I wanted to talk to him. He stayed the night, I put him on the plane for home, he texted me the entire 3 weeks, and I picked him up from the airport again. Again stayed with me. Both times, it was like we were getting back together. He gave no indication that it was just a "friends" situation. I put him on the plane for his new station. He texted a bit, but I let him get settled. A week later I texted to see how his first week had gone, and told him to call so we could chat. He said, right after this meeting I'll call. He ghosted ne, and then posted on Facebook that he was in a relationship. W.T.F.?!?
