is winning a virgo male back possible?

I'm a leo girl trying to get back my ex virgo. I hear virgolk are not easy to recapture.



We dated first semester (college) this year for a bit but i was still not over this boy that i had liked for a long while before him. to be fair to this virgo i decided to break things off before it got any more serious. Virgo treated me really really really well and i wanted to make sure i had all my feelings sorted out in respect to him. In fact i should have waited before starting things with him initially but it just happened..smooth virgo! anyway, i know he really liked me a lot.. all of his friends told me (and he definitely"showed" it). Even after we had stopped seeing each other he hinted at us hanging and tried to kiss me at a party. Anyway time has passed and i did quite a bit of maturing and realized that i had something really worthwhile with him (we get along remarkably well).
And yesterday we went out to pick up books together for a similar class and ended up walking for a long time just talking. i'd seen him with a new girl recently (who ironically looks quite a bit like me) but when i hinted around it to confirm whether they were together he ignored it completely. He also talked about girls liking him (trying to make me jealous!) and we talked about relationships and alot of good stuff.
Later that night i texted him and told him that i was sorry about what had happened between us and that he deserved to be treated much better etc etc. He told me to call him and i retold him what i'd texted and then said that i wanted to tell him more but that i thought he might be with someone. Thats when he finally said he was and that "that (us dating) was not happening right now." He kept telling me not to worry and that he was glad for the apology.
I think he still likes me? Do you think I have a chance of eventually getting him back?
Right now he's with someone like i said but i guess it's my turn to wait and suffer, it's only fair.

I think he still likes me?

He does.

Do you think I have a chance of eventually getting him back?

Yes. He liked you, and we don't give up easily.

Stay friends, and give him time & space to figure out if this other girl is what he wants.

ASIDE: What's with all these Leo Women & Virgo Men combos? I thought my parents were the only oddballs out there!

lol.

Although my case hasnt been a bed of roses (am a Leo female with a Virgo male), the best way for me was to just chill out, leave him be, let him ponder that you would like to get back together - it would seem they take a while to figure things out and if he does still really like you, he may just very well come round.

Friendship? for sure but perhaps not hang around too much....he has to have time away from you now that he knows you're interested.

LOL@not giving up easily...I think thats true but its not in an obvious way - very subtle and sometimes you need to be a mind reader lol.

"Friendship? for sure but perhaps not hang around too much....he has to have time away from you now that he knows you're interested."




I agree with everything everyone said so far, except for the above .... that sounds too much like playing. Now he knows you are interested, so you should pull away and make him sweat it?

That won't work .. I promise you that. The Virgo might not pick up on the game right away, but, I guarantee you, once he does, and he will ... he's finished with you, forever.




If the two of you feel that you need, together, apart ... if the two of you feel that you want, together, apart ... then this is the right path because it is what you "feel".


Genuinely ....



Kudos to you for taking responsibility in not pursuing this man right now since he has a woman now .. eventhough you are fond of him and would like to see just how much.