It Still Happens
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by ninjamu on Monday, September 27, 2010 and has 3 replies.
The same virguy I mentioned many months ago is quite a case for my leo self.
We have barely spoken 2 words to each other but we see each other about once every other month somewhere in town. I have tried to speak to him directly a couple of times only to be met with aloofness. Not a purposeful one but a nervous one. Every encounter, albeit through the eyes mostly (yes, he's acquired the infamous stare), has been rather intense. Kinda like that magnetic pull conundrum.
I just saw him this past Saturday again. We walked by each other, said "hi", and he couldn't look me in the eye. I was once again hit with that feeling of nervous energy coming from him and I haven't seen him since June. Then almost immediately he found the most dimly lit spot to sit and it happened to be within eye-shot of where I was sitting. It is at this point that he proceeds to stare at me from across the room in his new found sanctuary. He literally does not take his eyes off of me for a good 5 minutes. He just... watches me. This occurs every time now. A couple of times have been blatantly obvious where he wasn't trying to hide it but most of the time he does.
I'm not trying to pursue a romantic encounter with him anymore, for I am happily involved, but I'm starting to grow a little weary. I want to confront him but I feel like I scare him as it is sometimes. He might not be at all but he sure acts like I intimidate him. I feel like he wouldn't feel the need to indulge in that behavior anymore if we could just get to talking.
The only thing I could conclude is that, for some reason or another, he knows it's not gonna work out between us. I think it's silly to put the idea of friendship, or even a working relationship since we're both in the same field (he in the creative aspect and i in the business), out of the question but i'm really leaning toward a simple acquaintanceship. who knows? maybe what he really wants to do is not interact and just stare at me from across rooms. it'd sure be nice to hear some ideas, even with the meager details provided, because i'm running out of patience for this. i'm far too curious, much too fascinated, to not seek the truth.
We have barely spoken 2 words to each other but we see each other about once every other month somewhere in town. I have tried to speak to him directly a couple of times only to be met with aloofness. Not a purposeful one but a nervous one. Every encounter, albeit through the eyes mostly (yes, he's acquired the infamous stare), has been rather intense. Kinda like that magnetic pull conundrum.
I just saw him this past Saturday again. We walked by each other, said "hi", and he couldn't look me in the eye. I was once again hit with that feeling of nervous energy coming from him and I haven't seen him since June. Then almost immediately he found the most dimly lit spot to sit and it happened to be within eye-shot of where I was sitting. It is at this point that he proceeds to stare at me from across the room in his new found sanctuary. He literally does not take his eyes off of me for a good 5 minutes. He just... watches me. This occurs every time now. A couple of times have been blatantly obvious where he wasn't trying to hide it but most of the time he does.
I'm not trying to pursue a romantic encounter with him anymore, for I am happily involved, but I'm starting to grow a little weary. I want to confront him but I feel like I scare him as it is sometimes. He might not be at all but he sure acts like I intimidate him. I feel like he wouldn't feel the need to indulge in that behavior anymore if we could just get to talking.
The only thing I could conclude is that, for some reason or another, he knows it's not gonna work out between us. I think it's silly to put the idea of friendship, or even a working relationship since we're both in the same field (he in the creative aspect and i in the business), out of the question but i'm really leaning toward a simple acquaintanceship. who knows? maybe what he really wants to do is not interact and just stare at me from across rooms. it'd sure be nice to hear some ideas, even with the meager details provided, because i'm running out of patience for this. i'm far too curious, much too fascinated, to not seek the truth.
Sounds to me as though, you are the nervous and scared one.
I'm not sure I get what you are about here ...
This guy realizes that there is nothing between the two of you, so he ignores approaching, that is, if he even has an interest in approaching you.
You have someone anyway, so you aren't even available .... yet, you want him to approach you.
and then you come in here and make a thread in which insinuates that he is doing something to you .... for you even mention that you are running out of patience, so I would assume that you mean you are running out of patience waiting on him to approach you, and proclaim his want of you.
what the hell?
So, you don't really want him ... you just want the attention from him in which is based around him making you feel wanted ... what? so you can reject him because you are taken?
If that's not the patience you are running out of .. then please enlighten me.
This guy realizes that there is nothing between the two of you, so he ignores approaching, that is, if he even has an interest in approaching you.
You have someone anyway, so you aren't even available .... yet, you want him to approach you.
and then you come in here and make a thread in which insinuates that he is doing something to you .... for you even mention that you are running out of patience, so I would assume that you mean you are running out of patience waiting on him to approach you, and proclaim his want of you.
what the hell?
So, you don't really want him ... you just want the attention from him in which is based around him making you feel wanted ... what? so you can reject him because you are taken?
If that's not the patience you are running out of .. then please enlighten me.
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