Jealousy

Are you guys the jealous type? If you are, what would make you jealous? Do you hide it quite well?

I'm not moved by jealousy.

Seeing something someone else has that I may want pushes me to fight for something even better. The way I see it, why waste time being jealous when you can spend time wisely getting even further ahead of the other person?

I guess it's just my competitive nature.

Virgo women are by far the most jealous creatures on the planet...at least among my friends and fam that are virgos

Or are they envious? I think it's more envy than jealousy.

That's what described .. said she sees what someone has else and then wants is ...


.. coveting .. a sin

I don't

Nooooo sea, with virgo chicks it's different.

Once a mutual friend's bf went to a virgo for advice regarding proposing and the ring. The virgo and his girl were bff's.

Well thing is, the bff had recently gave her bf an ultimatum. She had been checking out emotionally for like 2 months. She was hanging out with virgo like they had before the bf came into the picture. The virgo even commented, "it feels like I got my best friend back."

So when the bf comes to the virgo for advice on how to propose, guess what she says?


I don't think you should propose right now. Bff is going through some things right now and if you love her, you will let her sort some of this stuff out.


Yeaaaaaa...bitch!

Dude proposed anyway. And sad part is, I got plenty examples from different women. They can't stand to see other women happy. They also can become spiteful if rejected by a man. I vote virgo women most likely to deny a father access to his child. She'll take your money but she is capable of using the child to hurt you.

Doing things with other people, that you don't do with me.
Hugging every male friend you see.
Flirting in front of me.
Going out with other guys while you are in a relationship with me.
Getting picked up by other guys when you are coming to hang out with me.

It's most a female thing with Virgos ... my husband rarely expressed jealousy.

He is envious of other people, though, he doesn't do anything about it except pout that nobody gives him these things.

And of course, that sends me off ... gives you? You are upset because you weren't GIVEN these things?



:::: throws hands up :::::

I'm envious/jealous of celebrities sometime...in a "hatin'" kinda way. But normal people in everyday life? No.

If it's an SO then I'd only feel twinges of jealousy if I were in the dark about some chick. Like if some random chick came up and was uber familiar with him I wouldn't flip but...

"Who is she and what is she to you?" Meshell Ndegeocello

I agree. It's the chicks. With the males its not as bad.

This past weekend is a good example. My bff's husband threw her a party on short notice. He rented a venue, got a band, open bar. To invite our sorors, he contacted the one he knew best (the virgo) and asked if she would contact the rest of us.

Side not..there are two virgos. Both are very envious/jealous that my bff is married. One of them emailed my bff when she got married and said, "I'm happy if you're happy."

HA!

Ok, back to this wkd. The virgo was just supposed to send a mass email to us with the deets and for us to rsvp to the hubby. Simple right?

Do you know she didn't contact any of us?!? She just sent a reply a day before the event saying she was out of town and chastised him for the short notice.

*blown*

My bff was hurt that none of us showed. Others did but we've known her for over a decade and not one of the 10+ people showed?

She called me yesterday trying to find out why no one came. Bitch, no one knew. Virgo strikes again.

Maybe they hide it better, or rather display it different...

My Virgo compares himself to others a lot, not openly, but I do hear it in what he says and the way that he says it. Strikes me as feeling inferior at times by talking himself up, but I see through the facade. Lately, when he does it around me I shoot him down - he admits he's all talk when I do so.

He would never admit it, but I've come to know him well enough that I definitely believe he is envious of what others have and how well they are doing in his line of business.

With me, he doesn't come off as jealous per se, but seems suspicious at times, which I think is indicative of a jealous streak. He doesn't call or interrupt when I'm out with friends, but otherwise, if he can't reach me on my cell he seems to think I'm with another guy. He'll say he's joking, but IDK. He tells me its ok if I date other men, but on one occasion when my phone was dead he went on about how he must have been replaced and, that was fine with him, but if that's the case then we're through. So, yeah, I can date other men... just not at the same time as I'm seeing him. That suggests jealousy or possessiveness at minimum.

I think Virgos possess an inferiority complex... this is tied to why they criticize as well.

it's been my experience that some the virgo men i knew were at times very "possessive" of me, which i know differs from pure jealousy. however, i always noted that distinction with them.

thankfully, my husband is neither. he loves me to death, and I him, but he isn't possessive or the jealous type. he understands i am a very strong, independent and opinionated woman.
he embraces those qualities about me and is assured of my faithfulness to him and our marriage/family. btw, he is a scorpio and i have read about how jealous and controlling scorpio men are. apparently those who write such crap have never met my husband.

it's been my experience that some the virgo men i knew were at times very "possessive" of me, which i know differs from pure jealousy. however, i always noted that distinction with them.

thankfully, my husband is neither. he loves me to death, and I him, but he isn't possessive or the jealous type. he understands i am a very strong, independent and opinionated woman.
he embraces those qualities about me and is assured of my faithfulness to him and our marriage/family. btw, he is a scorpio and i have read about how jealous and controlling scorpio men are. apparently those who write such crap have never met my husband.

Posted by lildol


I think Virgos possess an inferiority complex... this is tied to why they criticize as well.

The way you explain his "inferiority complex" sounds more like a capricorn one. You don't like the fact that you are being compared to others, but who doesn't. Well, if anything most caps and taurus get pissed if they are being compared to other couples because it makes them feel that they aren't as valued enough by the virgo as per se an Aries or Sagittarius, even a leo. They would take it as a sort of a challenge to be better...

I may not make sense but i notice this more.

Yet, Virgos are always placing people on the pedestal even if they look like they are worshiping the person for the luxuries they have, and that is something you need to help him correct or fix for yourself...

Also, I don\'t entirely care for relationships...I haven\'t been in a relationship for years, and i recently got into one, and if it were to end, then so be it. I\'m not one to be in search for love because there are other things that make me happy... (In case you wanted to know...)

"Inferiority complex" is s fair assessment of the immature ones.

Sorti, not sure I follow, My Virgo doesn't compare me to anyone (other than himself 😛). And, he's quick to brag about me to others. Oh, and when I said envious about what others have, its not material, its their successes as it pertains to business.

Posted by lildol
Sorti, not sure I follow, My Virgo doesn't compare me to anyone (other than himself 😛).

>=D sounds fair to me!

And, he's quick to brag about me to others.

Hmm...i must have read a bit wrong, but okay, i'll go with it!

Oh, and when I said envious about what others have, its not material, its their successes as it pertains to business.

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Yeah, it still a luxury...that is what i meant, but knowing a few cap's, they tend to get a bit stressed out when people compare them to people of a higher level. They view it condescendingly...It seems more like a problem you have, not him.

You are so petty.

Why is it that all of you immature, insecure lil e-fucks turn threads that examine your sign critically so personally? This is why your sign is the weakest earth representative.

The thread is about virgo and questioning their capacity for jealousy and yet, there's always one loser who responds by deflecting and criticizing other signs while avoiding the OP's question.

Idiot.

You mad brah?

Hey shit happens, but i know i\'m better than you tubby, so i\'m better and because i\'m better you\'re no greater haha. 😉

1 you don't know me bitch

2 this thread isn't about me nor is it about you

You are notorious for answering threads about virgo shortfalls by stating that other signs have shortfalls. You're a little bitch and I bet you do the dame deflections in real life.

Someone asks you why your work isn't done and instead of manning up, your bitch ass decides to talk about other people's work being late.

You're a loser and sniveling little bitch ass and you don't even realize it.

Okay, all i know is that i am better than you. Are you mad? Go write 200 more threads about how virgos are inferior. 😄

I don\'t need to write 23423 reasons or way to explain how great i am and how much cooler i am than you. 😉

Pfft "same" but "dame" works too as so envision you as the type to wear skirts

Nah, your just my best friend. You always write about virgo\'s so we are your bestfriends. 😄

I can simply state they you don\'t know me and say you are a bitch, but you\'re a cool bitch.

Now go write 234234 more topics why virgos are boring and lame...oh wait, I am controlling and i might delete my account again because you hurt my feelings 😢

You look you have BO so yeah, that's one arena where you surpass me.

And I don't need to talk about how inferior you are. The fact that your nuts shrivel up everytime anyone posts a negative critique is good enough.

You bore me and you make a strong case for virgo self-erradication.

Cool story, brah!

Tubby is funny, she thinks that i take her seriously...hahaha.

Wow, you're repetitive and boring. Amazing feat.

And given the number of threads you all start about yourselves, you're right, you don't need me to point out that you suck. But you can go back to typing your online affirmations. I bet you wake up every morning, look in the mirror and say, "I'm sorti and people like me."

Anyhoo, back to more interesting signs. You know the one's who don't deny, deflect and insert their head's so far up their own assholes? Take a queue from the west indian's post. Every now and again he answers a question directly instead defaulting to "pussy."

shit happens right?

Yup, i love myself. What\'s wrong with that, you dont love yourself. Well, i\'d obviously believe that...

haha can you send the link again. THe video states that it won\'t load due to sony copywrite.

It\'s okay, I\'m bored of arguing with tubby. 😄

I get jealous when I have a female friend (when we are "just friends") and she then gets involved on a romantic/sexual level with another guy. I can kind of tolerate being "just friends" with a woman if she does not have a boyfriend, but if she then does get intimate at all with another guy (rather than me) that is hurtful. This happened recently and has damaged a friendship that I had.

Posted by virgodog58
I get jealous when I have a female friend (when we are "just friends") and she then gets involved on a romantic/sexual level with another guy. I can kind of tolerate being "just friends" with a woman if she does not have a boyfriend, but if she then does get intimate at all with another guy (rather than me) that is hurtful. This happened recently and has damaged a friendship that I had.

Well its obvious you have romantic feelings for your female friend(s). Why can't you let them know before they get involved with someone else? Do you kind of secretly hope that the friendship will evolve into something else?

I'm very jealous but only if were dating, if its just buddy-buddy then I don't care.

@Inana04: Unfortunately these romantic feelings often seem to be triggered when the female "friend" in question goes with someone else!

I think what it comes down to is not wanting to feel second-best, so although I can feel OK being "just friends" with a woman if she does not have a boyfriend or is not sleeping with another guy, if she DOES get a boyfriend or DOES start sleeping with another guy then that DOES obviously make me feel second-best, so that is hurtful and humiliating.

I can understand that to some degree.