Read through the 'how to tell if a virguy likes you' post. There's a lot of, take your time, play hard to get advice in there. Yeah..not so very good at that myself. I also got very very drunk...things happened. Both of us enjoyed it. Both of us told eachother that everything wed done was genuine. He told me he wants to see me at least weekly, more if I've got the time...in addition to the two nights a week I see him at the club anyways. Like, spending time just the two of us. And then he sent me a message saying he'd love to come over and play.......... I thought about that for four hours. As much as I enjoyed it, this is not just about sex. I don't work that way. (Can hear elle in the background saying itys) it's a recent realization for me. I also told my virguy all of this. And that I just want to let this be what it is, without limitations or expectations. Its way too new for either of us to be comfortable with the thought of being bf/gf, but I don't want to rule out the possibility. We've been friends for a year...I honestly thought id met him two months later than he remembered meeting me. And he remembers details. Id had a crush on him all this time, but I didn't think he saw me that way so I was ok with friendship...but apparently we were in the exact same space. He thought the exact same thing. So, I told him I don't believe in fwb, its a way to lie to yourself and eachother...because nobody with a heart can be intimate and remain just friends. ...and he still wants to see me, still wants to fool around...knowing it means more to me. I really want to go with my desires lol. Scorpio...but I don't want to get hurt or ruin our friendship. Can't I just be genuine? I am genuinely interested. We are friends, have been for a long time. I really don't want to go against what I feel and play hard to get. It's like lying and self denial in one.
