libra friend of 15yrs flirting w/my virguy :(

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by moondream on Monday, January 14, 2013 and has 35 replies.
oh man. not sure what to do.
one of my closest friends of 15+ years lives on the other side of the country and my boyfriend (of 1.5 years) and i hung out with her and her boyfriend last year when we were in town -- at that time i started to worry that maybe my boyfriend and my best friend could fall in love. i started to realize that they may be perfect for one another, they are both extremely unique people. plus, she is a lot like me, which is why we are friends; but she is more petite, more charming, more talented, more feminine than I am. she's the libra version of my leo self. my biggest concern is that my bf's venus is in libra and guess what? my friend is a libra. i believe is astrology so much that i am truly afraid that he will fall in love with her if they get to know one another better.
the only thing is that she would never leave where she lives and i can't see him leaving where he lives. i also see other problems of them being together -- but i can see a lot of ways in which she may make him happier than i can -- or just be more "perfect" of a lover. and my virguy is critical and picky and always looking for perfection.
so basically we went and visited the town my friend lives in again last week -- went to lunch with her and her boyfriend and she flirted very seriously with my boyfriend all afternoon. she practically didn't break eye contact with him the entire time. i ended up speaking to her boyfriend the whole afternoon because she was glued to my boyfriend and i tried to play it cool and not let it effect me. she must feel pretty strongly about him to flirt so seriously with him in front of me, knowing the difficult journey i went on just to get to be with this new man.
i already have issues with feeling insecure or jealous when i feel threatened in a relationship (my venus is in virgo so i really need security in a relationship) and i am also very much aware of this fault of mine causing problems in relationships. the thing is -- i really love this man, and i left a very serious relationship -- hoping and expecting this new relationship to be just as serious, if not more.
so what to do? i mean; i would never want to stand in their way if they are genuinely meant to be together? but considering the logistical problems of them being together they won't get to know one another unless i bring them together. but i can't stand to sit by and watch them flirt just to wait and see what happens? this is killing me Sad
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What a bitch, lol. You should seriousely consider pulling her hair! Big Grin
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i guess this also brings up a larger issue of wondering how strong the Venus sign is in a relationship? i mean, will he ever really commit to me? i know Virgo's are slow moving to commit and so i've been as patient as possible -- but i'm 36 and so worried that we will be together for a few more years and then he will dump me realizing I am not "the one" or something. and then i will be too old to start a new relationship and have an opportunity to have a family.
the Virgo drive for perfection, the fact that my friend is a Libra and that Libra's are supposed to be the "most perfect" partner in the zodiac and the fact that his venus is in Libra makes me worry that he will never fully commit to me because of this. but then again, i have so much Virgo in my chart that I wonder if I am just over-analyzing and being too insecure!?
any virgo's with venus in libra that are with partners that aren't libra's???? how serious do you see the venus sign in compatibility?
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Why is your boyfriend sitting there flirting with another woman? Have you talked to him about his behavior? With mine when we first started dating/sleeping around together,we went to a one day conference. He was absolutely enthralled with this one chick in attendance. She is gorgeous. Yet, she had a man. He still was staring at her boldly. Making eye contact. They would chat a little. He was saying "She wants me." I felt humiliated and disgusted by his behavior. Seeing how her boyfriend was there. It was extremely disrespectful. Not only to me who he hung with everyday, but her man.
Anyways I talked to him about it in a very serious manner and I told him I felt humiliated not only by his actions towards me by not considering my feelings, but also his bad behavior towards a woman who was obviously in a relationship.
He apologized and he took it seriously enough not to do it again and to be considerate of my feelings when other women were around...
I would definitely talk to him about his behavior or he is going to continue disrespecting you.



thanks so much for your replies...
yeah, his venus in libra was definitely a bit of an issue for me at the beginning as he does notice beautiful women all the time, and he is so darned charming that so many women are eager to make eye contact with him. we did have a serious conversation about it and he has stopped for the most part. he is wonderful to me and always takes my feelings into account after we discuss them and he has had time to digest. he showers me with love and affection. but i worry that could change on a dime.
he actually wasn't flirting back with her -- he was just being the nice, charming, funny person he always is. and he saw that i was upset after we left them -- and asked if it was something he did and i told him no. we didn't discuss any further. i think deep down he knows why i was upset.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Why is your boyfriend sitting there flirting with another woman? Have you talked to him about his behavior? With mine when we first started dating/sleeping around together,we went to a one day conference. He was absolutely enthralled with this one chick in attendance. She is gorgeous. Yet, she had a man. He still was staring at her boldly. Making eye contact. They would chat a little. He was saying "She wants me." I felt humiliated and disgusted by his behavior. Seeing how her boyfriend was there. It was extremely disrespectful. Not only to me who he hung with everyday, but her man.
Anyways I talked to him about it in a very serious manner and I told him I felt humiliated not only by his actions towards me by not considering my feelings, but also his bad behavior towards a woman who was obviously in a relationship.
He apologized and he took it seriously enough not to do it again and to be considerate of my feelings when other women were around...
I would definitely talk to him about his behavior or he is going to continue disrespecting you.



thanks so much for your replies...
yeah, his venus in libra was definitely a bit of an issue for me at the beginning as he does notice beautiful women all the time, and he is so darned charming that so many women are eager to make eye contact with him. we did have a serious conversation about it and he has stopped for the most part. he is wonderful to me and always takes my feelings into account after we discuss them and he has had time to digest. he showers me with love and affection. but i worry that could change on a dime.
he actually wasn't flirting back with her -- he was just being the nice, charming, funny person he always is. and he saw that i was upset after we left them -- and asked if it was something he did and i told him no. we didn't discuss any further. i think deep down he knows why i was upset.
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As a venus in Libra person, i often find libra women quite interesting but there is one thing about a venus in Libra
that is often ignored, we love and care for one person. you might see us flirting or talking with someone else but
at the end of the day, only one person hold our heart. we choose.
Your boyfriend care for you as much as you care for him, if yo
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As a venus in Libra person, i often find libra women quite interesting but there is one thing about a venus in Libra
that is often ignored, we love and care for one person. you might see us flirting or talking with someone else but
at the end of the day, only one person hold our heart. we choose.
Your boyfriend care for you as much as you care for him, if yo


Oh, I wish that didn't cut off?! I would love to know what you were about to say. I appreciate your comments! It gives me faith that he may not dump me the minute a compatible libra comes along. I do think I definitely need to keep my worrying to a minimum because his actions are loving and genuine. And if there is anything that could push him away it's being too needy or too doubtful.
But I'm also sure you've broken up with people before? Feelings do change. Or do you think it is difficult for him to fall in love with someone else while he is with me? I just worry that if I don't do anything then next time we all hang out they will continue to get to know each other even more and eventually fall in love?! I definitely need to say something to my friend. She's been a wonderful friend up until this point. I'm afraid though that she will deny it and he will deny it and again, that I will bring them together somehow. Oh god. I guess I should just stop thinking about it.
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Leo chick sabotaging her own relationship? Check.
Insecurities abound? Check.
Boyfriend not retaliating flirting? Check.
Simmer down, yo. I think it's more in your head than what's actually happening. I'd get your concern if he was just as flirty, but he's not. Trust the guy if he's not allowing her flirting to happen. Chances are she's just being really friendly. Libra chicks tend to be friendly to the point of flirting.
You sound like more the problem than she does, tbh. Start worrying when your bf starts to show more interest beyond being nice and friendly. Any female can flirt with your man. It only goes as far as he allows it to and if he's not willing to let it go beyond her making an ass out of herself, you really shouldn't stress about it.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Leo chick sabotaging her own relationship? Check.
Insecurities abound? Check.
Boyfriend not retaliating flirting? Check.
Simmer down, yo. I think it's more in your head than what's actually happening. I'd get your concern if he was just as flirty, but he's not. Trust the guy if he's not allowing her flirting to happen. Chances are she's just being really friendly. Libra chicks tend to be friendly to the point of flirting.
You sound like more the problem than she does, tbh. Start worrying when your bf starts to show more interest beyond being nice and friendly. Any female can flirt with your man. It only goes as far as he allows it to and if he's not willing to let it go beyond her making an ass out of herself, you really shouldn't stress about it.



Nope. Sorry. Yes, I can be insecure. I fully admitted that. But I have been friends with this Libra gal for 15 years I said. And in that time I've had several boyfriends and a husband that she has met and known. She was always friendly and caring to all of them -- and I never felt threatened by her or her actions before. This is different. She definitely is seeming unhappy in her current relationship and definitely was flirting with him in a deep and intimate (not just playfully flirting) way. Talking about very deep personal issues and really grilling him almost as if it was a date. Asking questions and hanging on his every word, giving her complete and devoted attention to him. No he didn't "flirt" back but he definitely enjoyed it and I saw him check her out as we were walking away from the restaurant. And he definitely locked eyes with her back while they were conversing. Yes, he had his arm around me the entire time, but it still hurt and still helped to feed my fears that given more time together they could fall in love. I just don't want to sit in the sidelines while they do so.
And I haven't done anything to sabotage my own relationship; I've taken no action on these feelings. That's why I am on this site trying to get some perspective. I'm fully willing and able to take a step back and recognize my own faults here -- but I am trying to look at the whole situation objectively and would love further comments that help me to do so. This is truly a tricky situation for me. Any further advice would be so greatly appreciated.
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Advice- stop worrying over a non issue at the moment.
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Also, you really need to reread what it is that you're writing because your answer is there every time you write about this. The biggest part of this "problem" is your insecurity. It's YOU. Admitted issue or not, it's why you're having these worries. I think that if you get that in check, this "problem" will go away. Do you really think SO little of yourself that you think your boyfriend is going to dump you because your friend has a "deep" convo with him? Really? Read how ridiculous this sounds! You have to think more of yourself than that, right?

















....oooor you know, talk to the chick about it. That one's kinda obvious too...
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Posted by moondream

he is wonderful to me and always takes my feelings into account
he showers me with love and affection.
he actually wasn't flirting back with her -- he was just being the nice, charming, funny person he always is.
he will dump me realizing I am not "the one" or something. and then i will be too old to start a new relationship and have an opportunity to have a family.
his venus is in Libra makes me worry that he will never fully commit to me
he didn't "flirt" back but he definitely enjoyed it
Yes, he had his arm around me the entire time, but it still hurt and still helped to feed my fears that given more time together they could fall in love.


this may just be my venus in aries talking, but you have to stop feeding your fears. fear is at the heart of every insecurity. read through your words. for some reason, you are allowing yourself to get lost in these wild imaginings, stemming mostly from the fact that you are afraid of the future. everyone is afraid, especially in love. if in your heart you trust this guy, then trust him. you feel "not good enough" or worry that all this time spent beside you will be forgotten... this mentality will destroy you and this relationship if it grows, and you know this too! everything you have expressed about this virgo of yours is incredible! he treats you with respect, he listens to your feelings, and most of all he cares about you. why are you suddenly so unsure about this relationship & his fidelity? because of some silly braud who wishes she had it like you do? and (omg!) he liked the attention?! of course he did! wouldn't you?? toughen up, you have to be the very best you can be if you ever want to be happy in this life. stop stressing yourself out! go with it and let go. you've built something special with this guy & you should be melting in it. his arm was around YOU that night. all she saw was a devoted virgo. be proud that he can be polite with other women but always comes back to your hips to place his hands on...
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There are probably lots of people who might seem like they'd be more compatible with him, in theory. That doesn't matter in the long term, though. If you're with someone for long enough, you develop an attachment for them. Even if he finds other people interesting or even (!) attractive in the short term, they're not at all on the same footing as you to begin with.
If the relationship is watertight, it really doesn't matter what she does. What you do does, however.
Let him glimpse your thoughts, even if you do it indirectly by joking around about it (which acknowledges that you're aware but don't feel threatened - but only if that fits your personality). Whatever you do, don't let it turn into something emotional or accusatory or overly serious.
If you just brood over it, he'll probably brood about you brooding. Not very pleasant for the either of you.
You don't need to discuss anything with her. Unless you normally share potentially exploitable weaknesses with your friends, of course. :3
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How did this get turned around against the topic creator? This place is so surreal sometimes!
"Yes I can be insecure", she says.
No shit, people. We are all insecure. When I stopped being insecure around my ex was when I stopped caring about "us". Insecurity is good, it means you're not taking your partner for granted. I've met enough "secure" couples to know this.
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Insecurity in a relationship.
Giving the "relationship" power over you,
as in . . . the way this other person acts
has the power to take away your good feelings.
As in, you are not in control of your own feelings,
which means you are not in control of your own thoughts.
As in, you are not your own person.
Other people, other events are in control of you.
People and events are outside of you.
They are not you.
The lesson to be learned is that
you get your strength from inside of you.
Do not let what you see outside of you
change your good feelings.
You can drop your insecurity when you know
that you create your own good feelings.
Then you can love all that is outside of you
unconditionally.
Love is acceptance, where you give space
to all that is outside of you to be what or who they are.



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Posted by moondream
... will he ever really commit to me? i know Virgo's are slow moving to commit and so i've been as patient as possible -- but i'm 36 and so worried that we will be together for a few more years and then he will dump me realizing I am not "the one" or something.



Posted by moondream
he is wonderful to me and always takes my feelings into account after we discuss them and he has had time to digest. he showers me with love and affection.
he actually wasn't flirting back with her -- he was just being the nice, charming, funny person he always is. and he saw that i was upset after we left them -- and asked if it was something he did and i told him no. we didn't discuss any further. i think deep down he knows why i was upset.

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You don't trust him .. so why should he want to be commited to you?
You talk about the Libra girl, as if it's up to her whether or not he will be with her ... as if he has no part in deciding who he wants.
Insecurity is ugly as fuck .. and most people veer away from it.
There's no problem here except you ... but, you don't seem to want to have to deal with yourself, and so you are putting the blame on your Libra friend, as if it's her fault that you are so insecure that you can't even trust a man who (quote) "he is wonderful to me and always takes my feelings into account"

From what you've written here .... you don't deserve him because you have taken his devotion towards you and betrayed those feelings by the existence of this thread which is suggesting that if the Libra wants him, then his loyalty to you meant nothing to you because you aren't giving him any credit at all.




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Different people, different comfort zones. It's not like she was throwing around ultimatums.
People ought to playfully (read: not uptight) admit (read: not accuse) to their twinges of jealousy every once in a while (read: not all the time). It's actually kinda hot.
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Why do people hide their jealousy anyway? I'm always the first one to admit that I'm jealous and possessive. If I sense something that does not sit well with me regarding my partner's behaviour - even if she's far being inappropriate - I will address it playfully but in a straightforward manner. It's a way of opening a dialogue and also letting her know that I know. What's the point of acting dumb?
This is one area in life where I allow myself to be somewhat immature. Besides, what woman wants a cold fish for a partner who doesn't blink an eye when she flirts with other men? If she does, then she's in it for all the wrong reasons. Now most of you will say 'I want a man who trusts me' and blah blah blah.... but even if i trust you, what really stings is letting the other prick have the satisfaction of you making him feel more special than he really is, even if it's just for a brief moment. So it's not really about insecurities, it's just pure jealousy! smile
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Posted by Let*It*Be
Security brings STRENGTH. Strength to NOT let another female cause you to become ugly and hot under the collar. Security in a relationship is KNOWING the man you are with will NOT cross the line and if he does, he was never yours to begin with. Strength=Trust. Without that, a relationship will not last. Don't know what the serious lack of understanding that is. Damn..


Oh I get it, so I'm suppose to be civilized about it like some frustrated, bourgeois couple in an Ingmar Bermgan film who never speak directly what's on their minds? How can people live like that? And you can never KNOW that your partner will NOT cross that line, so that's prety much out of the equation as far as I'm concerned. I don't take anyone for granted.
So I'm with CluelessCancer, the word TRUST is thrown around very lightly in here. Let's say my partner earns my trust..... that's easily done, but does that mean that I can truly, totally, fully trust her with no more headaches? And then if she betrays me, I should comfort myself with the idea that "she was never mine to begin with"? What good does that do? Trust is just an illusion.
I do sort of get where you're coming from: live and let live, when and if something happens you will know that person is no longer trustworthy. But you're talking about something we all have to accept, after all we cannot judge our partners for something they may or may not do, so we have no other choice but to play along with the illusion of trust. BUT, what seems to be the topic here is whether or not it's ok to show jealousy? And I for one am not in the habit of sitting with my tail between my legs.
I just don't get this dead-end idea of trust that some of you have.
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Obviousely people don't enter relationships to betray one antoher, but it happens just the same.
And that's all I have to say on the subject of trust.
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Regardless of trust, when someone's attention is being hogged by someone or something else (Virgos love projects), their partner feels a little neglected (human nature). That's where introverts and extroverts sometimes clash in social gatherings - it's tough to remember to include your date into conversations when you're busy chatting up the room. If that happens, it's okay for them to envy (read: desire) the attention that you're freely giving away to others. That "envy" is fine so long as you're not being demanding (the OP definitely isn't - she's even wondering if she should step out of their way(!) - which if anything is erring on the side of being overly accommodating.)
It's a self-confidence issue, sure, but not in a stifling, soul-crushing kind of way. Just needs more reassurance. Much preferable to dating a robot. Petrol is more expensive than emotional food.
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I don't get why you two don't GET that the OP has .....




There are basically two types of people.
1. they realize that the topic is about the other person, and so rationalizes their thoughts as taken the other person's issue into consideration, without making it personal
2. they think about themselves, personally, how they feel ... and then respond according to their own standards of how they believe the issue is unfolding.
Posted by enfant_terrible
I'm always the first one to admit that I'm jealous and possessive.
If I sense something that does not sit well with me
I will address it playfully but in a straightforward manner.
It's a way of opening a dialogue and also letting her know that I know. What's the point of acting dumb?
.... I allow myself to be somewhat immature.


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I prefer a man to be possessive of me. Not controlling, but possessive. The Virgo I'm dealing with doesn't get jealous or doesn't show it. It's very annoying. It's like he doesn't care.

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Those two ^^^^ responsers were addressing themselves ... not the OP

That is the reason why they can't understand when a person uses logic ... because everything is deeply subjective, and so when a person talks about the OP's actual issue, it throws them for a loop and they cannot understand why you would say something like that .. because those two believe this is about them because they are person #2

They are easy to spot ... they are the ones who have no clue what the subject is about because they are too busy talking about themselves.
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You do your virgo man a great disservice by showing such a lack of trust in his feelings for you. He will eventually see that he can do nothing to make you trust and respect him and he will leave. Men require trust and respect before love, your love for him is not enough and if you cannot feel the other things for him then this is neither his nor your friends fault. Look within.
Some of the Leo women on these boards make me want to scream, or choose a new sun sign smile
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The op is insecure because her best friend seem to be having long eye-contact sessions with her boyfriend. She is afraid they have too much in common and that it creates a spark between them. For that reason she obviousely doesn't like having them around together. THAT's what the topic is about. You guys seem to suggest that she should just play dumb and oblivious around them. I for one wouldn't give them that satisfaction.
Now, what I brought to the topic is my personal experience, since I don't see how I can be as precise and all-knowing about someone else's privat life, the way all of you seem to be. So by sharing my experience I was simply hoping she could find something of relevance to her situation.
And 1,5 years is nothing. It's right about then that the infatuation phase is settling and real life is tapping on your shoulder. That's when things start to unravel for real. I would say it takes approx 2 years to really get to know a person, and even then they change in the process. What's really them and how much of them has been formed by the relationship? and so on.
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The op is insecure because her boyfriend has venus in libra and her girl friend is a libra. They live very far apart and have met twice, the girl friend seems to me to have being trying to get to know her best friends man, however she may well be back in her own town now wondering why the OP was talking to HER boyfriend the whole time, that is if she is as insecure as the OP is. I think I'll be watching out for every Aries girl that crosses my mans path in the future, obviously we have no control over ourselves and how we act, venus seems to force us to fall for someone whether we are already in a loving respectful relationship or not.
Nowhere in the post does Moondream say anything about her virgo man flirting with her friend or doing anything at all that would show he isn't caring for her and respecting of her, she has based all of her insecurities purely on an astrological placement, which to me is taking the whole astrology thing a bit too far. Surely his actions to date are all that she needs to see the proof of his commitment. Unless I'm missing something... somehow I'm guessing this relationship didn't start of in the "normal" manner and the OP is expecting a "what goes around comes around" scenario but pitting astrology as the perpetrator of her current or impending unhappiness.
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Posted by moondream

so basically we went and visited the town my friend lives in again last week -- went to lunch with her and her boyfriend and she flirted very seriously with my boyfriend all afternoon. she practically didn't break eye contact with him the entire time. i ended up speaking to her boyfriend the whole afternoon because she was glued to my boyfriend and i tried to play it cool and not let it effect me. she must feel pretty strongly about him to flirt so seriously with him in front of me, knowing the difficult journey i went on just to get to be with this new man. (


Your mistake?

Not shutting down the conversation.
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Whoa, whoa, whoa. I walk away from this thread for a day and a half and just read sooo many posts that say I don't trust my BF?!?!?!? I NEVER said that. I trust him entirely. I trust him to do the right thing. Completely. I've known this Virgo for almost 4 years and I knew what a solid person he was before I entered into this relationship. I wouldn't be with him if I didn't trust him.
However; love is a mystery. When I fell for him it was shocking to me because I had known him for a while and all of a sudden when I heard that he had feelings for me it was like a light bulb went off. It was inconvenient for me to fall in love with him -- but I did so badly that I rearranged a lot of stuff in my life so that I could be with him. Love is powerful stuff people. My fear is that he could have a change of heart, he could decide I'm not "the one", or he could meet someone else -- but I know if any of those things happen he would handle them in an honest and trust worthy way. And normally, I would accept the fact that there could be someone 'out there' who is a better fit for him and not be insecure about it. The fact that there seems to be a spark between him and HER, and the fact that this is astrologically relevant, is what upsets and concerns me.
My question was more how to deal with this. The next time I am around my friend there will be an interest for "all of us" to hang out -- or at least now they will want to get to know each other even more. And I can't and would never try and tell my BF who to talk to -- who to be friends with. But last week when I was around the two of them together it was like I didn't exist. That's not fun for me. In fact, it felt like torture. So; I don't really want to hang out with the two of them together. That's my choice and actually a very confident choice. But it starts to feel wrong and controlling -- or like it will make them want to know each other even more. The problem for me starts to get ethical -- is that wrong? Am I purposely keeping them apart? Should I let them hang out and get to know each other and just deal with it and see what happens? Again; I'm not here to stand in the way of anyone's happiness -- but I am trying to define my own comfort boundaries.


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Posted by 25thDecan
Call me a dick but I have serious issues with women giving me orders, voting, driving cars, holding public office(schtick uh mundo here)....but in the case of the OP's guy...why let two women decide for you when you're already joined at the hip with one you care about? And...my venus is in libra. In relationships when someone else's friend steps my way, they fall into this chasm where I'm nowhere to be conveniently found...so...pee on that theory.


I'm always interested in your posts 25th Decan (maybe its your Virgo/Libra!) so, I'm always happy to read your thoughts...But; I also never said that my friend and I were "deciding" anything. This is really all about my man. He makes the decisions obviously. My fear is that if he gets to know someone who is a better astrological match that he will leave me for her.
Also, one thing I've read about Venus in Libra is that it could take a while for a real true lasting commitment; that they are looking for their most "ideal" partner. I worry that he is absolutely faithful right now and loves me, but that maybe deep down he only sees this as a temp thing -- that he doesn't see me as "the one".
I wonder if you would be in a relationship if you felt like it wouldn't work out in the long run? The reallllly long run? Would you stay in that relationship if it was comfortable enough? Or would you break it off knowing that it will save heartache later??
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"i am truly afraid that he will fall in love with her if they get to know one another better"
This does not speak of trusting your boyfriend.
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"My question was more how to deal with this."
Why not pick up the telephone and talk to your friend, get the air cleared about whether or not she is in fact interested in your boyfriend in a romantic way. One way or another, if you did trust your boyfriend you would not be imagining the future where he cannot help himself and heads off with her.
You need to stop reading up on venus in libra and start communicating with both of them.
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Posted by celticlioness
"i am truly afraid that he will fall in love with her if they get to know one another better"
This does not speak of trusting your boyfriend.


Exactly! Make up your mind, or at least define what "trust" means to you. I felt from the get go that you didn't fully trust your boyfriend given the new situation - as I pointed out, new circumstances arise, people change - therefore TRUST IS AN ILLUSION you hold on to til that day comes that everything changes. So you can never fully trust that a person won't change his/her feelings, perspective, priorities.... you can only choose to ACT cool and oblivious til the shit hits the fan.
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Why do people hide their jealousy anyway? I'm always the first one to admit that I'm jealous and possessive. If I sense something that does not sit well with me regarding my partner's behaviour - even if she's far being inappropriate - I will address it playfully but in a straightforward manner. It's a way of opening a dialogue and also letting her know that I know. What's the point of acting dumb?
This is one area in life where I allow myself to be somewhat immature. Besides, what woman wants a cold fish for a partner who doesn't blink an eye when she flirts with other men? If she does, then she's in it for all the wrong reasons. Now most of you will say 'I want a man who trusts me' and blah blah blah.... but even if i trust you, what really stings is letting the other prick have the satisfaction of you making him feel more special than he really is, even if it's just for a brief moment. So it's not really about insecurities, it's just pure jealousy! smile


If only all men could be like you. Emotional honesty is where it's at! smile
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Look women ur blessed to be a fire sign were the sexiest women alive ! N were fun adventurous n smart ! So y r u insecure Burgos don't call someone their gf for nothing he's with u n if libra lady gets with him fuck him he won't respect her but he won't do that to u he's just being charming n so is he it's in their nature but some advice never trust a bitch with ur man cuz they will fuck u over so fast don't let them have each others number or nothing ! She obviously doesn't respect u if she flirts non stop with ur guy fuck her ! Stupid slut not a true friend kick trash to the curve y envy someone wen u can b u he got with u not her !
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Posted by ElixyRare
Look women ur blessed to be a fire sign were the sexiest women alive ! N were fun adventurous n smart ! So y r u insecure Burgos don't call someone their gf for nothing he's with u n if libra lady gets with him fuck him he won't respect her but he won't do that to u he's just being charming n so is he it's in their nature but some advice never trust a bitch with ur man cuz they will fuck u over so fast don't let them have each others number or nothing ! She obviously doesn't respect u if she flirts non stop with ur guy fuck her ! Stupid slut not a true friend kick trash to the curve y envy someone wen u can b u he got with u not her !


Aren't you the married lady who sneaks off on dates with other men?
hm.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Damn everything's getting crunch with sosc in the hizzouse!


Holy crap, dude. You're everywhere. lol!
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