Lovers mindset
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Virgosrock on Friday, October 28, 2011 and has 10 replies.
How do you know when youve fallen in love with someone? Tell me your zodiac sign pleade...
Well, first off, I'm a virgo.
It's hard to pinpoint honestly. I know I've been in love at least once. When I was about 17. He was a Sag and we had a huge bond. I loved him dearly. I knew I loved him because I seriously loved to see him happy and I wanted to just give him my all. I had nothing to hide from him. We ended things because he had a lot of personal issues that he had to work through, but regardless, I loved him and I wasn't going to hold him back from getting help and getting his life together.
As for now, I'm slowly but surely falling in love with the Taurus I'm with now. I mean, I didn't expect it at all. I didn't even imagine we'd be together now from when we first hooked up like 7-8 months ago. He's one of the few people now that I feel like I can be myself with. I do a lot of things for him mainly because I care about him and seeing him happy honestly brings me a lot of joy. I can't easily describe how I knew I was starting to fall for him. I just knew that "liking him" didn't even describe how I felt at a certain point. My heart just felt really full. I could literally drift off, start thinking of him, and have this huge smile on my face and I'd get butterflies all over again. it's to the point that even when I see some other attractive guy, I'll look, but I won't even feel interested. But when I'm with my taurus, I'm completely giddy even if I'm not necessarily showing it.
Even with a couple of other guys in my past, while I didn't fall in love, I knew there was potential. But these two are the ones I can describe the best. But yeah, falling in love isn't so easy to describe for me.
It's hard to pinpoint honestly. I know I've been in love at least once. When I was about 17. He was a Sag and we had a huge bond. I loved him dearly. I knew I loved him because I seriously loved to see him happy and I wanted to just give him my all. I had nothing to hide from him. We ended things because he had a lot of personal issues that he had to work through, but regardless, I loved him and I wasn't going to hold him back from getting help and getting his life together.
As for now, I'm slowly but surely falling in love with the Taurus I'm with now. I mean, I didn't expect it at all. I didn't even imagine we'd be together now from when we first hooked up like 7-8 months ago. He's one of the few people now that I feel like I can be myself with. I do a lot of things for him mainly because I care about him and seeing him happy honestly brings me a lot of joy. I can't easily describe how I knew I was starting to fall for him. I just knew that "liking him" didn't even describe how I felt at a certain point. My heart just felt really full. I could literally drift off, start thinking of him, and have this huge smile on my face and I'd get butterflies all over again. it's to the point that even when I see some other attractive guy, I'll look, but I won't even feel interested. But when I'm with my taurus, I'm completely giddy even if I'm not necessarily showing it.
Even with a couple of other guys in my past, while I didn't fall in love, I knew there was potential. But these two are the ones I can describe the best. But yeah, falling in love isn't so easy to describe for me.
I'm not certain that being "in love" exists ... perhaps there is only love, and being in lust or infatuation.
Seems to me that every person I've ever met who has used the term, "in love" ... found themselves in a broken relationship where they fought to a bitter end, full of hatred, for the sake of this being "in love".
Whereas the people I know who managed to find happiness and longevity in a relationship refers to how they feel as just loving the person, usually for a specific reason
Seems to me that every person I've ever met who has used the term, "in love" ... found themselves in a broken relationship where they fought to a bitter end, full of hatred, for the sake of this being "in love".
Whereas the people I know who managed to find happiness and longevity in a relationship refers to how they feel as just loving the person, usually for a specific reason
Heh... Wish I knew never been so......
i'm not in love and i never have been but i love the person i'm with. there's lots to love about him.
many times in the past i've been infatuated with a person, or fascinated by them. which is always based on my perception of them, or their potential as a partner, but never rooted in anything tangible.
what i have now is very special. my sag is very open and honest and i respect that, he doesn't hide anything from me. which is probably why it works; it's what i respond to best and it encourages me to do the same with him. whereas before i'd hide in the depths of a person and never face up to what the reality of them was. i'm not certain the 'in love' thing is for me. seems to leave you open to blindness...it's a fantasy. and i believe it can't be achieved in the type of world we occupy. on a spiritual level, yes, but mentally and emotionally...nah.
-pisces
many times in the past i've been infatuated with a person, or fascinated by them. which is always based on my perception of them, or their potential as a partner, but never rooted in anything tangible.
what i have now is very special. my sag is very open and honest and i respect that, he doesn't hide anything from me. which is probably why it works; it's what i respond to best and it encourages me to do the same with him. whereas before i'd hide in the depths of a person and never face up to what the reality of them was. i'm not certain the 'in love' thing is for me. seems to leave you open to blindness...it's a fantasy. and i believe it can't be achieved in the type of world we occupy. on a spiritual level, yes, but mentally and emotionally...nah.
-pisces
Posted by Virgosrock
How do you know when youve fallen in love with someone? Tell me your zodiac sign pleade...
just realised i didn't really answer your question properly. sorry
i loved him the first moment i saw him. it was unexpected. from the start we were both very nurturing of each other. he felt like a friend i was wildly attracted to. we had to really get to know each other though, all those positive first impressions can make a person very complacent.
i find myself wanting to make his life better. i hate when he's stressed, or down, or anything negative really, lol. so i've had to put aside my spoilt brat tendencies and get real with myself. because i want this to last forever. it's a work in progress kinda thing
that's beautiful, peche 
Oh candeh you made my day with your story of u and your taurus men i can soo relate to you and that huge smile lol
Posted by Virgosrock
Oh candeh you made my day with your story of u and your taurus men i can soo relate to you and that huge smile lol
Lol thanks. Honestly, I don't think I really explained it all that well. It's hard to describe love, and kind of how some of the others said here, saying that you're "in love" feels a little weird to me. It's kind of like throwing yourself into this hole. I don't think I even know what being "in love" means to a huge degree, but I know in the finest parts of my heart that I love the person that my taurus is, in every way. I don't want to be in love with love or the idea, because there isn't a definition. I love him, and I loved the sag, and that's really all there is to it.
You will never know when you've fall "in love," but you'll know when you love that person.
Pieces here love for me feels like...
when you see them everything melts away all the pain and suffering from the day or from whatever and whenever just leaves. You can't wait to see them. You get butterfies. You miss hearing their voice after you just spoken to them or if you just left them you ache for them. Your heart fills full to the point that it may burst! The whole room is empty even when it's at full capacity for one else is there but your love. Just the two of you.
Nothing will stand between you two for you will not allow such a thing to occur. You would tear apart the heavens itself if it would grant you just one more second for you to be with your love.
when you see them everything melts away all the pain and suffering from the day or from whatever and whenever just leaves. You can't wait to see them. You get butterfies. You miss hearing their voice after you just spoken to them or if you just left them you ache for them. Your heart fills full to the point that it may burst! The whole room is empty even when it's at full capacity for one else is there but your love. Just the two of you.
Nothing will stand between you two for you will not allow such a thing to occur. You would tear apart the heavens itself if it would grant you just one more second for you to be with your love.
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