Moon in Virgo - does it matter?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by lilo on Saturday, November 10, 2007 and has 13 replies.
I just discovered I'm sag/sun virgo/moon and the object of my affection is a virgo/sun virgo/moon guy. I read that the moon sign plays a major role in relationship compatability? Do you all find this to be true?? I ask because for whatever reason I 'get' this guy and I'm wondering if it has to do sharing the same moon sign (since apparently Sag and Virgo see the world differently). hmm
I don't know, lilo .. everybody has their different theories on what planets need to be where, for compatibility .. and I'm not convinced that any of it really matters.
A person could fall for a total bumb ... and to you, he's awesome. I'm believing that we, as people, fall first-look for reasons why later. Also, I believe that qualities we find in one person that is an attraction, those same qualities will repel you with another person.
One person can stimulate you, the other can't .. even if thier planets are in the same placement? Why? Because we have fallen and that's what we WANT to see.
However, if I had to think about planet placements ... I would think that the woman's moon should be compatible with his Venus, since the female aim in a relationship is domestically oriented ... and since his Venus shows how he would be "In Love", he would want to embrace the woman he is in love with as it relates to her as the woman of his home, his children ... her moon.
Thanks P-Angel. Interesting. So I looked up his Venus, and well, it's Virgo AGAIN. Which is good I guess since that's where my moon is, but is it?? Is this like a triple 6?
You're welcome, lilo ... though, I really don't know much about astrology, and usually depend on other people to tell me what stuff means.
My assessments of planets is in reverse .. meaning, I look at people and how they act and then associate it with a planet, rather than the other way around.
My husbands 5 personal planets are:
Sun - Virgo
Moon - Aries
Mercury - Virgo
Venus - Cancer
Mars - Pisces
And whether this has any compatibility with my planets, I've no clue, however, his Venus/my Moon is both in Cancer.
Thanks pL and P-Angel. I find this all very fascinating. I only took note of the fact he was a Virgo because my mom, dad and oldest brother are all Virgos as well as two previous bosses and a close friend. Def similarities among all and I relate quite well, must be my moon. What is Mercury all about? Arent all Virgo's the same in this regard?
"What is Mercury all about? Arent all Virgo's the same in this regard?"

No ... Mercury is associated with communication style , though how verbal pursuits come across are impacted by their sun, along with other planet placements.
For example, we'll take two Virgo's that are members here to use for discerning the difference.
Dyr has Mercury in Libra: He's more socialable on all levels and comes across as though he's the epitome of diplomacy .. yet, pull his Virgo sun into the scenerio and his nature will become more critical when his feathers are ruffled .. though, for a Virgo to be critical when cornered isn't unusual, however, it appears more evident that something is under his skin because his normal disposition is cordial.
Q has Mercury in Virgo: His style is very exacting, no mess .. chatting on the small-talk level is not natural, for it doesn't include facts and figures. Pull his Virgo sun into it, and as the other Virgo's, he will become critical .. however, because he appears fussy with everyday speech (because small-talk is inconcievable) anyway, when he's fired-up, it doesn't appear to be unusual for his normal dispostion.

Hope that helps smile
Although, like I said .. I don't really know. My assessments of planets are based on observing behaviour first, and then association with planet placements.
If you go to: cafeastrology.com you'll find definitions for the planets. There are other sites that are probably more accurate, however, that one is pretty simplified and you should be able to find the info your seeking.
As for the moon in Virgo, I recently met a Cappy girl, ever since we locked eyes, you could feel there was something, there was immediate trust. Later it turns out she has moon in Virgo as well..cool!
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Now previous comments from shaka2:: OOOOOOOPS!!!!

That stuff about Capricorns is spot on, Ive found that Cappy's so-called strength and ambition comes mostly from FEAR (Saturn is about fear), fear of being a loser, of being "less" than others, this makes them VERY rigid from what Ive observed, they also seem to like to have everything middle-of-the-road, the way they dress, their habits and mannerisms, etc while trying to sell you a different image of them and trying to come across as if they are really interested in you (because they're (again) afraid you might think of them in a negative way..) While Virgos can show some of these things on a lesser degree too, they are in general more of wild cards and most dont really care what other people think of them, to be honest.

oh..and they are incredibly dogmatic!
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oh..virgos are not stable!!!
Looks like virgos hate AND Love Caps!
With Caps once they love,they do not hate Winking!

its just "our little secret" Ok
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NO- IT'S NOT OK! ABSOLUTELY NOT! SINCE THERE ARE **NO** SECRETS BETWEEN "US"!!
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(even though I never said I loved this girl, shes just a friend),
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WHO CARES EVEN IF YOU LOVE HER? I DID NOT ASK FOR ANY JUSTIFICATIONS! AND YOU DO HAVE MY PERMISSION TO "LOVE" ANY ONE YOU LIKE AS I AM NOT JEALOUS LIKE VIRGOS!!!(SINCE WHEN VIRGOS STARTED TO "LOVE" -- JUST DOES NOT SUIT FOR ROBOTS).
BTW MOST VIRGO ROMANCES START WITH "FRIEND"!
FOR THE RECORD, YOU HAVE TOUCHED NONE OF MY NERVES!
TONS OF "LOVE"!!!
N.
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must "admit" - you virgos are great with words.
U virgos are VERY CHARMING but it's not easy to have Caps fall for you folks.
It's generally the other way around, virgos generally fall hard for Caps.
Dear Shaka2,
What is your DOB? I mean on which date in Sep. were you born?? Just curious!
"Love"
N.
well, im a virgo moon, and i dated 'incompatible' sun signs because we had compatible moon signs before.
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There you go!
Tell me, what can that Sun and Moon and what ever other starts , sitting many lightyears away from us can do to us and our relationships? IF WE COMMIT TO SOMETHING, IT IS NOT IMPOSSIBLE, IT CAN WORK IF WE WILL MAKE IT WORK. It has nothing to do with Astrology.

I know a lot of Virgo Sag couples -- it seems to work well both ways, though I know more Virgo men who get together with Sag women. The Virgs keep the relationship steady, and the Saggies supply inspiration. With the Virg women/Sag man relationship, the Vir-Girl is very into her career, and her Saggie hubby helps her (he's a genius with computers, very intuitive). They have two kids and seem very happy.
Mutable/mutable seems to be a good combo, because both partners seems to go with the flow, can turn on a dime, and keep each other interested.
I'm grateful for my Virg moon, Gem rising, because as a Scorp i have a tendency to get pretty stubborn at times.

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