MR Virgo, what r u, where r u?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Perfect Gem Angel on Sunday, March 23, 2008 and has 3 replies.
Okay, been lurking around and reading, looking for any insight, for my Virgo male is playing with me. Or is he? He is very into astrology, which I am, but I have not done my charts completely still working on them. Anyway, he asked me point blank what day I was born and what my full name was/is. LOL.
Anyway, it goes like this. I approached him, he was married, and my first married man and my last. We spoke days later, and he was in a hotel, he had left her, spent the night with him again, mistake. I know. So, we just wowed each other, idk, it just happened like that. Attraction like that has never happened to me. Close, but not like that. Anyway, so he got his own place and called me again, I seen him again. He is very open to me about his personal life, his experiences in life, not his marriage, no, not that. So, I take notice that he is really having a hard time w/this Divorce that he supposedly asked for and wanted. He was married for 13 years and w/her 18 with no kids between them, he has but one son he is 19. To my knowledge, she has no kids. Anyway, SO I tell him he needs to make up his mind, cause sex is sex and relationships are relationships and he needed to do what he needed to do. I did not want to have any impact on what he was going through, I did not want to do what I had already done, interfere in his marriage.
So we don't talk, and he contacts me again, well, I was mad at him and being the gem I am, I wanted that emotional response I was not getting from him that he had touched on. Anyway long story short, I stayed outta his way and away from him had no communication w/him.
Anyway, it goes like this. I approached him, he was married, and my first married man and my last. We spoke days later, and he was in a hotel, he had left her, spent the night with him again, mistake. I know. So, we just wowed each other, idk, it just happened like that. Attraction like that has never happened to me. Close, but not like that. Anyway, so he got his own place and called me again, I seen him again. He is very open to me about his personal life, his experiences in life, not his marriage, no, not that. So, I take notice that he is really having a hard time w/this Divorce that he supposedly asked for and wanted. He was married for 13 years and w/her 18 with no kids between them, he has but one son he is 19. To my knowledge, she has no kids. Anyway, SO I tell him he needs to make up his mind, cause sex is sex and relationships are relationships and he needed to do what he needed to do. I did not want to have any impact on what he was going through, I did not want to do what I had already done, interfere in his marriage.
So we don't talk, and he contacts me again, well, I was mad at him and being the gem I am, I wanted that emotional response I was not getting from him that he had touched on. Anyway long story short, I stayed outta his way and away from him had no communication w/him.
He text me weeks later after his divorce was final. He called me over for sex, and we conversed first, nervously at first, but felt right, so that subsided quickly. He told me how he had not had anyone else to his place, or had not had sex w/anyone else there, that he was getting familiar w/his self again. He told me he was a one-woman man. He didn't want to be hurt anymore; he never wanted to be married again. And he knew he was preaching to the choir. I didn't ask for any of this mind you, I was fully prepared to do the down boy thing and I did leave though he asked if I was prepared to stay, I could have, I didn't, I told him I had to go home. It was much to good there in his arms. He told me he didn't want to hurt me. He would hurt someone who hurt me, yet, that is exactly what he did. He spoke to me of the zodiac a little, and enough for me to know he is into it. Anyway, this all ended badly, I went unannounced to his place, it was not cool and he was not alone?I didn't see who was there. Sorry, I left w/my dignity in tact. Simply asked did he feed me a line of sh*t.
Didn't hear from him, and bam a text?he wants to sex me again?well???no reply is what he got???..and some complete off the wall bouncing from me?anyway????is this typical for the Virgo male? Or is there something here I am missing or not seeing, of course there is more, but dang this is a lot of information?I appreciate your time here w/me.
Didn't hear from him, and bam a text?he wants to sex me again?well???no reply is what he got???..and some complete off the wall bouncing from me?anyway????is this typical for the Virgo male? Or is there something here I am missing or not seeing, of course there is more, but dang this is a lot of information?I appreciate your time here w/me.
He really confused me with all this information and this is a grown man, older than myself, whom also tells me he is gonna make me a "Cd" that will be his love note to me. I was like.....the "L" word, ..........dont know what to think.......He is settled into being a "gentleman" which i dont feel as though i ended this with "lady" in his mind.......not where i wanted to be for sure, but, i do want to learn from my expierences and thus, if he comes at me again, ? what to do, i would love to spend time with this man, but not summonsed like a common call girl....nope. that aint me and allowing it already, well, bad idea, didnt want any pressure on either of us, but this was a bit outta the "okay" zone.......he never even called an checked on me or apologized after i left his porch before he "summonsed" me again....wth?
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