I would like to thank everyone who has responded to my threads, who has taken time to share their stories and/or wisdom with me. I have greatly benefited from your posts. All the threads but especially my last two: ?To All Women Interested in Virgo Males?? and ?Virgo Sun + Aqua Moon? have helped me make a decision ? finally.
I have decided not to pursue this particular Virgo man anymore. It is unfortunate that we work together and I will see him every single day, but I am sure I have the strength somewhere in me to go through with my decision.
There are several reasons for my decision, and I will be sharing some of these with you hoping that my reasoning would help others who are in similar situations with me to make the best decisions for them.
As far as the astrological reasons go, finding out that this virgo man has a moon in aqua has been very influential in my decision. I came to DXP trying to find out why this guy was acting the way he was, and the discussion on Virguys has helped me a lot. However, there was something still missing and it turned out to be his moon sign. His aloofness, ultra-coolness, reluctance in getting in contact have more to do with his moon sign rather than his sun sign in my opinion. As a cancer girl, I do not think he's compatible with me, at least not romantically. So, I would recommend others looking for answers regarding their virguys to look closer to his chart ? you never know what you might find!
As for the non-astrological reasons, I finally realized that his qualities are not exactly what I have been looking for. I think me chasing him has to do with my ego at some level ? as Branh suggested. (And I really thank him for opening my eyes on this) I am a pretty, smart, fun girl. I usually don't have any problems attracting men. (I have more problems getting attracted to them! LOL!) But this particular virgo has been more difficult compared to most other men. I think this has been a big factor in my attraction to him. He has many very good qualities as a person; however as a lover, I don't think he can meet my expectations. Perhaps I can't meet his either and hence his aloofness towards me.
I want a warm and attentive man, who is not afraid to show his emotions, who is not afraid to commit to someone, and who is okay with letting his heart rule from time to time. I am sure there is someone out there, who meet these criteria among others and I am sure I will meet him one day.
good luck, there is definitely a man out there for u, me and everyone else going thru the same thing....it's hard to make that type of decision, but in the end u gotta do what u gotta do to keep sane geeez.....= )
FFV, at the end of the day, it's really YOU who has to take care of YOU, and to have the courage to take charge of your life talks in volumes .. we aren't all so confident and determined .. you go girl !!!!
Wishing you many wonderful moments with endearing and loving souls.
scopiogoat: Hmmm... is Jan 2007 a month of new beginning for many or what??
Here is what I received in my inbox yesterday from astrology.com! I just read it now, and wow! I guess I should thank Jupiter for opening my eyes! LOL!
------------ Feeling restless? Ready to shake things up? Every now and then we all need to move out of our habitually sleepy ways of living life ... and today is a great time to begin.
You probably felt an intense astrological call for change this past November, when freedom-oriented Jupiter entered its own sign, Sagittarius, for the first time in 12 years. Indeed, during this period, you probably began to contemplate perspectives and objectives you never considered before. Now, on January 22, Jupiter reaches the first of three squares with independent Uranus (beginning a significant cycle that won't end until October 9) and takes 'intense' to a whole new level.
Jupiter's movements always encourage self-improvement, and should help you focus on effecting positive change. No events or situations are circumstantial, and this fiery planet forces us to consider new and improved ways of taking matters into our own hands. The movement into Sagittarius brings optimism along with the urge to seek out more constructive solutions. Uranus -- often referred to as 'the Awakener' -- signals that it's time to wake up and stop hitting the cosmic snooze alarm!
You are likely to feel excited, agitated and fidgety all at once when Jupiter makes its first square. Now is the time to make important and perhaps even radical life alterations. Your world is shifting and you'll likely have to embrace the joyous with the uncomfortable in order to optimize growth and change. By October 9 you'll be feeling centered, liberated and totally in control. In short, you'll be ready to take on the world!
This month, as the square cycle kicks off, be open-minded when encountering any scenario -- from an unforeseen event to an all-too-familiar conflict -- and you'll find yourself making the most of a very significant era.
scopiogoat: I had to let go but it was not by choice. Wouldn't wish the same on my worst enemy
scopiogoat, I feel your pain! But, often, things that give us pain now turn out to be all for the best after some time has passed! Just believe that beautiful things are their way for you to experience. I wish you the best! 🙂
I want a warm and attentive man, who is not afraid to show his emotions, who is not afraid to commit to someone, and who is okay with letting his heart rule from time to time. I am sure there is someone out there, who meet these criteria among others and I am sure I will meet him one day.
wow. that is the virguy that I like. except he does have some rebel traits because of his Aqua ascending, but that's what makes him exciting.
he has his moon in sagittarius, venus in leo and mars in virgo, jupiter in Aquarius. He is very considerate, warm, affectionate, open-hearted, open-minded and attentive. He does let his heart rule from time to time. Whenever I tried to tell him that, he immediately says that he doesn't agree. But he will admit his faults right away as soon as you meet him. I love this guy.
Anywho! enough of the touchy stuff! If I can find him, so can you!! lol
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I have decided not to pursue this particular Virgo man anymore. It is unfortunate that we work together and I will see him every single day, but I am sure I have the strength somewhere in me to go through with my decision.
There are several reasons for my decision, and I will be sharing some of these with you hoping that my reasoning would help others who are in similar situations with me to make the best decisions for them.
As far as the astrological reasons go, finding out that this virgo man has a moon in aqua has been very influential in my decision. I came to DXP trying to find out why this guy was acting the way he was, and the discussion on Virguys has helped me a lot. However, there was something still missing and it turned out to be his moon sign. His aloofness, ultra-coolness, reluctance in getting in contact have more to do with his moon sign rather than his sun sign in my opinion. As a cancer girl, I do not think he's compatible with me, at least not romantically. So, I would recommend others looking for answers regarding their virguys to look closer to his chart ? you never know what you might find!
As for the non-astrological reasons, I finally realized that his qualities are not exactly what I have been looking for. I think me chasing him has to do with my ego at some level ? as Branh suggested. (And I really thank him for opening my eyes on this) I am a pretty, smart, fun girl. I usually don't have any problems attracting men. (I have more problems getting attracted to them! LOL!) But this particular virgo has been more difficult compared to most other men. I think this has been a big factor in my attraction to him. He has many very good qualities as a person; however as a lover, I don't think he can meet my expectations. Perhaps I can't meet his either and hence his aloofness towards me.
I want a warm and attentive man, who is not afraid to show his emotions, who is not afraid to commit to someone, and who is okay with letting his heart rule from time to time. I am sure there is someone out there, who meet these criteria among others and I am sure I will meet him one day.