my virgo man broke up with me :(

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by kellz on Monday, April 15, 2013 and has 16 replies.

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so my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday

.. we were texting and next thing you know he said it was over between us and i asked why & he was being mean and rude .then he said,"look im going through something right now i need my space" and he said he was on some "f**k the world s**t"..that really really really hurt my feelings! we were in love but he seemed very upset and mad and he said it wasn't another girl...i have nothing to do with what he is going through and i feel like he should want me there to help him get through it instead of breaking up with me... im just wondering is this what Virgo guys do when there are going thru stuff in life or what ? is he going to come back to me ? if so, how long ? also im a Pisces

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So very sorry Kelz ;-(. I'm a pisces too so know sometimes what it feels like. Get your girl friends together and go out and let your hair down (I know sometimes it's the last thing you want to do) but keep moving forward and there will be someone better out there for you.
Or do something different, take up a new hobby etc.. Eventually you will get over it and who knows if he does contact you later on down the track you might not even be inclined to take him back as you may have already move on.. his loss *hugs*

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Posted by Mr. Defense
Posted by kellz
so my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday .. we were texting and next thing you know he said it was over between us and i asked why & he was being mean and rude .then he said,"look im going through something right now i need my space" and he said he was on some "f**k the world s**t"..that really really really hurt my feelings! we were in love but he seemed very upset and mad and he said it wasn't another girl...i have nothing to do with what he is going through and i feel like he should want me there to help him get through it instead of breaking up with me... im just wondering is this what Virgo guys do when there are going thru stuff in life or what ? is he going to come back to me ? if so, how long ? also im a Pisces

Smart guy!
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Lol...what is it with you & Pisces! Hahahahahaha...

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Posted by kellz
he said it wasn't another girl

Yeah right. It's another girl. He's letting you down easy.

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Posted by RealTalk
Posted by Mr. Defense
Posted by kellz
so my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday .. we were texting and next thing you know he said it was over between us and i asked why & he was being mean and rude .then he said,"look im going through something right now i need my space" and he said he was on some "f**k the world s**t"..that really really really hurt my feelings! we were in love but he seemed very upset and mad and he said it wasn't another girl...i have nothing to do with what he is going through and i feel like he should want me there to help him get through it instead of breaking up with me... im just wondering is this what Virgo guys do when there are going thru stuff in life or what ? is he going to come back to me ? if so, how long ? also im a Pisces

Smart guy!

Lol...what is it with you & Pisces! Hahahahahaha...
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I'd like to know too

I've nothing against Virgos

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I ended things with my Virgo last week. In the end said something like "have a nice life". He started contacting me and calling 4 days later??? As if nothing happened and never wants to discuss things just not deal with them.
Why do Virgos avoid dealing with their issues?

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Posted by kellz
so my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday .. we were texting and next thing you know he said it was over between us and i asked why & he was being mean and rude .then he said,"look im going through something right now i need my space" and he said he was on some "f**k the world s**t"..that really really really hurt my feelings! we were in love but he seemed very upset and mad and he said it wasn't another girl...i have nothing to do with what he is going through and i feel like he should want me there to help him get through it instead of breaking up with me... im just wondering is this what Virgo guys do when there are going thru stuff in life or what ? is he going to come back to me ? if so, how long ? also im a Pisces

What were you texting?

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Posted by Mr. Defense
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Posted by RealTalk
Posted by Mr. Defense
Posted by kellz
so my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday .. we were texting and next thing you know he said it was over between us and i asked why & he was being mean and rude .then he said,"look im going through something right now i need my space" and he said he was on some "f**k the world s**t"..that really really really hurt my feelings! we were in love but he seemed very upset and mad and he said it wasn't another girl...i have nothing to do with what he is going through and i feel like he should want me there to help him get through it instead of breaking up with me... im just wondering is this what Virgo guys do when there are going thru stuff in life or what ? is he going to come back to me ? if so, how long ? also im a Pisces

Smart guy!

Lol...what is it with you & Pisces! Hahahahahaha...

I'd like to know too I've nothing against Virgos

It's hard to have something against the most superior sign in the zodiac.
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LOL, spoken like a true Egotist Virgo

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Posted by Mr. Defense
Posted by kellz
so my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday .. we were texting and next thing you know he said it was over between us and i asked why & he was being mean and rude .then he said,"look im going through something right now i need my space" and he said he was on some "f**k the world s**t"..that really really really hurt my feelings! we were in love but he seemed very upset and mad and he said it wasn't another girl...i have nothing to do with what he is going through and i feel like he should want me there to help him get through it instead of breaking up with me... im just wondering is this what Virgo guys do when there are going thru stuff in life or what ? is he going to come back to me ? if so, how long ? also im a Pisces

Smart guy!
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I simply agree on this! Lol!

virgosagscorpio

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Posted by kindleberry
I ended things with my Virgo last week. In the end said something like "have a nice life". He started contacting me and calling 4 days later??? As if nothing happened and never wants to discuss things just not deal with them.
Why do Virgos avoid dealing with their issues?

coz we already know what's in there, it does not mean we want you back, we simply miss your company.
You might not like it if we brought up things to your face and pointed those little details and start to annoy you..
We don't avoid dealing with those issues, we've already discussed it with ourselves and for us it's a closed book already.

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Bad sign. I do that when deep inside I don't really care about the person.
Not that I don't want to deal with it, just that that person is not important enough for me to deal with the things mentioned.

Posted by kindleberry
He started contacting me and calling 4 days later??? As if nothing happened and never wants to discuss things just not deal with them.
Why do Virgos avoid dealing with their issues?

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Well that's not easy to say because the issue lies with him basically admiting he is a liar and wrong because he did something behind my back that is unforgivable. He is one of those immature, irresponsible, no one can tell me what to do types.

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Posted by Prince_Pisces
Well if hes being mean, you can be meaner Go to the police and tell them he beat you lol

LOL. You sure you're a pisces?

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Posted by redlobster
This is just a f'd up sign to me - it really is. Especially the Sept born virgo males - just train wrecks, with so many agendas - and I KNOW THIS FROM EXP - so save it!

Hey now, I'm a September Virgo, and if I leave somebody, it means I'm done. Go away. I never want to see you again!
I can't speak for the OP here about why her ex got back in touch with her. Usually with me, its the other way around. I leave, they keep calling. This one girl I dated years ago left me, then stalked me!
So, don't label us just because of a rare inferior Virgo.

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Posted by virgosagscorpio
Posted by kindleberry
I ended things with my Virgo last week. In the end said something like "have a nice life". He started contacting me and calling 4 days later??? As if nothing happened and never wants to discuss things just not deal with them.
Why do Virgos avoid dealing with their issues?

coz we already know what's in there, it does not mean we want you back, we simply miss your company.
You might not like it if we brought up things to your face and pointed those little details and start to annoy you..
We don't avoid dealing with those issues, we've already discussed it with ourselves and for us it's a closed book already.
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Yeah. That IS so Virgo. They think they can deal with everything all by themselves without considering the other party. And that makes it hard for us to deal with them and enter their world.
:/
Sad truth.

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Posted by kellz
so my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday .. we were texting and next thing you know he said it was over between us and i asked why & he was being mean and rude .then he said,"look im going through something right now i need my space" and he said he was on some "f**k the world s**t"..that really really really hurt my feelings! we were in love but he seemed very upset and mad and he said it wasn't another girl...i have nothing to do with what he is going through and i feel like he should want me there to help him get through it instead of breaking up with me... im just wondering is this what Virgo guys do when there are going thru stuff in life or what ? is he going to come back to me ? if so, how long ? also im a Pisces

Hi. How are you now? I'm sorry to hear about your break up.
Yeah, Virgos tend to be like that--space out when they feel like their life's turning around because they fear instability. Once they lose control over something, they run away to think over things and compose themselves.
I and my current guy started in a very rocky road. He admitted he loves me and then just ran off. He distanced himself and just wanted me out of his life. He started being rude as well. But I kept calling and texting and sending emails. He would check me once in a while though to say 'Hi', and 'bye' . But I didn't give up and made tactics for him to talk to me. Virgos like helping. So, what I did was make up some projects and send him. Ofcourse, he would send back an email for the answer. Then one time, he just couldn't take it and asked me to ignore him instead coz he said he just keeps on checking out on me. To cut the story short, he came back in my life admitted he loves me and I'm 'unblocked'. Lol!
My only sentiment is: Until now, he has spacing problem. He tends to ignore me still just like now. He said he's very busy so he messages me just once a day. And as an Aries, I don't like that. I want consistency. I wanna be with him all the time and assure me he's there. But that doesn't work with virgo. So, I guess, if you want him to stay, give him his space. He'll come back if he really likes/wanna be with you. They won't adjust for you. You adjust for them (which is REALLY hard for a bossy Aries like me). Compromise is not in their dictionary. :/ Well, thing are still not that well for me but it will do for now.

I hope it will be okay for the tw

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