Need help from fellow Female Virgo....

Have any Virgo women dated a Capicorn guys? If you have, please share your experiences with me. I am currently talking/dating a capicorn guy and he is confusing me so much. I have posted several threads in the capicorn forum and have gotten great advice. But now I feel like I need some advice from other Virgals who have dated Cap guys. As Virgos we over analize everything....How did you guys handle all of the confusion—

I have "something" with a Capricorn man... Still can't tell you what it really was. We were friends for years, turned friends with benefits for a couple years. It was just drunken hookup whenever we happened to be around each other. We never spoke of it, nobody would have known it was going on.

Last year it changed. I stopped sleeping with him because that was no longer the type of relationship I wanted. We started spending a lot more time together and he became very affectionate. We would talk all day every day and spend every weekend together. This went on for a couple months. But I could never tell if he actually cared for me or was just around in hoped that I would sleep with him again. Trying to read him was like reading a blank wall. I could never tell what his intentions were. But we got along so well and I loved his company so I didn't want to bring up the "relationship" topic and scare him away.

We never opened up to each other and he eventually started seeing someone else. It's been almost a year and I'm still hurt by it. I still think we would have been great together if he would have just opened up emotionally to me. And I still have hope that one day he might come back around.

I am currently with the love of my life- a Cap guy.
We are having some ups and downs, things are not perfect, we are both very human...

But, I think the key to a relationship between the two of us is respect and communication.
And the best way that's worked for us is creating a strong friendship level.

I stopped over analyzing everything and simply expressed how I felt when it was necessary.
If I get the urge to really nitpick I journal, I vent on paper and then verbally communicate once it is rationalized out.
I don't think Capricorns respond well to manipulation.. ie. withholding sex or what have you, if you know what you want and how you want it then tell him and he will respond with respect -hopefully.

I'm not sure what is confusing you about his behavior but perhaps taking a step back and allowing him some space without expecting justification for it will raise your esteem in his eyes...?
Any way, grain of salt with what I tell you =) I'm sure wiser heads than mine will pop in with advice for you soon.

Hey Clueless! *waves* =)

The Cap is my current boyfriend of two years.

The ex is a Cancer I dated 4years ago and we work together lol (with his twin Cancer bro) and the wedding was a few months ago...
The ex is not in the picture romantically or otherwise we are just friends through work.

My current boyfriend love of my life Cap has been in rehab for the last two months and for another month, and we are both attending therapy yes.
We are working on this relationship like there is no tomorrow, I thought it was worth it since he has taken it seriously and made actual, tangible changes in our life together.

My sun is in Virgo and my moon is in Capricorn haha but I also have or had something with a Capricorn guy.... I'm not really sure if things are over... it's weird.
I personally think their hot and cold attitude is hard to cope with, but if theyre worth the time and effort I wouldn't mind so much. It's pretty hard to not over analyze everything he does.

Everything between us seems to be up in the air since he is not sure about how he feels, and I can't help but to push him away because I'm terrified of getting hurt. I feel like this might be backfiring and confusing him since I told him that I like him a week ago expecting a rejection but instead I received a friendly "hey whats up" the next day like WHAT..
but this week I've been really cold towards him. To be honest, I have no idea how to handle the confusion

My first bf was a Cap, the longest relationship I had was with a Cap and the last guy I dated was another Cap, so what's with them? Or should I say what's with me? Lol! Cap guys are good people in general, I've seen different Cap traits with every Cap guys I had in my life. They are old fashion in many ways and are sweet in showing their affection. Communication is important to them. Don't try to read them coz most of the time you will fail so just be yourself and if something bothers you, talk it over with your cap since you're a Virgo it will be a lot easier connecting with him, I myself find it easy to connect with Cap guys than any other guys. Give them due respect and when I say respect, I mean RESPECT. They will treat you like a real lady and they expect you to be one. Public behavior is well criticized by a Cap guy (as far as my experience was). They expect you to be a real WOMAN most of the time. You are a Virgo and if you think the relationship is not worth it, stop it as early as now but if you think that it's worth something then go for it, I can tell you that it's really worth it and time wil prove that you didn't make a bad choice. Once you win their respect you will have it as long as you deserve it, once you have their love and devotion you will have it for as long as they live, I have my ex-cap and he honestly tells me that he still loves me even if he was with another woman now, see, even their emotion won't stop them from getting/having what they want or what their plans are. Just be yourself coz they are good at reading beneath the surface. True love with a Cap is the sweetest Love youll ever find. Good luck to you and your Cap!

^^^well said!

dated yes. he had virgo moon too. To me, capricorn is too dry and boring. Very straightforward no nonsense kinda guy. I'll know where I stand with them, no confusion. But this is just my experience.

Posted by wagtail
^^^well said!

Thank you! wisdom from yrs and yrs of being with a Cap

@virgosagscorpio

Thank you so much for your advice! It helps me kind of understand a little. As a Virgo I want to analize everything and it is so hard not to. Ok I just to have take one day at a time....

Posted by MsImpala66
@virgosagscorpio

Thank you so much for your advice! It helps me kind of understand a little. As a Virgo I want to analize everything and it is so hard not to. Ok I just to have take one day at a time....

Glad to be of service...