Need to think and not react this time.

So I just got in. Alot of things happened tonite but the thing that I'm still pissed off is the conversation I had with the leo bf girl of the virgo girl I'm into. So I see her and come up to say hey. She tells me that the virgo girl has shown her every single text that I've sent her then she quickly blurts out "leave her the fuck alone" I catch myself, and calmly ask wtf she was talking about. She informs me that the virgo girl is always talking about me, and how I won't leave her alone. So I again calmly whip out my phone and pull up the last text that I sent her (Oct 17) and I haven't looked at her in the club or talked to her since the last text. I talk to her friends and do my own thing. And then she says oh well she's always going on and on about you, I haven't talk to her in about a week in a half. 1st last week she saw me at the club and I saw her, I didn't speak and went out of my way to ignore her. She did see me dance with a girl tho. And she walked on the wooden deck in the smokers area, when she walked past me she stomped her feet as she passed. I just keep looking at my phone and texting someone. So wtf? A big part of me wants to be really mean and spiteful right now. The leo girl said she just doesn't feel the same way and I should just do my own thing. I told the leo girl that I'm not going to call,text, or say anything to her as I've made my intentions quite clear. And I think she's being childish, then her friend says yeah she's really stubborn and she think I'm kewl and nice blah blah blah..... I told her I'm not wanting myself for females that approach me, and I'm not desperate by any standard. I feel like a fucking line was crossed >>> making me look like an stalker asshole fuck that. If she thinks she's it, she's not I am. I have just as much if not more pride, ego, and fucking stubborness as she does. But I have to slow down and think is this some stupid test? If she read my text then she should know I said it twice, that I will stop when ever you tell me too and I will respect your wishes. I stopped myself from deleting her # fb and her friends then blasting on fb. Rant over...

Clit Commander ... tbh, I've never met a man who actually knows what to do with the clit, how to treat it.

They think they do .. but, they don't.

And I've slept with many men.



Roxy talked once about her Aries man (years ago) .... and in her description, it was obvious that he knew

Hey Lobo- Who elected the Leo spokesperson for the Virgo? It sounds like classic v-jay blocker from an outsiders stance.She "said"she don't like you but I do.Stop showing the Leo anything!!!!She needs to be cut out of the loop.Un inset the Lioness,the only thing she is good for is a hat,scarf and mittens.I bet the Virgo doesn't even know that punta is "helping".Plllzzzzzz.Don't be a Cyrano De Bergerac.

I'd say cut the chase,ask her when you two are alone and in person and ask her out for a quickie date, a coffee and an art installation view.You have a shared experience to build on.

Alls that means is that he's horny ... that has nothing to do with knowing


How would you be sure of what he knows?

Posted by Lobo

.. last week she saw me at the club and I saw her, I didn't speak and went out of my way to ignore her. She did see me dance with a girl tho. And she walked on the wooden deck in the smokers area, when she walked past me she stomped her feet as she passed. I just keep looking at my phone and texting someone. So wtf?

People seem to be addressing the Leo, as if she is the problem .... ::: shakes head ::: ... people will say just about anything to avoid addressing the truth of the matter.

I'll talk real to you ...

You're gaming her, rather than actually trying to have a real relationship .. and it doesn't matter if it's the Leo talking or god or the man on the moon .. the issue is you trying to play for her attention, when if you like the woman you are suppose to be honestly and respectfully relating to her, rather than purposely ignoreing her with intentions of trying to manipulate the situation to gain attention

Posted by P-Angel
Clit Commander ... tbh, I've never met a man who actually knows what to do with the clit, how to treat it.

They think they do .. but, they don't.

And I've slept with many men.



Roxy talked once about her Aries man (years ago) .... and in her description, it was obvious that he knew

One shall treat the cliterus like a small injured animal, who still wants to play.

What's the word, bro? Update, please (and damnit, it betta be good).

As a side, I wouldn't trust the Leo BUT I would still keep a healthy distance from the Virgal just in case she really does feel as though you are stalking her. *rolls eyes*

So she nor her "agent" says absolutely nothing about leaving her alone all the while you were texting her, and as soon as you cease, she's damn near ready to file an order of protection? Ha! I predict this will get even more interesting at time goes by.

*Points finger* I hope you didn't text her after we told you not to. Did you—

Posted by wgamador2

Posted by P-Angel
Clit Commander ... tbh, I've never met a man who actually knows what to do with the clit, how to treat it.

They think they do .. but, they don't.

And I've slept with many men.



Roxy talked once about her Aries man (years ago) .... and in her description, it was obvious that he knew

One shall treat the cliterus like a small injured animal, who still wants to play.

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Can't help but smile at this

......

Hmm... I need no familiarization with the clit itself, just the specific combination to manipulating it to my will for the particular woman I'm with.
Every girl has a different combination sequence,the fun part is finding it😛




And to clarify I'm not playing games lady P Angel, I'm merely giving her space and end this slow dance on my terms. If she likes me enough she will want to stop the games as well and come correct just as I have stopped with the games and put what I wanted out there for here to see.


Well VV I've just kept myself from texting her and interacting directly with her. Originally I was going to just speak, maybe compliment then go about my business. But then she was trying to front by walking away when I was coming to say hey. So I just do my own thing and give her space. She hasn't been at the club the last couple of times.Now I see her model friends looking at me when I go hug my neutral as hell club women friends and seeing what I do. So my friends tell me that there is a few red flags with the leo bestie and to watch myself around her as they think that she likes me. {she is acting weird tho}She hugged me like four times in a row when she was a little tipsy. She always playfully grinds on my leg, and used to talk about sucking dick in her past relationships along with her probs plus how guys befriend her to get to the virgo girl I'm into and I would just listen and when asked offer my take on it. I would never bring the virgo girl up in our conversations because I didn't want her to think I was using her to get to her friend (which I really wasn't)So my friend thinks it's my fault 1. I never brought her friend up 2. I actually listen and never hit on her 3. I was really slow in making a move on her friend. and eh still doesn't mean she likes me, as she knows I'm into her friend. She has told me twice that they are like sisters as has the virgo girl when I got the wall speech so... So I deactivated my fb and I'm not going to the club until next month, just gonna focus on other things.

I get that you really like this girl, and considering the way things are going, I think focusing on other things at the moment is a wonderful idea. Investing your energy elsewhere is a great way to get your head back and gain more clarity into the situation.

That said, I can understand you taking time off from the club but...deactivate your fb account? All for one person? Did you not think you could resist the urge to contact her?

Don't beat yourself up (you know how we do). You've done nothing wrong. You are a guy who tried pursuing a girl that he was interested in. Period. If the manner in which you've pursued her maybe put her off, then you've learned? A bit? If it is indeed true that she is not interested, this will pass, heart and mind will mend, and someone more glorious will come along.


Chin up, brutha, chin up.

No the deactivation was the concept out of sight out of mind. And the leo girl fb me sometimes, as I don't trust her right now. And yea I think I was a bit over zealous, but I'm not outta there yet I don't think. At best I crowded her and maybe pissed her off if she thinks I'm playing games. But never fb blocked/ deleted, told by her directly or texted to f off, with her >Moon Taurus Mercury Virgo Venus Scorpio Mars Scorpio she mos def would let me know! I'm Fallin back and give her time to female virgo the pros and cons taking a chance with me.



Guess I'll see what happens in December.

Posted by Lobo


No the deactivation was the concept out of sight out of mind. And the leo girl fb me sometimes, as I don't trust her right now. And yea I think I was a bit over zealous, but I'm not outta there yet I don't think. At best I crowded her and maybe pissed her off if she thinks I'm playing games. But never fb blocked/ deleted, told by her directly or texted to f off, with her >Moon Taurus Mercury Virgo Venus Scorpio Mars Scorpio she mos def would let me know! I'm Fallin back and give her time to female virgo the pros and cons taking a chance with me.



Guess I'll see what happens in December.

To enact the law of scarcity. Clever you.

Will patiently await the update in Dec. 🙂