FYI I'm not a sex maniac or anything, hahaha. But I felt strong attraction to this guy and after a year I thought it was ok to enjoy my sexuality... But I wasn't just wanting to get that out of him. I spent hours talking to him, giving him tickles, even made him some food I knew he liked... I'm guessing he didn't find me sexually attractive enough?
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
It was obvious to me the first time he backed off, that he only wanted to be friends.
It's obvious to me that he's been giving signals all along that he wants to be friends.
You seem to be initiating trying to get him to want more ...
So, why in the hell you slept with a friend, and are now saying you don't get it ... really makes you out to look not so swift. It certainly isn't confusing.
just because you slept with a guy doesn't mean he is suppose to now owe you his emotions ....
He's not into you ... it's not rocket science.
I understand what you say, but I can assure you the way he was talking to me for a month wasn't the "just friends" type of talk. Plus, I don't think he needed to travel 400 kms. to see "a friend" when I'm going home for Christmas.
And if we are friends... it would be nice of him to write back, at least. I'm fine with sleeping with him and being friends now but he seems to just be ignoring me now.