Not feeling your Virgo placements?

I have Virgo in Mars/Venus... This should be something I definitely feel in relationships. However, I must say that I don't feel very Virgo at all in the love department. Yes, I like to be helpful and am very critical (more of myself) but when I read descriptions I just don't feel it fits. I read on another site some additional people speaking of this. Does anyone else have a problem "feeling" their Virgo—

Maybe someone can give a better description than the, "servant, clean, tending to the mundane mechanics of relationships"...jazz.

I have heard of Venus Virgo (of which I am one) they often seek someone who needs their help, because they think if they can't save or fix someone, what use would you be to them. That's why they say venus has it's fall in virgo, because there is a sense of duty and unworthiness that can accompany that placement. The key I think is that "patient heal thyself" thing, allowing someone to help you!

I have venus in cancer, moon in virgo and pisces in mars and the virgo side kicks in rarely. But the venus in cancer is the bomb. It gives me away everytimes sspecially to the wrong guys. Hahahahahahahaha the pisces in mars I dunno...