ok! now i really need advice!!!!!!!!
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Miasma on Sunday, April 30, 2006 and has 15 replies.
hi,
Friday at the club, i was again with the virguy but this time i was alone, so we were hanging with his friends. i was happy chatting with his friends and I was having a great time (actually i had no expectations, i know he is slow slow)..later that night, UNEXPECTEDLY , he hold my hand and we started to circulate in the club, he finally stopped at the spot we first met. So we were dancing etc..in some point he started to caress my hair (shock for me
) like 15 minutes, after that very slowly, little by little he started to touch my face..he is very very very shy so i tried my best to make him comfortable (u know all the green lights) so after a while again step by step little by little he hugged me- what a hug!- so tight that i couldnt breath (i mean literally) and finally he kissed me..and DY! i should say that it was exactly like u described (refer to the Virgo Male part-5!!) so now i want to go to that exact moment again and again and again-wow!- i was waiting for this for 2 months.
we left the club together, since he didn't have the car that night ( he came with a friends car) I suggested to drop him home, he was talking about going to dinner some night etc, before leaving he kissed me again and told to text message him as soon as arrive home (i think he told me this 3 times) so i did text message him and told him that i was a great night--NO REPLY,In the morning he texted me explaining that he fell a sleep and that he also told me that yeah it was a wonderful night, then he called we talked (thats all for saturday). Today (sunday) i texted him like what's up, so he was like i'm cleaning and sweeping my room (well i dont sweep my room thats a little bit strange for me)bc some guests are coming for dinner ( he is living wit his family)
so now i'm really LOST and i need some guidance!!!!!!!!!!
help help help!!!!!!!!
how should i behave????????, what is this? what does this mean?
is there another waiting period?
im lost and confused
Friday at the club, i was again with the virguy but this time i was alone, so we were hanging with his friends. i was happy chatting with his friends and I was having a great time (actually i had no expectations, i know he is slow slow)..later that night, UNEXPECTEDLY , he hold my hand and we started to circulate in the club, he finally stopped at the spot we first met. So we were dancing etc..in some point he started to caress my hair (shock for me
) like 15 minutes, after that very slowly, little by little he started to touch my face..he is very very very shy so i tried my best to make him comfortable (u know all the green lights) so after a while again step by step little by little he hugged me- what a hug!- so tight that i couldnt breath (i mean literally) and finally he kissed me..and DY! i should say that it was exactly like u described (refer to the Virgo Male part-5!!) so now i want to go to that exact moment again and again and again-wow!- i was waiting for this for 2 months.we left the club together, since he didn't have the car that night ( he came with a friends car) I suggested to drop him home, he was talking about going to dinner some night etc, before leaving he kissed me again and told to text message him as soon as arrive home (i think he told me this 3 times) so i did text message him and told him that i was a great night--NO REPLY,In the morning he texted me explaining that he fell a sleep and that he also told me that yeah it was a wonderful night, then he called we talked (thats all for saturday). Today (sunday) i texted him like what's up, so he was like i'm cleaning and sweeping my room (well i dont sweep my room thats a little bit strange for me
)bc some guests are coming for dinner ( he is living wit his family)so now i'm really LOST and i need some guidance!!!!!!!!!!
help help help!!!!!!!!
how should i behave????????, what is this? what does this mean?
is there another waiting period?
im lost and confused
First of all I'm not searching my life partner
Branh: "you won't find your life partner in a place like a club?"
well who knows that? maybe i'm gonna find it in a club, are their strict rules?
second of all we JUST met in the club we do see eachother outside that club
Branh:"clubs are not for people who are serious about relationships"
well i dont think that u can generalize this, how can u know?
Branh: "you won't find your life partner in a place like a club?"
well who knows that? maybe i'm gonna find it in a club, are their strict rules?
second of all we JUST met in the club we do see eachother outside that club
Branh:"clubs are not for people who are serious about relationships"
well i dont think that u can generalize this, how can u know?
someone help
Miasma
I don't know your past with this Virguy, but I belive you are taking things more seriously than needed. Just because nothing has happened, it does not mean that something bad has happened. If he doesn't talk, then this is also might be who he is. I'm personally not very talkative person when it comes to messaging, but that doesn't mean that I don't care about those people.
If there is somthing you want to do with him, tell him. If that scares him off, then I suggest you to find someone more stable.
BTW, I'm living in Istanbul as well.
In which part of the city you do reside?
I'm in Harbiye (European side if you don't know).
I don't know your past with this Virguy, but I belive you are taking things more seriously than needed. Just because nothing has happened, it does not mean that something bad has happened. If he doesn't talk, then this is also might be who he is. I'm personally not very talkative person when it comes to messaging, but that doesn't mean that I don't care about those people.
If there is somthing you want to do with him, tell him. If that scares him off, then I suggest you to find someone more stable.
BTW, I'm living in Istanbul as well.
In which part of the city you do reside?I'm in Harbiye (European side if you don't know).
I met a nice guy at the club once. Didn't think so at first as I don't take anyone I meet there seriously but he kept calling me afterwards, hang out and blah blah blah... then he went cuckoo possessive... hmmm yeah maybe not nice then huh? lol don't blame it on the club scene though.
virgogotme and DY
I'm not aries I'm cancer, i didn't call him, I never call him, just a text message on sunday to say "hi" that's all. I bring up all my concerns, and fears here, so it seems like i'm doing so much but no, he doesn't even know how i am feeling now. But you are right i'm impatient. I'm rushing but i dont project my rush to him
Other than this, it seems like its just the "club thing" (in this post) but we went out many times for movies and dinners, he introduced me his friends etc.. so not just the club (i needed to explain it bc branh really disturbed me, i can feel it if this guy's only concern was to make out)
Haffo!
of course i know Harbiye (my school was there)..actually i'm living in the both sides of the city weekdays-european side, weekends- asian side
so what r u doing in Istanbul working?
I'm not aries I'm cancer, i didn't call him, I never call him, just a text message on sunday to say "hi" that's all. I bring up all my concerns, and fears here, so it seems like i'm doing so much but no, he doesn't even know how i am feeling now. But you are right i'm impatient. I'm rushing but i dont project my rush to him
Other than this, it seems like its just the "club thing" (in this post) but we went out many times for movies and dinners, he introduced me his friends etc.. so not just the club (i needed to explain it bc branh really disturbed me, i can feel it if this guy's only concern was to make out)
Haffo!
of course i know Harbiye (my school was there)..actually i'm living in the both sides of the city weekdays-european side, weekends- asian side
so what r u doing in Istanbul working?
Miasma,
Hi sweetie :-)
For what its worth ill give my take on this.
From what i know of Turkish guys in general, if he was interested in you he would have been chasing you and making his intentions very clear (unless you got yourself a very shy one) but then if he goes to clubs he cant be that shy. Virgo or not he is a Turk and without generalising too much im sure he would have made more effort by now.
The best thing you can do is gonna be hard for you, i learnt this with age (im Cancer like you) and was soo like you when i was your age, just sit back and let him come to you, that way you`ll know he wants you because HE really wants you.
Life is short and Turkey is full of guys go out and enjoy life and try not to focus on one guy.
Leyla.
Hi sweetie :-)
For what its worth ill give my take on this.
From what i know of Turkish guys in general, if he was interested in you he would have been chasing you and making his intentions very clear (unless you got yourself a very shy one) but then if he goes to clubs he cant be that shy. Virgo or not he is a Turk and without generalising too much im sure he would have made more effort by now.
The best thing you can do is gonna be hard for you, i learnt this with age (im Cancer like you) and was soo like you when i was your age, just sit back and let him come to you, that way you`ll know he wants you because HE really wants you.
Life is short and Turkey is full of guys go out and enjoy life and try not to focus on one guy.
Leyla.
" of course i know Harbiye (my school was there)"
Cool. Which one? The French school or the other one near the curch? (it's church, not mosque)
"actually i'm living in the both sides of the city weekdays-european side, weekends- asian side"
Living on both sides in sense of having a house on both sides or somehting like going out for fun?
" so what r u doing in Istanbul working?"
I'm living here since my 14. It's about 11 years now. Working in family business (I'm jack of all trades, lol). Trying to build my own business with my cousin (who is an Aqua). We are planning to make exporting business.
And, what are you doing in Istanbul? Judging from your posts, I guess you have alot of fun in here. What's up?
Cool. Which one? The French school or the other one near the curch? (it's church, not mosque
)"actually i'm living in the both sides of the city weekdays-european side, weekends- asian side"
Living on both sides in sense of having a house on both sides or somehting like going out for fun?
" so what r u doing in Istanbul working?"
I'm living here since my 14. It's about 11 years now. Working in family business (I'm jack of all trades, lol). Trying to build my own business with my cousin (who is an Aqua). We are planning to make exporting business.
And, what are you doing in Istanbul? Judging from your posts, I guess you have alot of fun in here. What's up?
Haffo,
The french one "Notre Dame De Sion" and yes i have a house on both sides, weekends i'm going to my parent's house
so where do u exactly live? near my school? or near nisantasi?
so since you are living in istanbul (11 years) you can perfectly talk turkish right?
well I'm still studying i'm a senior now, of course i'm having fun, istanbul is a living city don't u think?where do you hang up usually?
The french one "Notre Dame De Sion" and yes i have a house on both sides, weekends i'm going to my parent's house
so where do u exactly live? near my school? or near nisantasi?
so since you are living in istanbul (11 years) you can perfectly talk turkish right?
well I'm still studying i'm a senior now, of course i'm having fun, istanbul is a living city don't u think?where do you hang up usually?
Heh.
I actually don't like the students of this school when they come out to go to back home. They fill the street and nobody can't pass through it. If you ever saw some guy who walked away very pissed off, that probably was me.
" so where do u exactly live?"
At the same street with Diabet Hospital. It's right in the front of Military Museum.
" so since you are living in istanbul (11 years) you can perfectly talk turkish right?"
Well I'm speaking Turkish since I knew how to walk, so basically yes, I know Turkish perfectly.
" well I'm still studying i'm a senior now"
What are you majoring in? Criminology? lol!
(I want those ideas about perfect crime if ya know, hehe)
"of course i'm having fun, istanbul is a living city don't u think?"
Well yea. Some people try to rob someone else, or better rape. Yeah, very much fun city, yeah.
"where do you hang up usually?"
Well I'm not usually hang anywhere (except if I'm guilty for something), I just walke here and there. Visit restaurant, friends, movies, bookstores etc. I'm such a book whore...
What about ya?
I guess you are having fun in nightclubs? Such a noisy place. I can't even hear what others say. And usually idiots hanging out there. Haven't saw any decent place so far in this area, so if you feel that you should teach my sorry ass to talk more respectfully about it, shooooot!
I actually don't like the students of this school when they come out to go to back home. They fill the street and nobody can't pass through it. If you ever saw some guy who walked away very pissed off, that probably was me.
" so where do u exactly live?"
At the same street with Diabet Hospital. It's right in the front of Military Museum.
" so since you are living in istanbul (11 years) you can perfectly talk turkish right?"
Well I'm speaking Turkish since I knew how to walk, so basically yes, I know Turkish perfectly.
" well I'm still studying i'm a senior now"
What are you majoring in? Criminology? lol!
(I want those ideas about perfect crime if ya know, hehe)
"of course i'm having fun, istanbul is a living city don't u think?"
Well yea. Some people try to rob someone else, or better rape. Yeah, very much fun city, yeah.
"where do you hang up usually?"
Well I'm not usually hang anywhere (except if I'm guilty for something), I just walke here and there. Visit restaurant, friends, movies, bookstores etc. I'm such a book whore...
What about ya?
I guess you are having fun in nightclubs? Such a noisy place. I can't even hear what others say. And usually idiots hanging out there. Haven't saw any decent place so far in this area, so if you feel that you should teach my sorry ass to talk more respectfully about it, shooooot!
Haffo,
When i was a student in "Notre Dame De Sion" there were only girls so men were usually very happy when we fill the street.. so i never saw a guy who was pissed off sorry for that!
my major is psychology but i can help u with the crime thing (i have very creative ideas)Some people try to rob someone else, or better rape. Yeah, very much fun city, yeah
When i was a student in "Notre Dame De Sion" there were only girls so men were usually very happy when we fill the street
.. so i never saw a guy who was pissed off sorry for that!my major is psychology but i can help u with the crime thing (i have very creative ideas)Some people try to rob someone else, or better rape. Yeah, very much fun city, yeah
sorry for the previous post
Haffo,
When i was a student in "Notre Dame De Sion" there were only girls so men were usually very happy when we fill the street.. so i never saw a guy who was pissed off sorry for that!
my major is psychology but i can help u with the crime thing (i have very creative ideas)
"Some people try to rob someone else, or better rape. Yeah, very much fun city, yeah"
this is not something unique to Istanbul, so i totally disagree with u...
when we come to the nightlife issue..i wont try to change ur idea, i respect people's opinons but yes i do like going out at nights (not every weekend though, 2 times per month), there are severel places we like, where students from particular universities usually hang up so we prefer going there bc we meet up with friends and we can see many familiar faces
btw i understood the location of ur house (very nice place)
Haffo,
When i was a student in "Notre Dame De Sion" there were only girls so men were usually very happy when we fill the street.. so i never saw a guy who was pissed off sorry for that!
my major is psychology but i can help u with the crime thing (i have very creative ideas)
"Some people try to rob someone else, or better rape. Yeah, very much fun city, yeah"
this is not something unique to Istanbul, so i totally disagree with u...
when we come to the nightlife issue..i wont try to change ur idea, i respect people's opinons but yes i do like going out at nights (not every weekend though, 2 times per month), there are severel places we like, where students from particular universities usually hang up so we prefer going there bc we meet up with friends and we can see many familiar faces
btw i understood the location of ur house (very nice place)
hi again,
The virguy called and texted me tonight, i think i'm relieved a little now, just wanted to share
The virguy called and texted me tonight, i think i'm relieved a little now, just wanted to share
'...Branh: "you won't find your life partner in a place like a club?"
well who knows that? maybe i'm gonna find it in a club, are their strict rules?
second of all we JUST met in the club we do see eachother outside that club
Branh:"clubs are not for people who are serious about relationships"
well i dont think that u can generalize this, how can u know?....'
i agree wid ya miasma... i noh a couple of people who met each otha in a club n r happily married... u cant really generalize... but then again.. i wud neva want a serious relationship wid a guy who hangz out in clubzzz loadzz n juz partiezzzz n bar hopzzz.... coz u gonna end up in a heartache... i really like rob thomas' song ( hes also a hot aqua )..... ' i dont want anotha lova at my door, itz juz anotha heartache on my list 
well who knows that? maybe i'm gonna find it in a club, are their strict rules?
second of all we JUST met in the club we do see eachother outside that club
Branh:"clubs are not for people who are serious about relationships"
well i dont think that u can generalize this, how can u know?....'
i agree wid ya miasma... i noh a couple of people who met each otha in a club n r happily married... u cant really generalize... but then again.. i wud neva want a serious relationship wid a guy who hangz out in clubzzz loadzz n juz partiezzzz n bar hopzzz.... coz u gonna end up in a heartache... i really like rob thomas' song ( hes also a hot aqua
)..... ' i dont want anotha lova at my door, itz juz anotha heartache on my list '...Branh: "you won't find your life partner in a place like a club?"
well who knows that? maybe i'm gonna find it in a club, are their strict rules?
second of all we JUST met in the club we do see eachother outside that club
Branh:"clubs are not for people who are serious about relationships"
well i dont think that u can generalize this, how can u know?....'
i agree wid ya miasma... i noh a couple of people who met each otha in a club n r happily married... u cant really generalize... but then again.. i wud neva want a serious relationship wid a guy who hangz out in clubzzz loadzz n juz partiezzzz n bar hopzzz.... coz u gonna end up in a heartache... i really like rob thomas' song ( hes also a hot aqua )..... ' i dont want anotha lova at my door, itz juz anotha heartache on my list
well who knows that? maybe i'm gonna find it in a club, are their strict rules?
second of all we JUST met in the club we do see eachother outside that club
Branh:"clubs are not for people who are serious about relationships"
well i dont think that u can generalize this, how can u know?....'
i agree wid ya miasma... i noh a couple of people who met each otha in a club n r happily married... u cant really generalize... but then again.. i wud neva want a serious relationship wid a guy who hangz out in clubzzz loadzz n juz partiezzzz n bar hopzzz.... coz u gonna end up in a heartache... i really like rob thomas' song ( hes also a hot aqua
)..... ' i dont want anotha lova at my door, itz juz anotha heartache on my list Leave Your Feedback
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