Pisces woman/Virgo male

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by ANGEL33 on Friday, January 20, 2006 and has 13 replies.
Hi everyone. i am new to this. I have been with my virgo male for 6 months now. Here is our story. We met over 5 years ago through mutual friends. His friend was dating my ex's sister. We all went on a ski trip and ended up bumping into each other and ended up kissing and spending the whole weekend together even though I had a boyfriend at the time and he had a girlfriend. We continued contact afterwards but I was younger and not ready for him. He was very jealous and wanted me to share my thoughts and feelings with him and although I am a Pisces I tend to hide my feelings alot and wear a laid back, cold exterior. So I pretty much stopped all contact. Throughout the years we would continue to bump into each other and every now and then ( once a year to be exact) we would hang out and then I wouldnt return his calls again. Well finally last year we began to see each other very often and I began to like him more and more. Finally I gave in to my feelings, by the way I was single and he was still with the same girl, and I confessed my love to him. He was very weery of me, being that he had pursued me for so long and I had been so aloof to his advances. None the less, he ended his relationship of 6 years to a Scorpio woman, in July and we began to date exclusively from there on. I love him with all of my heart and realize I had just not been ready for the kind of love he was willing to offer me. Ironically soon after we began dating we began arguing alot. Mainly because of me. I questioned his past alot and couldn't seem to get his ex-girlfriend out of my mind. No matter how many times he told me there relationship with her was more like a friendship with no passion and that he didnt feel what was needed to marry a person I pressed the issue many times. I know he simply adores me. He has put up with my mood swings, overly emotional state, and bad temper for all these months and it is obvious he wants a future with me. But for whatever reason I just can't seem to stop arguing and I cant seem to get comfortable in the realtionship. I love him with all my heart and know in my heart that he is the one for me. We have even discussed marriage, and although he is very weery of the topic, he has made it clear it is something he wants with me he just wants it to naturally happen. Does anyone have any advice. Why do i nag and nit pick so much? He is amazing to me but sometimes it seems like I am never satisfied and always asking for more. He is very career oriented and is very ambitious, as am I, but I am very demanding of his time and he likes to be productive which makes me feel like he doesnt want to see me, even though I see him every day sometimes. I really dont want to lose him. HELP!!!
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?Why do i nag and nit pick so much??
Jesus lady...
You know that you are subject to mood changes and those up and downs as water creature..!
Virgos are logical/honest creatures, hard to get them on line but once they are on line they are 110% if not 120% dedicated to their love affair no matter what.
Think about your mood swings lady and try to control those.. I know it is hard but worth the try.
Don?t try to find out if he lies or not about what is seems to be the ?past? relationship? does this Virgo of yours asking you for YOUR past relationship..??
Why do you want to endanger your sweet relationship with something from the past..??
Be wise... control the dam moods..! if something need to be changed, starting from yourself first and stop playing detective.
Btw.. welcome to this board..
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" Be wise... control the dam moods..!"
If he is not logical enough to accept you as you are, move on.
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I know that most of it stems from me. I was in a 7 year relationship with a Sagittarius and it left scars. So now that I have this prince charming at my door I feel that I try and push him away in fear of getting hurt. But my Virgo understands I have been through alot and use to try and comfort me by telling me I had nothing to worry about and that he wouldnt ever hurt me. We both agreed that if we ever felt tempted to hurt each other we would simply leave. We both left our deceitful days behind. And he is very logical and I am very emotional, at least now I am, mostly out of fear. We have worked on a balance and for the most part have a wonderful, loving, affectionate relationship. We are that couple that people see and think, "get a room"...lol. I guess the change does have to come from within me. He rarely complains about anything. He just doesnt understand why I question him and his past relationship so much when he feels he has made all the necessary changes to be with me and only me. He feels like nothing he does is ever enough. I guess I just need to let go of my insecurities and have patience with the situation. True love always works itself out. If he hasnt left in these early months than I should acknowledge that this would have been the easiest time for him to leave and go back to his Scorpio ex...who from what I understood put him on a pedastal and pretty much was the perfect woman for him...i think alot of my insecurities stem from me being in fear that he will go back to her but logically if thats where he wanted to be, thats where he would be...right???
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correction...his scorpio ex was the perfect woman to him, not for him...
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ANGEL33
Do you know that you answering to your problem by yourself..??
Keep talking..
smile
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LOL...I know this...and I know I have won half the battle because I take the time to reflect but the harder part now is doing it...words mean nothing without the actions...
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I am truly glad that you?ve finally found YOURSELF..
Good luck with you and your relationship...

the reast shouldnt be so hard.
Acknowledge yourself first...
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He is 28 and I am 24...
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thank you so much...it definately helped. its true what you say...i am scared of getting hurt so sometimes i feel like i subconciously try and sabotage the relationship but he has stood by my side thru it all...things have been great lately and its because i have stopped questioning him and us so much...i am giving us a chance and i know in my heart he would not ever hurt me. and like you said virgos like to leave the past in the past and if thats where he wanted to be he would have left to go back when things were bad with us but he stuck it thru with me...i wont question him about his ex becuz like u said i dont want to compare myself and i shouldnt feel inferior to anyone. he is with me for a reason. my heart knows it, its telling my mind to agree.
why are you and your virgo not together? what kind of problems did you have if you do not mind me asking?
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Im not a pisces or a virgo but you answered what your doing so you know its from fear so stop being paranoid,grrTongueKidding.But seriously pisceseans always get scared when they "feel too much" and try to escape it,so yeah,you know what you need to do so getting there is the only problem.If you jump and run away from him you may end up hurting him when he doesn't want it to end,this situation happens alot on the pisces board,its not pretty for pisceseans here sometimes when they have to put up with the hurt bashers lol.
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i know it comes out of my fears but ever since i really put it in my mind that i just have to have faith, my insecurities have slowly been disappearing. me and my virgo spoke alot last night and i explained to him that sometimes i just need a little positive reinforcement. that it feels good to hear that u are making someone happy. i compared it to a job and how a pat on the back every now and then motivates u. he completely understood where i was coming from and acknowledged that sometimes it had been hard to do that since we argued so much. he said the only thing he really needs is for the arguing to stop and it has. ever since it has things have been so wonderful. and he told me that his love is that strong that he was able to fight thru his biggest pet pieve (arguing). so since he was able to be there for me i have to do the same and put my fears to the side and understand that i was only pushing him away out of fear for what i feel. i love him and things are going great. we have developed this wonderful communication. i know in my heart he is the man i will spend my life with...one day at a time is my biggest advice to anyone and that love is about taking risks...it gets scarier the older we get becuz of the baggage we carry but we have to learn to leave the past in the past and make room for the future we are mature enought to pave for ourselves...it feels great to break out of my pisces emotional hold...and open up to the pisces strength i know i possess...u virgos when u love for real are the most amazing people...any girl would be lucky to have a virgo to choose them as their partner in life...
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"it feels great to break out of my pisces emotional hold...and open up to the pisces strength i know i possess...u virgos when u love for real are the most amazing people...any girl would be lucky to have a virgo to choose them as their partner in life..."
Just wanted to drop something:
Not all Virgos are great and no need to self pitying and lowering self worth with them. Not just with them but with all people in general. I heard alot of bad stuff said about Pisces and impraticality etc. However, I do not believe in that, I know that things happen with us like that for a GOOD reason. Relationships are % 50 / % 50 and no one is superior over each other.
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