Please help me!!!! I am begging for others insight

This week, I heard from him, we talked, I am confused, scared, and in great emotional distress. With losing my Daddy unexpectedly in April, dealing with my mom and he loss of her home, her husband, her best friend, other family being vutures, thieves and abusers of her, and my daughter graduating, my oldest coming home from school/college for the summer to help me w/mom and my son losing his son this past week too, (not to death), HELP, some insight please, I honestly love this man.


I have place on the GEM board under thread "Something SO Beautiful the same post as above here. I really need others insight/opinions/thoughts/expierences to be shared with me, I am begging folks, my plate is full and I need others to share with me now from thier own minds. Thank you. PGA

By the way,it was purly coincedence that I got the other post in the email.......that is one of those "things that make ya go hmmmmmmmmmm....deals" LOL =)

Chances are he will be blown away by these events you spoke of. His sympathy will lure him into trying to help you cope with all these issues you spoke of.

As Shaks puts it, he would want to "heal" you. Perfect your life through his advice and help.

Now, the question is what he does from there...
Atypical of myself, I have tried to get close to women through helping them. Even if I was not interested in a relationship. So as things move along, gently nudge your intentions I suppose...

Ohh man??_

Too much in matter of 5 months..?

Id just like to add.............so much is happening "around you" for you to deal with and i am sure you are dealing with it the very best you can............but now it's time to listen and try to deal with whats happening "within you and you alone"!! Forget what hes sed, forget what anybodys sed,,,,,,,what alone makes you most happy and content———?

Cajun......exactly my fear of him at this time. What is he thinking, I dont want temporary comfort, sympathy healing.....I had closed the door on this relationship and said goodbye, I dont understand men who dont want you, yet, they dont leave you be/alone to move on......I see no sense in these kinds of games w/others emotions, either be there because you want to and enjoy the time together, or move on to the kind of people who make you feel the best and etc.....IDK

Qbone~ ahhhh, yes, and actually, that is not all, just some of it, and I am actually mostly good, at peace w/lots of things, just so much to deal w/emotionally and aware of it, not denying, or pushing off, I expect me to deal w/all of it fair to myself, another fear of mine, is he/is he not? To lose someone that I love, like I love him........I dont want to cost myself exactly what I want cause I cant see it, yet I also dont want to fall into another "round" with him because of the way I feel as well.........trying to do what is best for me and take care of me where this is concerned w/him.

Alan,
the bliss i feel when i am with him, makes life so much better. I really cant describe the "emotions" or "feelings" that I have w/this man. I am willing to accept as well this is a one sided deal.
I am happy alone and w/me, I would love to grow old w/him.......I would be where I want to be, with one that I want to be with who has such a effect on me that I dont want anyone else.......I have no need for other men, and I want him to share my life....all of it.......
The other issues in my life are not just going to go away either, they all have to be delt w/and are actually just emotional for me.......My mom, that is priority right now