Please help me understand my Virgo friend! _(._.)_
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by mdjo on Tuesday, August 4, 2015 and has 6 replies.
I've known my friend for 6 years now from high school we never actually talked face to face in past we started off from facebook then after school when i saw him he only smiled at me shyly as saying hi and so did i but 2 years ago he actually came to talk to me finally (however in these 6 years we always kept contact through fb and whatsapp on a monthly basis sometimes more often) Anyways we get along a lot he teases me a lot and he was always kinda flirty with me. Once he admitted he used to like me back in high school and about a year ago because of he was always there for me when I needed to talk to someone and he always makes me laugh and makes me feel attractive conversations r so much better with him than anyone else n so on.. from liking him I ended up loving him and I made a confession to him that i like him more than a friend n deleted him. He messaged me on IG saying I shouldn't delete him because of that and I cannot remember our convos after because I deleted that too but one of my friend whos older and wiser gave me tips on what to message him n he checked his replies which he confirmed that this guy is not messing with me. Of course I got happy but later on it was like I never made a confession we stayed really good friends and still ended up flirting with me even though he did say he's not messing with my feelings. We met this March and we had a good time together yet still nothinh happened evej though I did feel something from his side too... so we still kept contact and then from nowhere we started flirting in the highest level probably on whatsapp.. basically we talked for hours n hours n days to days about what we'd do to each other ..and I felt like this is it something must happen between us now. Then I totally ruined what I built up in 6 years. I asked him out to watch a movie he said hes friends mum is in the hospital so he needs to stick around his friend. Then I said I meant it in future not now he said he's not into cinema then I asked is it a no n he said yes... i said whatever then he said I'm angry now and I said no I'm disappointed he asked me if he's messing with my feelings then after that i made my mistake confessing again about my feelings and basically also said I'm gonna delete whatsapp and he's reply was whattt stop being a drama queen 
' then I said I wasnt and cried more about this his last reply was i dunno where all this coming from before deleting whatsapp. Then next day i put it back within 30 mins he messaged
' then I said I wasnt and cried more about this his last reply was i dunno where all this coming from before deleting whatsapp. Then next day i put it back within 30 mins he messaged*wonder if he was checking when will i put it back on or not.. but he said he has a lot going on this moment in time n he cnt be dealing with this.. I said sorry 3 times explained myself why I got upset he read it and ignores me for over a week now.. I forgot to mention I'm 22 he'll be 22 soon. He's a very busy guy and nope there's no other girl in the picture FOR SURE. He is British Indian if that is not enough already he is a Virgo. I'm Cancer, and he did say back in June that he likes to be single for now, he never bothers about relationships and yes he is a virgin. Please give me advices on how to get him back into my life I really miss him and I do want to believe there is future for him and me
Oh boy......
I don't get why you have to delete him. Deal with your feeling like a real woman. No offense but that kind of selfish. The way I view it. Stop running away and learn to tolerate, That might be it. Thats just how I view it 
Do you think that is why he is angry at me? No I don't take it offensive I do understand that is childish to runaway which I should stop especially after this.. First time I deleted him because of in my weak moment when he wasn't online I confessed and was scared of rejection. That time he didn't stop talking to me but this time he has.... I'm not sure if I misunderstood him or not. Because the second no made me think like he doesn't want to see me ever again and that is why I started taking my emotions out on him. Thinking back I made a big mistake I should've wait for my roller coaster emotions to settle then reply and ask him if he meant it the cinema only or seeing me is his problem. I really hate myself since then so I've got no right to take the word itself (selfish) offensive because you are 100% and I just hope he'll come back to my life and I can prove him that I'm ready to be a better person.
Well he could be trying to avoid you for a reason he's contemplating the whole situation and the relationship. One thing about virgo is that we think a lot. I'm not sure about others but I sometimes I avoid my love interests because I'm taking my time to think over. What you probably need is to constantly remind him but not to the point that would annoy him, perhaps occasionally that you're still there and ready for him. And sometimes not giving him enough attention like you usually do will bring him back. If he can get all attention from you easily there will be alot of drama cs he know you would go after him. But remember not too much. Ignoring him will only make him distant himself. But of course if theres another girl it would be a totally different scenarios, but since you said there isnt, yeah.
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