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Mar 19, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 228 · Topics: 23
Hi Virgos,
So recently it has come to my attention that many virgos I know and that people I know, know are cheaters and super manipulative. In fact a Virgo I have been close to for 10 years just came back into my life (he disappears for 2-3 months and comes back). This is a guy who cheated on his gf with me (I didn't know until after)a few years back, and even though I moved has kept tabs on me. After consoling a gf who was cheated on by her virgo gf, my Mr. Virgo tried to pull some of the most manipulative BS... He comes back into my life after a month and when I told him he is a cheater and wouldn't want me anyways becomes I'm super monogamous says "I wanted you badly. You just didn't want the same
Drew could have been ours".."I love you Emy... Who said I escape? Mentally and sexually we are compatible. It would have been easy. We'd have had another by now. Or you'd be pregnant as we speak"... At first I was floored but then I realized how manipulative this is, to bring up my son!?!?!
Ok Virgos please tell me you all aren't like this. like seriously WTH?!?!?!?! What's with the reputation?
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No, sorry, we are all like that.
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Mar 19, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 228 · Topics: 23
I get that you are beinf faticuous... but really is this some bad streak? Is it a form of self preservation? Maybe it's not manipulation at all, but insecuity? I mean insecurity leads to cheaitng in all signs so maybe you guys are too insecure... I just feel like a hobby to Mr. Virgo. I mean for years we have lived 800 miles apart and he says that shit all the time... Is that even a Virgo trait? I have very little experience with Virgos. The one I dated seriously was pretty much all water throughout his chart so he was much more understandable for me. I just don't understand how manipulation is useful for a Virgo... Or if I have just had an off eperience with the Virgos in my life
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Apr 12, 2015Comments: 1421 · Posts: 3710 · Topics: 58
There is the super genius the super evil villian and that one who just wants to boink as many women/men as they can
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Mar 19, 2014Comments: 1 · Posts: 228 · Topics: 23
Thanks Lovelyisis! I'm wondering what the opposite end Virgo is like, I feel like I'd get along with them really well. I'm beginning to think I've just seen the worse of the sign especially since I don't know too many of them.
P-Angel This isn't a guy I give my time to. Simply an example I used to avoid sharing my friends story about the female Virgo who cheated on her. My question wasn't about the guy anyway it was about virgos in general both male and female. As for your last remark, I have only written one truely person post on here about someone I was dating and it was a year ago. In fact I haven;t even had access to my account for months. I have started very few threads, and spend most my time responding to tohers. So take your negativity and shove it. I am applying for PhD programs while I finish my MA and have no time for dating so don't expect me to be talking about it often. As for my confidence level I'd actually say I have a bit of an ego, makes me come off snobby but hey that's for me to work on not for you to worry about
Not all of us are like that...I've never cheated nor ever thought of cheating on a boyfriend. I rarely hear good things about Virgo men and I've never dated one so I'm not sure. Sounds like you should just let go of him and not waste your time. In terms of the friendships I've had I'm not very manipulative towards people unless they get on my bad side.
I also know a few Virgo females, some are sweet and awesome people and others are more concerned with themselves. There is one Virgo male that I know and he's frequently cheated on his girlfriends, but he sometimes finds a girl he becomes infatuated with and stays faithful (it's usually a girl that doesn't put up with his shit)
I just believe Virgos like to challenge their relationships with people to see how much the other person is invested, but sometimes you shouldn't put yourself through it.
Perhaps I could shed light on the situation.
First, I am a Virgo female who does not cheat. Whether you are my friend or my romantic partner, I will not betray you, no matter how much another situation or person tempts me. I am loyal to a fault. If you want your faith restored, That1Girl, look no further.
Having said that, I knew a Virgo female and a Virgo male who are both cheaters, and they cheated for nearly identical reasons. They were both insecure, and they were both devastatingly selfish. They cheated not only because of their insecurities with themselves and their relationships, but also because of their disregard for their partners. They were both manipulative individuals.
If a Virgo does not hold someone in high esteem, they will not hesitate to hurt that friend or romantic partner with criticisms, disloyalty, and infidelity. With the more wishywashy Virgos, their respect must be commanded. I don't think it's worth the effort, though, because you could find a more stable Virgo who'll treat you with the respect that you deserve.
How old is he? Did he go to college? Unfortunately, immature Virgos can definitely be like this. I know because I was one of them. I was super overweight almost my whole life until college, I dropped 60 lbs and suddenly had guys flocking to me. I've never slept with a taken man, but I definitely madeout with them and I got a huge ego boost from knowing that they wanted me over their girlfriends. So evil and I hate that I used to be okay with it. I'm still insecure, I think I probably always will be, but I've grown up and learned to put myself in the other girl's position and feel more empathetic toward her. I used to blame the girlfriends, make up excuses to why I didn't like them and why they deserved to be cheated on.
On the flip side, I think I will always like knowing other men are interested in me while I'm dating someone. I don't think I would ever actually cheat... but because i'm insecure I feel like when other men show their interest in front of my guy it shows him I'm attractive and desirable and therefore a catch. It's something I need to get over. I'm not going to approach other men and go out of my way to make my partner jealous, but if men approach me like at a bar or anything, I bask in the glory of their attention because it makes me feel like my boyfriend will want me more. Make sense?