QUICK QUESTION

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by MdotShady on Friday, September 23, 2005 and has 7 replies.
oke so this isnt my first time here but i felt like posing another one of my virgo mysteries to the parliament.lol. but serious complete honesty is appreciated. heres the scenario: do you think my virgo actuallie get peeved at me for not wanting to "sleep" wen he wanted to and deprive me out of pure "eye for an eye" philosophy until he thinks ive had enough of Nothing?! its reallie funnie cause hes waited a whole MONTH in the past and so far its been almost a week since our last time "together" and he said he was mad cause i was "playin around" but i wasnt reallie "sleepie". truth be told: i was but mother nature had be on a another clock and i didnt get a chance to tell him before he came over (oops)but neway for those who are curious as to what im talking about with the whole "bedtime analogies"-SEX lol. but forreal tho so im wondering if its a good idea to just spill how much im dying OR play it cool and collected until he decides. I HOPE SUMBODY POSTS BEFORE TONITE!!! by the way another interesting fact: we have yet to just completely submit ourselves to each other its always like heated heated 4play but icant do it ne longer. im a Sagg and iveonly got so much self control!
Eye for an eye doesn't mean what you think it means and i have no idea what you're asking and/or talking about.
You no what'd make me feel funnie.. if u were a virgo. sumbody tells me what u just said quite often mr.crabby ill rephrase: my virgo guy ever since we made the transition from socializing to sharing serious Ish with each other has ben wild about out s.EX life which prettie much hasnt made it to home base yet. Nothing reallie past heavy forep.Lay neway but we move about a lot so we dont see each other like ALL theday everyday. (Im a sagg btw) so at nerate wen we do hookup theres often some other sporadic change that prettie much curbs the evening away frm it. Excluding the times wen it just doesn't come up(RARE) we're both prettie stubborn at times so use your imagination for examples. the question is : if its approaching the unbearable stages forme, waiting that is, shood i: a)refuse to NOT have s.EX ne longer or b)ride it out til he makes move / the reason im asking is cause i no hes turned on wen i bring it tohim ONLY if he has a clue that it Could happen. EXAMPLE:..he had to work earlie the next day n we didnt hook up til the late nite hours the nite b4 n me and my pitiful attempts to get him over tell him i wana show him the car i just got, he refuses until i say "thats it, just come see it n say hi", he comes and proudly throws my words back n my face wen i tried to just kiss him! btw WHAT does "eye for an eye" mean, enlighten me please. i was using it to relate to wen he claims ive teased him to death so he just refuses to even touch me, BARELy hug me wen he KNOWS i want him. u know like "hit me and i hit u back" so if thats not clear puhleez leme know what u missed mr crabby
Hi Mdotshady....I've read your posts about you and Mr. Virgo....to be honest you phrase your words and posts a little differently than most!!..sometimes it's hard to get to the "nub" of what you are trying to say but anyway......what you appear to be saying is that you find your Mr. Virgo HOT and want to be with him in bed but that he appears to never have time enough or won't go all the way with you???? Is that what you are saying???
He claims you have teased him to death......well if you want him and he wants you, you've got to be direct...especially with Virgos....but use your natural womanly wiles also.....so perhaps a simple "seducy" text messate or voicemail like .....Come over tonite Mister, tonite's THE nite we take it to the limit!!:-) - oh and don't forget those box of condoms:-)XXX
And when he arrives, all you gotta say is ....... tonite I want to be with you (whatever his name is) because remember one of the greatest aphrodisiacs for both male and female is to hear their lover call their name!!!!! and away you go!!!!and take it to the limit. If he starts any huffing and puffihng, then show him the door!!!!
Maybe I am not reading your posts right, but from where I stand, it's pretty simple.
Go for it and him missy:-)
A x



HA! thats so funnie, the whole Directness thing is exactly the ONLY way iseem to get feedback with him. i duno i think one of my faults is the habit of dancing around the hub of the matter wen i havent reallie figured it all out yet. he calls me out on that all too many times. and YES imeant in bed but especially Relationship status too because weve been "cool" for so long i kinda didnt know if he wanted to keep it like that or if he was waiting on me . i see NOW y hes been so irritated with me and i definitely underestimated his intellect with the whole psychological game stuff n everything. hes done the same exact tactic since weve met and every single time ive fallen head first into wat i was Sposed to what i Shouldve done in the first place i guess. i guess the games are his way of telling me cause he doesnt actually unless hes like pivotally pissed at the moment or sumthing and he just feels compelled to share. other than that, im on my own. BUT, now i know and directness will definitely Not be a speedbump for us nemore ijust didnt know where he was coming from< i know thats kind of a weak excuse but im over the weak stuff i think We are too.
"oh and don't forget those box of condoms:-)XXX"
-that is so true, we are hypochondriachs!
will do... give u an update after this weekend most definitelysmile

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