scorpio woman virgo man
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by imascorpio10 on Friday, June 29, 2018 and has 18 replies.
I need a little help, so here goes my story:
i have known this virgo man for like 5 years and we always had a fling for each other like literally never stopped. But we never actually went out on a date until almost two years ago because he was like shy and didnt dare i guess. So when we actually went out i had the best time and i could really feel the connection we had. Sometimes people only have chemistry via text messages and in person not really but we just click naturally. We sort of dated but it only lasted like 2 weeks because my ex came back and i went back to him (that is another story) so me and virgo stopped talking again. After almost a year we contacted each other again. and i was desperately running after him because i wanted us to try again and he gave me signs that he wanted it too but after a while he just started being distant and not wanting to go out with me so i stopped texting and there we stopped talking again. After a year we got contact AGAIN and we talked about what happened in our lives we were both single and we flirted a lot i was persistent in going out but he never wanted to, he took hours to reply even tho he was online or even after i had told him that i dont like it when people take a long time to answer. he would say "that must really be annoying i have to change that" but never did. I even called him one day so that we could discuss our problems and the whole situation, we talked for almost an hour and then he said he had to go and i said "am i gonna get an answer in 3 hours" and he literally replied "we'll see" yk what happened? NEVER TEXTED BACK he just freaking disappeared???? i was like so pissed off because we finally had the chance to start again and he was like backing off even tho i know he finds me interesting and he likes me so what the hell is the problem??? Anyway, 3 weeks later he just texted me AS IF NOTHING HAD HAPPENED he said "ana?" (which is my name) and i didnt reply of course like who do u think u are to disappear on me and then come back as if nothing happened? and he texted me again the next day with "?" and you know whats funny? he texted me after i had posted a new instagram picture like r u kidding me? CAN SOMEBODY PLS EXPLAIN TO ME WHATS HAPPENING IN HIS DAMN HEAD. THANK YOU.
i have known this virgo man for like 5 years and we always had a fling for each other like literally never stopped. But we never actually went out on a date until almost two years ago because he was like shy and didnt dare i guess. So when we actually went out i had the best time and i could really feel the connection we had. Sometimes people only have chemistry via text messages and in person not really but we just click naturally. We sort of dated but it only lasted like 2 weeks because my ex came back and i went back to him (that is another story) so me and virgo stopped talking again. After almost a year we contacted each other again. and i was desperately running after him because i wanted us to try again and he gave me signs that he wanted it too but after a while he just started being distant and not wanting to go out with me so i stopped texting and there we stopped talking again. After a year we got contact AGAIN and we talked about what happened in our lives we were both single and we flirted a lot i was persistent in going out but he never wanted to, he took hours to reply even tho he was online or even after i had told him that i dont like it when people take a long time to answer. he would say "that must really be annoying i have to change that" but never did. I even called him one day so that we could discuss our problems and the whole situation, we talked for almost an hour and then he said he had to go and i said "am i gonna get an answer in 3 hours" and he literally replied "we'll see" yk what happened? NEVER TEXTED BACK he just freaking disappeared???? i was like so pissed off because we finally had the chance to start again and he was like backing off even tho i know he finds me interesting and he likes me so what the hell is the problem??? Anyway, 3 weeks later he just texted me AS IF NOTHING HAD HAPPENED he said "ana?" (which is my name) and i didnt reply of course like who do u think u are to disappear on me and then come back as if nothing happened? and he texted me again the next day with "?" and you know whats funny? he texted me after i had posted a new instagram picture like r u kidding me? CAN SOMEBODY PLS EXPLAIN TO ME WHATS HAPPENING IN HIS DAMN HEAD. THANK YOU.
Virgos don't play with people that are in/out. You have to be in or we're out...
Ummm I think he feel like you are all talk and this is just "something" you do when your both bored. Like entertainment.
i cant read half of y'alls messages because they're hidden idk im new here sorry but for those i managed to read: So me and my ex which is also a scorpio fight a lot (ik scorpio and scorpio arent really compatible) but its like when i met my scorpio i wasnt talking to the virgo anymore and then i started dating but couldnt forget my virgo, i guess he was the first person i ever loved. So i literally broke up with the scorpio to go back to my virgo and thats how it started. me and scorpio were on and off and when we were off i talked to the virgo (lol dont judge me) and i know the virgo is hurt because everytime we started talking he said "i know you're eventually gonna delete me from social media to go back to him" which i understand.
I get all that, the thing is, if you're hurt, and u dont like me getting back to you why do u flirt back, why do u even reply to me? I mean when someone does me bad i dont even reply to that person anymore why does he keep giving me false hopes? Why is he all cute and compliments me and literally makes me melt one day and then is just rude and distant or takes hours to reply the next day?
Most importantly, why did he stop texting me and just came back 3 weeks later as if nothing happened?
I get all that, the thing is, if you're hurt, and u dont like me getting back to you why do u flirt back, why do u even reply to me? I mean when someone does me bad i dont even reply to that person anymore why does he keep giving me false hopes? Why is he all cute and compliments me and literally makes me melt one day and then is just rude and distant or takes hours to reply the next day?
Most importantly, why did he stop texting me and just came back 3 weeks later as if nothing happened?
how can i comment on ur messages directly i dont understand this lol
so i am 19 and he's one year younger, he was born on the 11th september and i was born on the 10th november i guess that makes my moon sign leo and his moon sign libra im not sure tho.
the thing is i understand why he might not want to come back to me i just dont get why he would give me false hopes and flirt back and stuff, is he trying to hurt me back or what
so i am 19 and he's one year younger, he was born on the 11th september and i was born on the 10th november i guess that makes my moon sign leo and his moon sign libra im not sure tho.
the thing is i understand why he might not want to come back to me i just dont get why he would give me false hopes and flirt back and stuff, is he trying to hurt me back or what
Posted by greylatern
How old are you both? What are both of your Venus and moons signs if you got it.
I'm a virgo sun and I have had dealings with scorpios. I have a idea what might have happened but more info.
Ages:
Moons and Venus:
Why did you go back to your ex who was a ex for a reason. Why did you break up. With the ex twice now.
Im 19 hes 18, my moon sign is leo his is libra
Posted by GemCurio
As a Virgo Male I'll explain exactly what happened and why he's so far gone. You decided one day that he wasn't the one for you. Your ex was. Everything prior to that is officially null and void. I dated a scorpio woman before and on every level we were about equal. One day she decides that she wants to date someone else. No explanation. Years go by and she apologizes for choosing him and explained she fell in love with him and was happy even though he was married. Ok.. It is what it is. Now that he's out your life because it didn't work, do you really think we Virgo men can be runner ups? Not even a little bit. Who would want that? So, my story with the scorpio woman ended with sex and kiss goodbye. We can forgive anything, and we always do. The lessons we learn from it last a lifetime. Manners are free and we will always maintain friendly demeanors. You're wasting your time...
But why does he keep coming back tho
Posted by Impulsv
Op as a Scorpio you would t want to be runner up or second fiddle
What makes u think he will
im not asking for him to run after me, he wont even give us a chance at trying again
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I laughed and agreed with you.
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Oil and water.
Quite literally.
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but why does it say that ur message is hidden
Posted by GemCurio
He's not coming back. He's watching. He already knows you'll leave him in a breath. So, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. He's not going to insult you & if you're on good terms he's not going to ruin that. No point in that. But it will take so much more than you're willing to give to make him take you seriously. You taking your ex over him and it not working was a lesson for you, but for him it's a law of your character, and that can only change with more time and consideration than most people are willing to put into people they say they care about. Make it easy on yourself. We Virgos detest being 2nd because we treat those we're in a relationship[ with like they are flawless.
i've already set my mind into forgetting him, i just dont understand why he would still text me (even if i dont answer,) out of nowhere and add me on social media, u think maybe he still likes my company but doesnt like me romantically ? maybe he just wants to stay friends, i never actually considered that lol
Posted by Toti
Your fidgety and overly dramatic Leo moon... I know about the attraction between a Scorpio woman and a Virgo man. I've experienced it myself.
Yes, Virgos do disappear and act as if nothing happened. However, you shouldn't be concerned about his behaviour but your own. You left and you assumed hw will always be there for you. That huge who of a Leo moon...
He might come back but once you stop chasing him. That could take years though. You disrespected him and now you can only apologize and wait.
Virgos always come back in one way or another. But you have to be calm now and work on yourself and your attitude.
I was chasing him like a dog for months and i guess the more i chased him the more he backed off but whatever thanks for your advice, truth is after we talked again i realized hes a different person, acting different and reckless, i wouldnt want someone like that in my life that would make me worried all of the time.
Either way within those 2 weeks that we talked, he was a pain in the ass and always giving me headaches lol i guess we would just stay better off as friends, but due or history i think not even that would be possible.
Posted by TotiPosted by imascorpio10Posted by Toti
Your fidgety and overly dramatic Leo moon... I know about the attraction between a Scorpio woman and a Virgo man. I've experienced it myself.
Yes, Virgos do disappear and act as if nothing happened. However, you shouldn't be concerned about his behaviour but your own. You left and you assumed hw will always be there for you. That huge who of a Leo moon...
He might come back but once you stop chasing him. That could take years though. You disrespected him and now you can only apologize and wait.
Virgos always come back in one way or another. But you have to be calm now and work on yourself and your attitude.
I was chasing him like a dog for months and i guess the more i chased him the more he backed off but whatever thanks for your advice, truth is after we talked again i realized hes a different person, acting different and reckless, i wouldnt want someone like that in my life that would make me worried all of the time.
Either way within those 2 weeks that we talked, he was a pain in the ass and always giving me headaches lol i guess we would just stay better off as friends, but due or history i think not even that would be possible.
Whatever happens,it's OK. You are so young and life is ahead of you. All the best!click to expand
thanks that really nice of you
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so an update for those who care:
he literally texted me 2 weeks after, again, telling me "u were right when u said its not ok when u're with someone and u're thinking about someone else" (meaning: he was with someone but he was thinking about me) i just said yeah thats life and i didnt reply to him no more,i acted like i didnt care even tho i did (im done with his bullshit of leaving and then coming back weeks after), the next day he sent me a snapchat saying "let it stay unblocked tho" meaning: i shouldnt block his username so that hes able to still send me snaps -> to be able to keep in touch, i replied saying "i didnt block u i just dont have u on snapchat" AND HE JUST OPENED AND NEVER EVER REPLIED, ITS BEEN DAYS ALREADY WTF DUDE
he literally texted me 2 weeks after, again, telling me "u were right when u said its not ok when u're with someone and u're thinking about someone else" (meaning: he was with someone but he was thinking about me) i just said yeah thats life and i didnt reply to him no more,i acted like i didnt care even tho i did (im done with his bullshit of leaving and then coming back weeks after), the next day he sent me a snapchat saying "let it stay unblocked tho" meaning: i shouldnt block his username so that hes able to still send me snaps -> to be able to keep in touch, i replied saying "i didnt block u i just dont have u on snapchat" AND HE JUST OPENED AND NEVER EVER REPLIED, ITS BEEN DAYS ALREADY WTF DUDE
Posted by GemCuriodamn that really made me look at things from a different perspective, i know deep down that he isnt over me, and i know that i am not either and wont ever be, the thing we had was just unbelievable and our connection is just way too strong. but every time i try to move on bc i just cant keep up with his bs, he comes back kind of like reminding me that hes still there, and disappears again. thats the main reason why i want to stop this, every time i put my guards down he leaves again, and just seems to want me when i dont want him anymore. its just very exhausting and idk whats going on in his head. i mean he basically told me he still thinks about me and i acted like i didnt care, is that the reason why he read my message but never replied? because he felt like he was sincere and put his stubbornness aside and i acted like i couldnt care less? tbh if he really wanted me, he'd fight for me just like i fought for him and if he gives up after one try and then tries again weeks after, i can consider that "fighting for someone"Posted by imascorpio10OMG!! I so remember being that young, crazy, stupid, and cool!!! I once dated this woman who looked similar to the girl I liked just because the girl I liked wasn't trustworthy in my mind... What he's doing is trying to even the score with you so that the playing field can be leveled. In his mind, he can't get over whatever it was you did to him. So, he had to do something to neutralize the pain you caused and heal his ego. It's what we do to harmonizes the negativity in the relationship with someone we are madly in love with. We cannot accept being the runner up for any woman, so just like an Air Sign we find someone who will value all our class, knowledge, manners, and look at us with great admiration day after day like a dreamy eyed puppy. Some people feel like it's revenge, but in truth, we only behave that way when we can't get over something. He must really be feeling you. Let me know what you want to do, but he's already made his choice. He'll be around..
so an update for those who care:
he literally texted me 2 weeks after, again, telling me "u were right when u said its not ok when u're with someone and u're thinking about someone else" (meaning: he was with someone but he was thinking about me) i just said yeah thats life and i didnt reply to him no more,i acted like i didnt care even tho i did (im done with his bullshit of leaving and then coming back weeks after), the next day he sent me a snapchat saying "let it stay unblocked tho" meaning: i shouldnt block his username so that hes able to still send me snaps -> to be able to keep in touch, i replied saying "i didnt block u i just dont have u on snapchat" AND HE JUST OPENED AND NEVER EVER REPLIED, ITS BEEN DAYS ALREADY WTF DUDEclick to expand
Posted by GemCurioWow you're good with words. I guess he just confuses me because one day he's one way and says one thing and the other he's a completely different person. I understand what i did to him might've hurt him a lot, but it's been 2 years already and clearly we still like each other and always will and everytime i'm ready to move on and just try to have a fresh start that's when he decides to reappear and then disappear again and make me go crazy for days because i can't stop thinking of him, and a few days after the same thing happens all over again, it's like he doesnt want me to move on. I understand things better now after reading what you said and it did help me see things i wasnt getting, so i guess all i gotta do now is just wait and not come off as cold as i did last time? Idk tbh lol thanks for ur help thoPosted by imascorpio10I'll say this, right now mentally and emotionally he's in a bad place where YOU put him. At least in his mind. You showed him he wasn't good enough for you by hooking up with your scorpio and now just to validate himself he got himself a puppy. You know, someone around to make him feel good and boost the ego you hurt. I will not tell you what to do. We all do whatever we want to regardless, but I will say this. You created the hostility within the nature of your relationship. He's doing what he naturally would do to balance the emotion and the betrayal with his limited understanding and huge ego. He is fighting for you and you don't really see it only because you aren't getting what you want yet. He's talking to you while being with someone else because his hearts with you but you hurt him. SO, he's having someone mend his wounds. He's not breaking ties because he "hearts" you, but he's not completely healed over the damage you've done. What you and most other zodiac signs do not understand about Virgo men is while we are seeing you within whatever capacity of the relationship, we aren't giving bits and pieces of ourselves over periods of time. We present ourselves with all we are for that moment in time. We give all or us or none of us. Would you trust you at this moment in time with all of yourself if you were him?? A little more time for him to heal and you two will be together in a few weeks.Posted by GemCuriodamn that really made me look at things from a different perspective, i know deep down that he isnt over me, and i know that i am not either and wont ever be, the thing we had was just unbelievable and our connection is just way too strong. but every time i try to move on bc i just cant keep up with his bs, he comes back kind of like reminding me that hes still there, and disappears again. thats the main reason why i want to stop this, every time i put my guards down he leaves again, and just seems to want me when i dont want him anymore. its just very exhausting and idk whats going on in his head. i mean he basically told me he still thinks about me and i acted like i didnt care, is that the reason why he read my message but never replied? because he felt like he was sincere and put his stubbornness aside and i acted like i couldnt care less? tbh if he really wanted me, he'd fight for me just like i fought for him and if he gives up after one try and then tries again weeks after, i can consider that "fighting for someone"Posted by imascorpio10OMG!! I so remember being that young, crazy, stupid, and cool!!! I once dated this woman who looked similar to the girl I liked just because the girl I liked wasn't trustworthy in my mind... What he's doing is trying to even the score with you so that the playing field can be leveled. In his mind, he can't get over whatever it was you did to him. So, he had to do something to neutralize the pain you caused and heal his ego. It's what we do to harmonizes the negativity in the relationship with someone we are madly in love with. We cannot accept being the runner up for any woman, so just like an Air Sign we find someone who will value all our class, knowledge, manners, and look at us with great admiration day after day like a dreamy eyed puppy. Some people feel like it's revenge, but in truth, we only behave that way when we can't get over something. He must really be feeling you. Let me know what you want to do, but he's already made his choice. He'll be around..
so an update for those who care:
he literally texted me 2 weeks after, again, telling me "u were right when u said its not ok when u're with someone and u're thinking about someone else" (meaning: he was with someone but he was thinking about me) i just said yeah thats life and i didnt reply to him no more,i acted like i didnt care even tho i did (im done with his bullshit of leaving and then coming back weeks after), the next day he sent me a snapchat saying "let it stay unblocked tho" meaning: i shouldnt block his username so that hes able to still send me snaps -> to be able to keep in touch, i replied saying "i didnt block u i just dont have u on snapchat" AND HE JUST OPENED AND NEVER EVER REPLIED, ITS BEEN DAYS ALREADY WTF DUDEclick to expand
is it bad that i added him back on snapchat? did i make a mistake or was it good damn im confused
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