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Aug 19, 2015Comments: 0 · Posts: 143 · Topics: 36
My cousin stopped talking to me just 2 days ago and we were always cool with eachother we live with eachother and a few days ago I went to the hospital and I came back and she asked what happen but I could even speak because I kept coughing it was a dry cough and she said that cough is so fake and I said that it really wasn't and she kept saying okay and since I couldn't stop coughing and she thought it was fake she was getting really annoyed and thought that I just wanted people to think I'm sick and a day passes and we're still cool and I said so do you still think my cough is fake and she was in her room when I said and I heard her mumble no but your fake but I didn't know if I heard it right and I shrugged it off and then a few mins later I texted her and asked if she called me fake and she left me on read and then a day passes and we're still cool whatever but then I texted her again and asked if she called me fake and she again left me on read and then I said I thought we were cool and she read it again so I guess we aren't cool and she did call me fake .. And she just wasn't talking to me since then and neither was I and its been that way for 2 days why is she even mad ? .. You don't think she'll come back do you and it's just so awkward bc we used to be so cool and we live together ...
Wait what?
U guys live together...and u guys text each other instead of talking face to face while living under the same roof???
Thats crazy
Anyway she sounds like she doesn't even care about u...maybe u guys were cool before but now she has changed...ppl change!!!
Just ignore her...she will come around...u have done your part
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Are you faking something?
Most people, when they believe the other person has done something offensive ... the other person has actually done something to warrant their reaction.
I'm not saying you weren't sick, because how would I know ... but, something happened. Most likely, it's been building, and you've faked other things .. and she is now adding it all up to realize that you might not be as honest as you are posing.
People don't just change at snap. They react, yes, but, not change.
People change after continuous altercations with the same person/situation.
Even women getting beat up with put up with it for a very long time before she "changes" and leaves the dickhead.
So, to say and./or believe that this cousin has morphed her entire viewpoint about you over one thing ... really speaks volumes about you, and not really her.
If you plan on having her take you differently, to respect you more, or whatever the end result is you are aiming for .... then you have to change your actions, to change her reactions to you.
I'll just never be stupid enough to believe that a person changes their opinion of you upon first infraction.
If you truly want her to be a good relation with you .... then your actions would represent that. What are your actions? Just pestering her asking the same thing over and again, and mostly likely in a tone to suggest that you want to fight about it.