should I call or wait??..

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by nats on Monday, August 2, 2010 and has 14 replies.
Okay so I met this guy on the weekend at a club. He was really polite and gentlemanly the whole night didnt try and grab me or get sleazy etc. Anyway we talked, danced etc he kept coming and going which i liked because I hate it when guys cling. Anyway when he wasnt around I'd see him looking at me, he came to look for me a few times and wanted to dance lol.

So end of the night I was walking out to go home and I saw him. He asked if I was leaving I said yea etc etc so he walked me out of the club. He asked for me number and he was like make sure u call me etc. I said to him, do you even remember my name?? He said "yea ..... and ur ....... " both were right (name and nationality) and he smiled and said see I remembered. Anyway I gave him my number, he goes wait, and rang me to see if I had given him the right number lol so I saved it. And he kept on saying ring me you better ring me.

So my question is, I found him pretty cute and I liked that he was decent. Should I text him?? Im not after a relationship, just a new friend lol Winking . and btw, i've never had a virgo before. Im a gemini... dont know much about you guys.
Why not? Nothing implies he wouldn't want you to. I say go for it...yay for new friends Big Grin
Sure, what could a text hurt? smile
Hope it works out well.
Sounds like he wanted you to...
Maybe you should let him contact you first. If he's really interested he will contact you. Sounds like he might be testing you when he kept telling you to ring him; because if you do text him or contact him first it could make you seem a little eager. One of the main keys with them is patience.
Posted by DreamyEyes
Maybe you should let him contact you first. If he's really interested he will contact you. Sounds like he might be testing you when he kept telling you to ring him; because if you do text him or contact him first it could make you seem a little eager. One of the main keys with them is patience.


actually I find that a little nasty, and you could get confused, but you're totally right, patience is key with virgoans.
*pulls his tail* I'm not scared LOL Tongue
I wouldn't even dare...*whistles*
me and leo...naaahhh won't ever happen again...
but I think...we confused again a woman with her virgo guy Winking
should she wait or not?
My impulsive mind would say call, or text cause he said so, but on the other hand when he's testing (nasty habit Winking ) keep your distance...
^^ rofl...so true..I'm still dizzy, and when I think I'm not gonna puke...again a screwdriver ahead of me. Well it's never dull that's for sure!
LOL, in the past I dated a leo, wrong combo with me Winking married and divorced a taurus, so I'm having my hopes on my virgo...trying without the puking Tongue
you forgot "trying" lol
Umm, Pisces2202 what did you find "nasty" in my comment?
Posted by nats
So my question is, I found him pretty cute and I liked that he was decent. Should I text him?? Im not after a relationship, just a new friend lol Winking . and btw, i've never had a virgo before. Im a gemini... dont know much about you guys.





The only thing that I have to say about this is that if you are only interested in him as friends, then it would be fair of you to tell him that.
If you had contact with him and never told him that KNOWING that he is interested in more, then that is just wrong.

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