Should I text my virgo ex after 1 week he ended things?

Hi guys. My virgo ex and I(aquarius) been together for 2 years. Well we really loved one another and i know he does,i still really do. Well 2 months ago, he came clean to me that he cheatd with 3 girls(slept with 3 girls in month) during our 2nd month together which was last year. He was sencere when he came clean to me and said it was just sex, once whith each one of them. And thats it,it was just one night stands. Well it happens that i also cheated on him with one guy in Jauary this year and the second thing i did wrong was kiss my old friend and also allow a friend to sleep on my bed for a few hours of a night(and nothing happend between us). Well ja,i also came clean. We agreed to move on and work our relationship out. Again one day we had a bad argument and i ended up lying which i later after days admitted i lied and after days he broke up with me told me how i took him for a fool and all.(well he forgot that what he did to me,) anyway, that was now 2 months ago when we broke up on a monday, i was devastated and hurt so i came across Andrew's blog about the importance of silence after a break up and i cut him off. 4 days later on a friday night he textd me saying he forgave me and well we agreed to work things out..so on my side,all was going fine i even helped him study for his exams and did the old things together..well just a week ago on tuesday, Novemeber 14th, he texted me in the morning after my morning text to him and he said " i feel we should really just end this becos if it didnt work out the first time , i have a feeling it wint won't. I dont want to be with a girl i cheated on,nor be with a girl that cheated on me"

So i was like "u know cheating ended" and he said "yes cheating ended but it wont change the fact it happen. I just cant bare the thought of you sleeping with another guy or allowing a guy to sleep in ur bed". I got so sad,i was devasted and cried my eyes out i mean out of the blue, he just decides to end things coz he feels it wont work. really??. well nevertheless I granted his wish. I didnt text him since last tuesday but i badly wantd to contact him today. But again i feel like he will only see me as a miserable ex that is so desperate. I love him alot and as bad as i want to tell him that, i dont want to be seen as desperate..but again i want to text him that we can work things out.😐☺

It's not healthy to stick around with someone that cheats. Cheating is usually a result of something lacking within the relationship and they go about seeking it elsewhere. To forgive someone you should always do it for yourself, not for them. Right now you're vulnerable, take some time for yourself. Emotions run rampant and logic takes the backdoor during times like this, you don't want to get your hopes up and wind up destroyed again.

Give yourself some time and space, you'll notice how different you'll see and feel about the situation even if it's just a month.

It sounds like he cares but not enough to make the relationship work. Maybe he feels it’ll be hard to fully trust you or himself again. Maybe he feels kind if you both cheated neither of you must love each other as much as you thought you did. Just continue to be his friend, but you may have to move on. Sorry you’re going through this.

Yes,prolly.. but being his friend is a no no. atleast or as long as im still hurting. thanx y'all

Butterfly net and bebe oil will work

No

You shouldn’t they haven’t had the time to regret or miss you

I just went through a similar situation with a Virgo. He dumped me and I'm still totally confused as to why and it very much seems out of the blue but...

I made the mistake of texting him a week later. He answered but the texts trailed off dry.

I would not text him. As you grow stronger after this, you will totally and completely regret texting him! It will make you feel rather pathetic and from what I've read of Virgos - they will more than likely be laughing at you and your attempt on the other end. Don't give him that. Keep your dignity in tact, girl!

Someone said to take time and space --- do it. If anything, do it to make him realize that he might have really enjoyed having you in his life despite the difficulties.

I'm curious if I will ever hear from mine again, but I'm putting zero dollars on it. Keep trucking....

You should just let it be. This wasn’t a messy break up. More of a revelation. He’s being mature and honest with you about what he can and can’t handle. Respect is boundaries.

Let him be the one to reach out if you guys choose to speak again.

But take some time for yourself as well to evaluate some things within yourself. Ask yourself why you feel it is okay to accept cheating. As well as what made you participate in untrustworthy behavior as well.

But he could bare to stick his dick in three other women? Lol men are so dramatic

He slept...with 3 girls...in your first two months together, which you then attempted to "remedy" by cheating on him back. The answer is an emphatic and unequivocal "No" if for no other reason than that neither of you are emotionally mature enough to be in a relatonship.