Showing emotional weakness turn offs a Virgo ?

I think a lack of empathy is the culprit.

Virgo's have emotions, and knows other people have emotions .. but, they cannot put theirselves in another persons place to try and understand how the other feels.

It's not that your Virgo thinks you are weak because you feel .. it's because unless it happens to him, he cannot grasp how you feel ... because he cannot empathize.

So, when you show him your feelings ... he will just think you are emotionally out of control, simply because he isn't able to grasp how the situation feels.

This is why you see Virgos showing depth of feelings and emotions on how they feel ... but, cannot understand how you feel no matter how much you try to express it.

It depends on if the situation warrants such theatrics. Some people put on a show just to get a reaction out of you, & you know they're full of shit. At least I do, but a person whole heartedly expressing their emotion to me & I believe it to be genuine, It doesn't turn me off at all. I appreciate it.

If you're referrencing this question to men in general, REAL men cry & REAL men show emotion.

Ive always noticed it makes them extremely uncomfortable, and until they get a little bit more emotionally mature, they cant really empathise and feel secure enough with emotions in general.

Posted by P-Angel
Virgo's . . . cannot put theirselves in another persons place to try and understand how the other feels. It's not that your Virgo thinks you are weak because you feel .. it's because unless it happens to him, he cannot grasp how you feel ... because he cannot empathize.So, when you show him your feelings ... he will just think you are emotionally out of control, simply because he isn't able to grasp how the situation feels.

This is why you see Virgos showing depth of feelings and emotions on how they feel ... but, cannot understand how you feel no matter how much you try to express it.

Utterly preposterous. We're all cookie-cut carbon copies of P-Angel's severely robotic, un-empathetic, barely humanoid husband . . . just because we were all born in late August/early-mid September like he was. God only knows her husband's natal placements and why he's a mere facsimile of a human anymore (ummm, 28 years of marriage to P-A?), but this does not define every Virgo in the zodiac and leave us utterly devoid of feeling for someone else merely because we're not sitting in his stew or thinking that people that show their feelings are emotionally out of control. I'm a Sag moon, for crying out loud. Emotional depth and expression are paramount to me.

That's like my saying P-Angel, and every Pisces like her, is a low-down, unfaithful, cold-hearted, emotionally-bankrupt, unimaginative, uncompromising, negligent, deceptive, emotionally-manipulative, self-piteous, interpersonally-destructive, financially-criminal bastard just because my ex was. Hmmmm . . . ya know, she just might have a point there.

We were made out of the same stuff the rest of humanity was made out of, P-Angel; we weren't carved out of stone.

And honestly. Theirselves?

Posted by RealTalk
If you're referrencing this question to men in general, REAL men cry & REAL men show emotion.

I LOVE it!

every Pisces like her, is a low-down, unfaithful, cold-hearted, emotionally-bankrupt, unimaginative, uncompromising, negligent, deceptive, emotionally-manipulative, self-piteous, interpersonally-destructive, financially-criminal bastard just because my ex was. Hmmmm . . . ya know, she just might have a point there.

Theirselves?

You forgot, self-loathing, insecure, inferior, stupid, sloppy thinkers, overly emotional, always in a fantasy land, oh I'm the martyr ass retards... 🙂

Posted by **StringsAttached**

Posted by RealTalk
If you're referrencing this question to men in general, REAL men cry & REAL men show emotion.

I LOVE it!

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😄

Posted by RealTalk
. . . overly emotional, always in a fantasy land, oh I'm the martyr ass retards... 🙂

OWNED! 😄

Hehehehehehe!!!

Posted by P-Angel
I think a lack of empathy is the culprit.

Virgo's have emotions, and knows other people have emotions .. but, they cannot put theirselves in another persons place to try and understand how the other feels.

It's not that your Virgo thinks you are weak because you feel .. it's because unless it happens to him, he cannot grasp how you feel ... because he cannot empathize.

So, when you show him your feelings ... he will just think you are emotionally out of control, simply because he isn't able to grasp how the situation feels.

This is why you see Virgos showing depth of feelings and emotions on how they feel ... but, cannot understand how you feel no matter how much you try to express it.

Pangel has a point. I've seen it with my virgo.

'when you show him your feelings ... he will just think you are emotionally out of control, simply because he isn't able to grasp how the situation feels.'

My last over-the-top emotional outburst with him..weeks ago..he hung up on me..not in a mean way but he didnt know what else to do, how to handle it. He called back within a 1/2 hr when I was calmer and said, "What do i have to do..." And you know what? he has made sure since then to alleviate the issue I have, everyday. He makes that effort because its what I need emotionally regardless of whether he himself understands it or not. Oh and an apology thrown in there goes a long way too,lol. BUT they expect u to listen to them and not question them again on the same issue if they have done what they can to fix it 🙂

Capbaby, since you seem to agree on any negative points your idol...oops, sorry, P-angel has on Virgos, just because YOUR Virgo is this or that, I do wonder how quickly you'd agree with the negative points she has on Caps?

Your Virgo acting cold towards you does not make it a sign trait. Means you must bring it out in them. Might want to let that marinate before building her a golden statue on your front lawn.

And I do so tire of people who are NOT Virgos speaking for the sign.

You only know what you think you know, and if you're not here to learn but lecture, that'll be all you ever know (your own opinion).

Close your mouth and open your ears, or forever be blind.

How do you tell a sign about itself? Do you like that done to you?

In my opinion Capricorns are self-proclaimed know-it-alls, and the coldest of the signs combined. They're the little old lady that lives in the shoe types that need control. Witches and warlocks, if you will. I guess since that's my OPINION it must be true, since that what seems to go around here--experience with 1 or 2 of a sign equalling reality and speaking for ALL of that sign.

Ridiculous.

Once again, close your mouth and open your ears, or forever be blind.

And, I've gotta say, if you're here talking smack about Virgos but still riding one like an electronic bull, you fail.

Obviously he's not so horrible that you can't grab your lasso and ride that pretty pony into town huh?

If the sign is so horrible, keep your legs closed for them and move on. And if you can't, then stop acting like you're doing them a favor by staying. You're not.

All this btching and moaning, I swear to God...

I'd act just as fcked up as your Virgos if I were around most of ya'll. I seriously would. You'd bring it out in me. Jesus.

Posted by capbaby

Posted by P-Angel
I think a lack of empathy is the culprit.

Virgo's have emotions, and knows other people have emotions .. but, they cannot put theirselves in another persons place to try and understand how the other feels.

It's not that your Virgo thinks you are weak because you feel .. it's because unless it happens to him, he cannot grasp how you feel ... because he cannot empathize.

So, when you show him your feelings ... he will just think you are emotionally out of control, simply because he isn't able to grasp how the situation feels.

This is why you see Virgos showing depth of feelings and emotions on how they feel ... but, cannot understand how you feel no matter how much you try to express it.

Pangel has a point. I've seen it with my virgo.

'when you show him your feelings ... he will just think you are emotionally out of control, simply because he isn't able to grasp how the situation feels.'

My last over-the-top emotional outburst with him..weeks ago..he hung up on me..not in a mean way but he didnt know what else to do, how to handle it. He called back within a 1/2 hr when I was calmer and said, "What do i have to do..." And you know what? he has made sure since then to alleviate the issue I have, everyday. He makes that effort because its what I need emotionally regardless of whether he himself understands it or not. Oh and an apology thrown in there goes a long way too,lol. BUT they expect u to listen to them and not question them again on the same issue if they have done what they can to fix it 🙂

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Why don't you stop with the emotional outbursts. You're courting trouble. Sounds like you expect to throw a tantrum whenever you please, and then have him coddle you, and kiss your ass whenever you do. Stop it. He'll only put up with so much before he hits the door for good, and then you'll be back here asking us how to get him back. We don't care for emotional drama. If that's what you are after, find yourself a Cancer.

It's ridiculous.

I just don't get it--if their Virgos are so horrible, why are they still there?

You look silly, coming here to btch and moan. Either leave, or try to understand them (which requires you to actually listen to OTHER Virgos, instead of licking the feet of a fish who is btching and moaning herself).

How does it not make your spidey senses tingle that all she ever has to say about the sign she's with is negative things? This is your leader?

Good luck with that.

LOL, fools I tell ya. I think some get off on trying to make us lose control, or they see it as a win if they get us to kowtow to them. She enjoys using her "outburts" as a means of bullying him into giving her "what she needs emotionally", and the apology he gives her is the cherry on top! ROFLMAO!

But that's sick! This is a relationship, not a game.

For real?? This is what you're putting these guy through?

No wonder...

Like I said, I'd totally act out around and towards you too. Whatever it took to drive you away.

I just don't get it, why come here pretending to seek advice only to TELL a sign about themselves (and be wrong, because all you can do is guess--having sex with a Virgo doesn't make you an honorary one. Sorry, but no), or btch and moan about them?

How do you learn anything?

Very very sad. Once again, good luck with that.

Posted by CLCNY30
Capbaby, since you seem to agree on any negative points your idol...oops, sorry, P-angel has on Virgos, just because YOUR Virgo is this or that, I do wonder how quickly you'd agree with the negative points she has on Caps?

Your Virgo acting cold towards you does not make it a sign trait. Means you must bring it out in them. Might want to let that marinate before building her a golden statue on your front lawn.

Some of what she says is the same experience for me, and some is not. Virgo's, Taurus, and Cap's have VERY similiar traits ...or do u not know enough about astrology to know that? Also..the different virgo traits you will find individually have to do with their moon, rising, etc.

My virgo seldom acts cold. I can tell when he's in a mood, when he needs space, time to relax, etc etc..and I can respond accordingly, and vice versa. But someone who is only getting to know someone, like the OP, has only asked for a little understanding, and that is the point of the board... REGARDLESS of whether u are a virgo or not.

Posted by CLCNY30
And I do so tire of people who are NOT Virgos speaking for the sign.

You only know what you think you know, and if you're not here to learn but lecture, that'll be all you ever know (your own opinion).

Close your mouth and open your ears, or forever be blind.

How do you tell a sign about itself? Do you like that done to you?

In my opinion Capricorns are self-proclaimed know-it-alls, and the coldest of the signs combined. They're the little old lady that lives in the shoe types that need control. Witches and warlocks, if you will. I guess since that's my OPINION it must be true, since that what seems to go around here--experience with 1 or 2 of a sign equalling reality and speaking for ALL of that sign.

Ridiculous.

Once again, close your mouth and open your ears, or forever be blind.

LOLOL..spoken like a true Virgo..claps for you!!!
Someone is in a mood today! You go girl..let it all out 🙂

Nah, I'll just let you continue your wah wah fest.

After all, I'm not the one here to complain about my Virgo.

Please do, continue on about the control issues you have.

Oh, funny thing about control and Virgos...we don't give in to it. You're wasting your time if that's your game.

"or do u not know enough about astrology to know that?"

Sad.

Posted by CLCNY30
Nah, I'll just let you continue your wah wah fest.

After all, I'm not the one here to complain about my Virgo.

Please do, continue on about the control issues you have.

Oh, funny thing about control and Virgos...we don't give in to it. You're wasting your time if that's your game.

"or do u not know enough about astrology to know that?"

Sad.

BINGO!!! Controlling ass. That's what she is.

Posted by capbaby
'When a Virgo likes you, he doesnt play games. '

Yes he does. I did something to mine and he said for the rest of the day i was going to pay for it. The day after, it was forgotton. LOL..it was all in teasing but still..

They are a walking contradictory sometimes but if you are a woman who will put them in their place when they need it, lovingly, you stand a fair better chance.

You try and make them jealous...they will do it to you twofold.
You try and tell them their wrong, they wont admit it..well they might but they dont like it.LOL
You give them unconditional love, you will receive it from them.
They will do anything for you, but act ungrateful, use them, or stab them in the back, they will reciprocate.
if he says he loves you, he does and dont question it.
Sometimes they need space, give it to him. Doesnt mean he loves u any less.
You had better be secure in yourself and your relationship.

Mine has moon in Aquarius. And my moon is in Sag. we're both friendly freedom lovers and respect that about each other.

lol, this is what she posted a few days ago in response to another Virgo. Some parts...soooo telling.

Posted by capbaby
'earlier I used to do emotional displays when I felt hurt or ignored, but then he treated me cold!'

-yep they will. they will walk away until you can collect yourself rationally..at least mine. but i am Cap/aqua cusp, so I don't display outlandish emotions often. I can calmly talk about things.



'IF ATTENTION WHORES IS WHAT WE ARE THEN THE GUY WE NEED RIGHT NOW ARE NOT THEM, CAUSE THEY WANT IT THEIR WAY ...LIKE THE VIRGIN '

they dont want drama. I've known my virgo 12 years..we were platonic best friends before a lover relationship started. I was in a 10 yr relationship, so we could never be more and respected that. He told me i broke his heart all those years ago when I became involved with someone. But I reminded him back then he was not in a position to get into a relationship, so he can't hold that against me. He did agree. So now is our time because this is where the path of life has led us...our destiny when the time was right.

And this ^^^What a GOTDAYUM liar. She has emotional outbursts all the time, and she is FULLY aware that he doesn't want drama, but she brings it anyway. *SMH*





*GONE*

Hi Onix!

Posted by caesarkreshen
and @ strings, I am debating over adding you as a favorite person after that post you made towards P Angel. That was vicious but on point and totally warranted. 🙂

Well, aren't you just a little doll. Caesar, P-Angel's completely-unwarranted, spite-filled assaults on me date back almost 6 years. I'm so tired of putting up with her venom that I recently blocked her . . . until she vandalized my thread the other day. She treated me with utter contempt when I first came on here--I suspect b/c she was the self-proclaimed Reigning Queen of the Virgo Board back then (?? go figure), and in steps someone new (Ouch! An actual Virgo!) who all the boys were suddenly paying court to with one "You rock!" compliment after another . . . kinda like you yourself just a few minutes ago. 😉 Being innately possessed of jealousy as a main trait, she launched an all-out attack and stopped at nothing to reduce me to nothing. It was a feeble attempt on her part and it did her no good, but who can blame her? She is a Pisces, after all. 😄

I persisted in my benevolent demeanor, nonetheless. I suspect consequently, she had a change of heart somewhere along the way, actually publicly apologized for all her undue, malicious behavior, all but sent me flowers, and agreed with nearly everything that came out of my mouth after that. Only after our--well, my--fave DXP Daddy (the fabled Dy, lol) exposed her for fraudulently stirring up chaos on this Board by deception and guile and only after I voiced my dissent as to her tactics did she make a full revolt and swear me off as a mortal enemy. Her loss, not mine.

Anyway, I'm way too old to entertain her childish rants . . . although my fire moon does get the better of me at times, lol. She obnoxiously vandalized my thread the other day for no good cause, so, in truth, my curt comment was not unduly "vicious" (as maybe now you can appreciate). Not the most mature thing I've ever done, but I just couldn't stop myself, lol . . . which is why I need to block her again.

When you can't be a Virgo, just hate on them, I guess?

LOL.

#teamACTUALVirgoftmfw

Posted by capbaby
Pangel has a point. I've seen it with my virgo.

Capbaby, it must be said that men in general have far more difficulty expressing their emotions and inner selves than women. The books abound on the subject and what marriage/couples counselor hasn't brought this to light a million times? The fact that Virgos--by virtue of their private, reserved natures--do not articulate their emotions as ardently, readily, or publicly as, say, Aries and Librans doesn't mean they don't feel, but rather that feelings are not their primary mode of expression nor the articulation of them their forte. We may, in fact, feel very deeply and have great capacity for empathy and emotion . . . it's just a matter of bringing that to the surface and articulating it without feeling stripped naked and utterly denuded for the vulnerability it poses. When someone reacts with bursts of emotion (usually by crying), we may feel at a loss as to what to say to them or just how to remedy the solution b/c we are innately problem-solvers, and that's not something we can solve. If we're uneasy, it's generally only because we feel: (a) inadequate, b/c we can't solve; (b) exposed or "weak," b/c expressing emotions demands our vulnerability and that's not something we like; or (c) disarmed, as the situation places us outside of our innate, primary form of expression--not because we truly have no idea how the person feels and why they're weeping/hurting.

We are intellectually-driven thinkers, so, yes, emotional wherewithal is not as forthcoming as it is in other signs and the expression of it not near as evident (or even natural, for that matter). Emotional agility and ease are not our strong points as far as expressing them freely . . . but this is not to say that we lack them or the ability to compassionately sense another human's plight. P-Angel's whole point is that we can't even feel in the first place and when emotional responses are to be had, we stand there clucking around like aimless geese, jerking our heads every which way but loose with no clue as to how to even comprehend.

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I suspect your SO's being a Virgo certainly compounds this issue, but I wonder if his being male doesn't have a good say in it as well, as we women tend to be emotional creatures to begin with. (As a Virgo, my emotions are definitely held in check, but I'm still a woman! 😄 They're gonna come flying outta there sooner or later, and usually quite vociferously so. 😉 Or wait. Is that just my Sag moon again?!) By the same token, women are typically more emotionally expressive/sensitive than men, so my Virgoan nature alone is not enough to suppress the whelms of compassion, pity, or happiness that I feel for others.

It's like the Five Love Languages: just because gift-giving isn't your primary doesn't mean you never feel the need or human desire for a gift or can't understand why people give/receive stupid gifts. It just means it's not what primarily floats your boat or presents as most significant. I certainly don't understand gift-giving as someone's primary--as this seems incomprehensibly materialistic to me--and I personally can't relate to that placement. But I DO understand the need and desire to give and receive gifts and, dangit, ya better git me one on when occasion calls for it! 😄 So it is with Virgos and emotions. We may be feeling very deeply for someone and have a genuine understanding of their pain—to the point of personal angst even. It's just upon expressing those feelings that we tend to flounder. (And even after forcing ourselves to do so, we admittedly feel like we??re attempting a tightrope simply because we've abandoned our primary inclination and are grappling with a secondary that doesn't come so naturally.)

I can see what your saying.

my virgo 'feels' with his head first..logical..i can just see the wheels spinning sometimes..lol. When hes trying to put himself in someone's shoes..I can see in his face how hes trying to picture it so he can comprehend it..whereas i can autopilot to understand it, I feel it off the bat.

'expressing those feelings that we tend to flounder'..in the beginning...but that can change over time...individual thing i think.

I have sag moon too which fits with his aqua moon..freedom lovers 🙂

LOL yes Caps can be controlling. So can virgos and mine can be very controlling, but its ok cause WE balance each other out and there is enough give and take. When he told me he loves to see a text from me first thing he wakes up, what do i do? text him as soon as i wake up because it makes him happy. Some people might think thats dorky..but its a NEED he has so i fulfill that need. And if I NEED certain emo support in other areas, he does that for me.

Excuse me! May I have your attention please?
LOL. Now that I've got your attention, I just had to interject something that just occurred to me. Poo bah on all this malarkey that Virgos are unfeeling creatures devoid of comprehending others' pain! Virgos represent the BOWELS and the seat of empathy, for pity's sake, in the Zodiac. Ancient information!

This is one of the best descriptions I've ever read on us poor, misinterpreted folk, LOL:

Turns Out Virgos Are Actually Great Empathizers!And, given our present "debate," I especially liked this:As a temporal humour 'dryness' inhibits emotional receptivity and many sun-sign profiles refer to Virgo's reputation for impassionate reactions and cool responses as a character-flaw, failing to appreciate that the ability to hold sentiment in check is the requisite of the intellectual clarity that sets this sign apart. Clear reason can only emerge when disentangled from the conflicting ties of emotional attachment; yet although it has a just reputation for control over passions, Virgo is not an unsympathetic or insensitive sign. Essentially gentle and thoughtful, consideration to others is a pronounced trait and figures strongly on their limited list of expectations and demands. Neither is Virgo lacking in intuitive recognition. Unlike the water signs [ummm, Pisces?], which pick up easily on psychic impressions, often absorbing moods that are poorly comprehended by reason, Virgo forms reliable instinctive impressions through a powerful gut-reaction, (their energy is seated in the gut), aided by their ready ability to analyse complexities and penetrate superficial presentations.
What?! Virgos Are Empathetic— Music to My Ears!
And from this we have this tasty little mention:
Although somewhat overly compassionate and empathetic, Virgos have a way of dismissing their own emotions. They may appear cold, distant, heartless, shrewd, callous, and apathetic to you and your grief. Virgos can, indeed, feel other's pain, unless they are the cause of it!

^^^I take issue with that last statement. It's not that we can't feel your pain if we caused it; it's just that we don't particularly give a rat's backside how much you??re hurting at the moment because we??re angry and we think you deserved it (which is simply human nature, folks!). . . until our guilt kicks in. 😄

Virgo Men Have Feelings?!? If you are hurt by something he's done you need only tell him and he'll correct it and be empathetic and compassionate.
P-Angel, you takin?? notes yet?
Say It Ain't So!! Virgo's are nearly always intellectual, and this woman's fast mind can find humor in most things, and often empathize with others more than her emotions alone would allow.
This Is Gettin?? Downright Confusing! Virgo is also one of the most empathetic signs in the zodiac and has the ability to figure out what is wrong at a moment's notice.
This Keeps Up, I'ma Need A Doctor!! Virgos feelings and empathy for other people make this astrology sign one the most caring and dutiful signs of the entire zodiac.

—Nuff said.

I only have one question: whose thread was this anyway? 😛
(Sorry, onix. 😄)

Posted by capbaby
[quoting from Strings:]"expressing those feelings that we tend to flounder"

..in the beginning...but that can change over time...individual thing i think.

Totally. You want some real irony?? I was always BEGGING my Pisces ex to open up and share/express his feelings and forever wanting to "talk it out." Got me nowhere!

Posted by **StringsAttached**
^^^I take issue with that last statement. It's not that we can't feel your pain if we caused it; it's just that we don't particularly give a rat's backside how much you??re hurting at the moment because we??re angry and we think you deserved it (which is simply human nature, folks!). . . until our guilt kicks in. 😄

Virgo Men Have Feelings?!? If you are hurt by something he's done you need only tell him and he'll correct it and be empathetic and compassionate.
P-Angel, you takin?? notes yet?
Say It Ain't So!! Virgo's are nearly always intellectual, and this woman's fast mind can find humor in most things, and often empathize with others more than her emotions alone would allow.
This Is Gettin?? Downright Confusing! Virgo is also one of the most empathetic signs in the zodiac and has the ability to figure out what is wrong at a moment's notice.
This Keeps Up, I'ma Need A Doctor!! Virgos feelings and empathy for other people make this astrology sign one the most caring and dutiful signs of the entire zodiac.

—Nuff said.

I only have one question: whose thread was this anyway? 😛
(Sorry, onix. 😄)

Hahahahahaha! Fucking epic!! 😄

Lol--of COURSE she's not taking notes.

She sums up the sign based on the man living with her, who obviously has no respect for her because she lacks respect in herself.

I said it before, I'll say it again: I side-eye anyone who is with a sign that they can't stop talking smack about. All it says about you is you can't do better, and are beyond desperate.

Something to think about for any other females coming here to whine and moan about a Virgo they refuse to leave--ya look DESPERATE.

Posted by CLCNY30
. . . ya look DESPERATE.

And completely unevolved. And this after three decades?
But you've got some worthy advice you'd like to pass along?

Ooops, just now caught this and, of course, I couldn't let it go. 😄

Posted by **StringsAttached**
. . . or just how to remedy the solution b/c we are innately problem-solvers, . . .

*to remedy the situation

Posted by **StringsAttached**

Posted by capbaby
[quoting from Strings:]"expressing those feelings that we tend to flounder"

..in the beginning...but that can change over time...individual thing i think.

Totally. You want some real irony?? I was always BEGGING my Pisces ex to open up and share/express his feelings and forever wanting to "talk it out." Got me nowhere!

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I hear ya..was involved with a pisces/aqua cusp once..now i know why he's 50, married 3 times and cant keep a woman,lmao.

Posted by **StringsAttached**
Ooops, just now caught this and, of course, I couldn't let it go. 😄

Posted by **StringsAttached**
. . . or just how to remedy the solution b/c we are innately problem-solvers, . . .

*to remedy the situation

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it goes along with the need to be needed. Like Cap's..very good in a crisis, take charge role.

However, one issue I know that goes along with this is being 'nosy'..always in someone business when they should butt out. I tell my virgo that all the time..'let them work it out..'

He also allows people to use him one too many times. And then complains. The last situation, I told him..'let that person go,you can't save them, you have done all you can when they won't help themselves.." Took him 2 weeks but he finally did it and ya know what? He doesn't have that stress placed on him now that was sucking his energy! 🙂

Posted by ellybd
I work with a virgo. She's like the unofficial supervisor of my department. She's real tough and straight to the point a lot of times. But there's a lovely softness and caring to her in all that she does. 🙂 She's the same way with her kids. Tough on em, but still surprisingly loving. My first encounter with a true virgo, the only other was a leo/virg cusp who is technically leo, but SO SO SO much like a virgo.

Since we're putting pisces and virgo side by side here, it could be noteworthy to mention that when I first came to this job there was also a pisces in the department who told me a bunch of stuff about the virgo and everyone else that worked there that totally ended up being false. But she was sleeping with the head of the department, even though both were married, and everyone else knew, I found out later. So that explains that.

This sums up how I feel about both Pisces and Virgo--I feel Virgo is misunderstood, and will show that sweetness to those they feel comfortable with, and Pisces needs to do whatever it takes to get attention, no matter who they need to throw under a bus to do so--but they'll play innocent, and blame everyone else for their shortcomings. How interesting!

I'm almost tempted to print your post out and frame it, lol.

Posted by **StringsAttached**

Posted by capbaby
[quoting from Strings:]"expressing those feelings that we tend to flounder"

..in the beginning...but that can change over time...individual thing i think.

Totally. You want some real irony?? I was always BEGGING my Pisces ex to open up and share/express his feelings and forever wanting to "talk it out." Got me nowhere!

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Yep same thing with my Pisces ex....he seemed more robot than what we Virgos are apparently supposed to be! It was extremely frustrating!

It just depends on who it is and what the situation is....if I can tell its genuine, than I can be very empathetic. If its all drama filled and over the top than yeah I will listen but just be uncomfortable with it and really wish they would shut it lol. Maybe the reason why some feel we aren't is because we know your situation or story is unbelievable or we have heard a million times and you never listened to us the first time..IMO


I had to hide the first msg cause I wanted to add to it....and I'm not sure if anyone already said the same thing I just did as I didn't read the whole thread...I'm being lazy today (yes a Virgo is being lazy...we're entitled!) LOL

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Posted by ellybd
I work with a virgo. She's like the unofficial supervisor of my department. She's real tough and straight to the point a lot of times. But there's a lovely softness and caring to her in all that she does. 🙂 She's the same way with her kids. Tough on em, but still surprisingly loving. My first encounter with a true virgo, the only other was a leo/virg cusp who is technically leo, but SO SO SO much like a virgo.

Since we're putting pisces and virgo side by side here, it could be noteworthy to mention that when I first came to this job there was also a pisces in the department who told me a bunch of stuff about the virgo and everyone else that worked there that totally ended up being false. But she was sleeping with the head of the department, even though both were married, and everyone else knew, I found out later. So that explains that.

This sums up how I feel about both Pisces and Virgo--I feel Virgo is misunderstood, and will show that sweetness to those they feel comfortable with, and Pisces needs to do whatever it takes to get attention, no matter who they need to throw under a bus to do so--but they'll play innocent, and blame everyone else for their shortcomings. How interesting!

I'm almost tempted to print your post out and frame it, lol.

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ITA. and being venus in pisces I'll admit i can play both sides of a fence at times, hahah

they say scorpio and virgo are compatible but i dont see how..tooo emo energy..but then I guess it depends on other placements. And Caps and Scorpio..don't get that either.

My mars scorpio and his venus taurus mesh. Both highly sexual and passionate as lovers. Out of bed..a deep friendship..a partnership like none I have ever had before.

Pisces are annoying as HELL. Brother & sister & I'd love to strangle them both. They do some of the dumbest things known to man & they crave attention. It's pathetic & it makes me sick. I just want to slap the shit out of them sometimes.

Posted by RealTalk
Pisces are annoying as HELL. Brother & sister & I'd love to strangle them both. They do some of the dumbest things known to man & they crave attention. It's pathetic & it makes me sick. I just want to slap the shit out of them sometimes.

Holy God, TWO siblings who are Pisces—

I'ma pray for you, babe.

Jesus...

I thought having a Leo, Aries, Sag for brothers were a handful. I also have a Virgo sister. But damn...thank God no Pisces in the immediate family...well, that's not true, my nephew's a Pisces, but he's fast learning that the "head in the clouds" life style ain't gonna get him anywhere. I hope he can get past that.

Nope, no more Pisces for me.

We just don't get along...and I'm okay with that.

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Posted by RealTalk
Pisces are annoying as HELL. Brother & sister & I'd love to strangle them both. They do some of the dumbest things known to man & they crave attention. It's pathetic & it makes me sick. I just want to slap the shit out of them sometimes.

Holy God, TWO siblings who are Pisces—

I'ma pray for you, babe.

Jesus...

I thought having a Leo, Aries, Sag for brothers were a handful. I also have a Virgo sister. But damn...thank God no Pisces in the immediate family...well, that's not true, my nephew's a Pisces, but he's fast learning that the "head in the clouds" life style ain't gonna get him anywhere. I hope he can get past that.

Nope, no more Pisces for me.

We just don't get along...and I'm okay with that.

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CTFU!!! Yes, I need it!! But it doesn't stop there!!!! My dad & cousin are too. But my dad is of a different breed, lol. He's sooooooo not like my bro or sis & I just adore him!!! Don't get me wrong, I love my siblings dearly, but I don't like the shit that they do.

I don't get along with them either & I'm ok with that as well. Most of them make me want to knock on their heads & say HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! IS ANYONE HOME? Scarecrow from the Wizard of Oz..."If I only had a brain"...smh. Thank GOD I've never attracted a Pisces guy. Too strong for their weak minds.

Lol, now I want you to meet a Pisces guy 😆

I seem to attract them like crazy, but I'm at that point now where I just got my game face on. All the little tricks I fell for in the past just don't work anymore, and once they see this they get quiet. I wish they'd stop lying, and just be themselves.

Posted by RealTalk
Pisces are annoying as HELL. Brother & sister & I'd love to strangle them both. They do some of the dumbest things known to man & they crave attention. It's pathetic & it makes me sick. I just want to slap the shit out of them sometimes.

Speaking of Pisces, I can't stand that Rihanna....UUUGGGHHHH...she makes me sick. I think Chris Brown (Taurus) should stay far, far away from her manipulative, vindictive butt. Real talk. If he gets back with her, I think he could kiss his career goodbye. I'm gonna say a prayer for him.


That is all.

I read once: Only Virgo and Pisces could understand each other and that's why they go along...

Posted by bluesky
I read once: Only Virgo and Pisces could understand each other and that's why they go along...

LMAO!!! Where? When? On November 43rd at 316 Dreamland Avenue? Hahahahaha, yeah ok.