Single Virgos :)
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by VirgowithalittleLibra on Thursday, March 1, 2007 and has 7 replies.
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That's right...some of us may decide to be single for a while and when we do...well, let's just say it can be pretty awesome 
I've realized that I should have done this a while before. Man, I love being in a relationship and defenitely enjoy making people happy but you know...I needed this time so bad...just to figure out my life, my mind, my heart..
So here are some benefits of singleness for me right now:
- I can sleep better and more...hehe...
- I can hang out with whoever I want.
- I can pay more attention to my family.
- I can be a better friend.
- I can get involved in more community service activities.
- I can read as much as I want to.
- I can save more money, without Geico
- I can understand where I am better.
- I can focus on important matters of my heart...other than the girl.
- I can learn how to cook!
- I can organize my place however I want it.
- I can travel to visit old friends.
- I can be free to learn whatever I want and as much I want :p
You know, if I could have all these things in a balanced way along with encouragement in my spiritual walk I think I would be willing, after a long while, to give it a shot at dating again...but for now all these things are good.
I thought once I was single again I was going to become a jerk...lol...but not so much :p I've been rather more introspective and still very analytical, except this time with the matters of the world and such...who would think.
What were some of your pros when you were single and why are you not any longer or still are? just curious. I've read somewhere that we are one of the last signs to tie knots?
VLL
I've realized that I should have done this a while before. Man, I love being in a relationship and defenitely enjoy making people happy but you know...I needed this time so bad...just to figure out my life, my mind, my heart..
So here are some benefits of singleness for me right now:
- I can sleep better and more...hehe...
- I can hang out with whoever I want.
- I can pay more attention to my family.
- I can be a better friend.
- I can get involved in more community service activities.
- I can read as much as I want to.
- I can save more money, without Geico
- I can understand where I am better.
- I can focus on important matters of my heart...other than the girl.
- I can learn how to cook!
- I can organize my place however I want it.
- I can travel to visit old friends.
- I can be free to learn whatever I want and as much I want :p
You know, if I could have all these things in a balanced way along with encouragement in my spiritual walk I think I would be willing, after a long while, to give it a shot at dating again...but for now all these things are good.
I thought once I was single again I was going to become a jerk...lol...but not so much :p I've been rather more introspective and still very analytical, except this time with the matters of the world and such...who would think.
What were some of your pros when you were single and why are you not any longer or still are? just curious. I've read somewhere that we are one of the last signs to tie knots?
VLL
Hey we all need time for ourselves.......and when your ready then start again
but yes! time to reflect and process the things that have happened is essential for evolution of the heart and mind to take place!........good luck!
but yes! time to reflect and process the things that have happened is essential for evolution of the heart and mind to take place!........good luck!
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thanks starblue!
it is defenitely an interesting place to be at.
now that i am an expectator in the "couples" world...as oposed to a participant, i can see more clearly how some people stay in relationship for so many fears they have even though clearly they aren't happy...
i think when you are in one of those relationship is hard to see things for what they are...but once you are out...you thik 'what was i thinking'...i think i feel drawn to challenge...but sometimes i confuse that 'challenge' or 'intrigue' with love...which doesn't allow me to see people for who they are before i invest more.
i may need to get a new puppy though! is hard to have this need to take care of someone, and being able to right now...well maybe the community, friends, and my mom and sister...yeah i defenitely need to to that.
vll
it is defenitely an interesting place to be at.
now that i am an expectator in the "couples" world...as oposed to a participant, i can see more clearly how some people stay in relationship for so many fears they have even though clearly they aren't happy...
i think when you are in one of those relationship is hard to see things for what they are...but once you are out...you thik 'what was i thinking'...i think i feel drawn to challenge...but sometimes i confuse that 'challenge' or 'intrigue' with love...which doesn't allow me to see people for who they are before i invest more.
i may need to get a new puppy though! is hard to have this need to take care of someone, and being able to right now...well maybe the community, friends, and my mom and sister...yeah i defenitely need to to that.
vll
That's awsome VLL....although if a relationship is right for you, you should be able to do all of those things in that situation as well...I know I do...its all about not settling until you really have the right person that doesn't have kinds of issues that would block you from any of thsoe things. At any rate, congrats on finding centeredness and peace in your life...its a beautiful thang!
lol. I love being single. An old friend and I were talking yesterday. She said that I was born in this world with a moral heredity..funny, that's what it says in my astro profile..o_O
We were talking about the kids of this generation. We talked about the past and the future of the youth. She's 50. This lady lives by herself and takes care of herself. And she says she is damn well proud of it and extremely happy, even more so than when she was married and she knows plenty of women who do the same. Then our conversation led to the subject of how this generation of youth is growing up in a society that is nothing like it use to be. she said "It's gonna be harder for you kids, relationships are gonna be harder, getting jobs are gonna be harder, making a living is gonna be harder. Some people go to school, get degrees and can't do anything with them. These kids are gonna have it much harder, giving into relationships and hurting themselves because of the psychological blocks. But I know you and I've seen you, you're not like them. You don't take crap from anyone. You have your heart set on the right things and your mother raised you well."
Bleh. And for a sec I thought I might have been off track. Always nice to meet a good ole girlfriend.
So I've come to the conclusion that I really don't need a guy right now...probably not even ever. ^____^ Which actually makes me feel relieved. I don't have a thing to worry about with my grades, innovation, morals, ambitions and determination.
Btw, update on that virguy I was complaining about..Turns out, he's emotionally unstable and his g/f dumped him. Figures..Caps needs security, Duh! He got the job near me so now he's moving near me! From New York to Florida! He wants me to see him because he's scared. He was even crying over the phone to me..o_O
Scary how people end up after a few months of trying to get to know them.
Anywho, we established friendship and I honestly want nothing more. He's only been a burden with all his drama.
Anywho, All is right in my world. Happy to be alive again.
Single is the way to go for at least 15 years I'd say! (from 18)
We were talking about the kids of this generation. We talked about the past and the future of the youth. She's 50. This lady lives by herself and takes care of herself. And she says she is damn well proud of it and extremely happy, even more so than when she was married and she knows plenty of women who do the same. Then our conversation led to the subject of how this generation of youth is growing up in a society that is nothing like it use to be. she said "It's gonna be harder for you kids, relationships are gonna be harder, getting jobs are gonna be harder, making a living is gonna be harder. Some people go to school, get degrees and can't do anything with them. These kids are gonna have it much harder, giving into relationships and hurting themselves because of the psychological blocks. But I know you and I've seen you, you're not like them. You don't take crap from anyone. You have your heart set on the right things and your mother raised you well."
Bleh. And for a sec I thought I might have been off track.
Always nice to meet a good ole girlfriend.So I've come to the conclusion that I really don't need a guy right now...probably not even ever. ^____^ Which actually makes me feel relieved. I don't have a thing to worry about with my grades, innovation, morals, ambitions and determination.
Btw, update on that virguy I was complaining about..Turns out, he's emotionally unstable and his g/f dumped him. Figures..Caps needs security, Duh! He got the job near me so now he's moving near me! From New York to Florida! He wants me to see him because he's scared. He was even crying over the phone to me..o_O
Scary how people end up after a few months of trying to get to know them.
Anywho, we established friendship and I honestly want nothing more. He's only been a burden with all his drama.
Anywho, All is right in my world. Happy to be alive again.
Single is the way to go for at least 15 years I'd say! (from 18)
That's good reniba....although I'd suggest not being "married (so to speak lol) to idea of being single OR in a relationship......just be.....and also be open to the possibility of whatever serves you best for the moment....if after 10 years you're still waking up everyday and single feels like what's right for you then stay that way....but if you get blown away by someone amazing 2 years from now when you least expected it, why deny yourself the experience?
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reiniba,
cancerLA is right, we shouldn't close our minds to the opportunity that may come one day...but i so hear ya!
sorry things didn't work out romantically w that virguy, he seems a bit unstable and inmature, i'm sure he does like you tons though...but he needs to figure himself out before he can be good for a relationship i think...just like my ex-aqua too...so save yourself a heartache and just observe him a bit longer before persuing anything with him k. awesome that you hung out w this older lady friend of yours...older people can be very wise and real, i like that too. i always wish nothing but the best for ya my friend!
cancerLA,
thanks for the encouragement...and yes i may be open down the road...we'll have to wait and see...btw i think that is such a virgo line, lol, "wait and see" i read it here many times, weird how we do have things in common w people who are born around the same time.
btw, one of my closest friends at the moment is a cancer girl, sweet people, we defenitely click.
vll
cancerLA is right, we shouldn't close our minds to the opportunity that may come one day...but i so hear ya!
sorry things didn't work out romantically w that virguy, he seems a bit unstable and inmature, i'm sure he does like you tons though...but he needs to figure himself out before he can be good for a relationship i think...just like my ex-aqua too...so save yourself a heartache and just observe him a bit longer before persuing anything with him k. awesome that you hung out w this older lady friend of yours...older people can be very wise and real, i like that too. i always wish nothing but the best for ya my friend!
cancerLA,
thanks for the encouragement...and yes i may be open down the road...we'll have to wait and see...btw i think that is such a virgo line, lol, "wait and see" i read it here many times, weird how we do have things in common w people who are born around the same time.
btw, one of my closest friends at the moment is a cancer girl, sweet people, we defenitely click.
vll
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