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Candeh15
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Here are my two cents about this:

I really only think you as nitpicky as you make yourself out to be. My boyfriend now doesn't think I nitpick or nag or anything. And honestly I have no reason to be, at least with . I think that you have find to find someone who makes YOU less nitpicky, not someone who tolerates it. Let's face it, no one is going to truly enjoy the nagging. He's human. Just like we wouldn't enjoy it if someone tore us apart, even for good reason. You want to be with some one who makes you feel like you have no reason to nitpick; like you can.pack all that away and say fuck it because you are that happy and content. With that person, you won't have a need to better him.

Growing up, I used to be super critical, but I found that you can't really better people, especially when they don't want it. People want you to accept them, to understand them, not change them. Honestly, I can still be critical, but I can hold it back unless it really has to come out.

Again, just my opinion on the virgo nitpickiness.
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Posted by Candeh15
Here are my two cents about this:

I really only think you as nitpicky as you make yourself out to be. My boyfriend now doesn't think I nitpick or nag or anything. And honestly I have no reason to be, at least with . I think that you have find to find someone who makes YOU less nitpicky, not someone who tolerates it. Let's face it, no one is going to truly enjoy the nagging. He's human. Just like we wouldn't enjoy it if someone tore us apart, even for good reason. You want to be with some one who makes you feel like you have no reason to nitpick; like you can.pack all that away and say fuck it because you are that happy and content. With that person, you won't have a need to better him.

Growing up, I used to be super critical, but I found that you can't really better people, especially when they don't want it. People want you to accept them, to understand them, not change them. Honestly, I can still be critical, but I can hold it back unless it really has to come out.

Again, just my opinion on the virgo nitpickiness.

so, are critical or nitpicky only because you are unhappy?
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Candeh15
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Posted by pathfinder
Posted by Candeh15
Here are my two cents about this:

I really only think you as nitpicky as you make yourself out to be. My boyfriend now doesn't think I nitpick or nag or anything. And honestly I have no reason to be, at least with . I think that you have find to find someone who makes YOU less nitpicky, not someone who tolerates it. Let's face it, no one is going to truly enjoy the nagging. He's human. Just like we wouldn't enjoy it if someone tore us apart, even for good reason. You want to be with some one who makes you feel like you have no reason to nitpick; like you can.pack all that away and say fuck it because you are that happy and content. With that person, you won't have a need to better him.

Growing up, I used to be super critical, but I found that you can't really better people, especially when they don't want it. People want you to accept them, to understand them, not change them. Honestly, I can still be critical, but I can hold it back unless it really has to come out.

Again, just my opinion on the virgo nitpickiness.

so, are critical or nitpicky only because you are unhappy?
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Hmm, I suppose it's how one views it personally. I find that when I am hapy, I am far less critical and more easygoing. A lot of my nitpickyniess has to do with me being anxious towards a person or situation. I don't think it's all bad though. It can help to sort through things. And I have a very observant eye that I take pride in. But I honestly don't enjoy being so critical most of the time because it takes a lot of focus for me and usually involves some unwanted emotions/thoughts
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Posted by virgochick827

So, which sign really can put up with Virgos and have the patience to deal with us on a normal basis? lol



*waves arms around frantically, jumps up & down*....... "I'M OVER HERE!"

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lol I so do concur with you sir!

Cancers, leos probably theyre pretty clean. Some aries are really really clean too 🙂 l like clorox clean!
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I can take whatever you Virgos dish out! 😉

I think for me, Virgo balances me out. Virgo is the example of what I aspire to be - level headed, calm, perfectinistic...I just dig it! 😉 I think I get along so well with Virgo because we learn from each other...I learn to be a little calmer and they learn to be a little more relaxed. I also love cleanliness and if Virgo wants to clean for me, I'll allow it!
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Posted by Candeh15
I find that when I am hapy, I am far less critical and more easygoing....

happiness will do that 🙂 i don't think that's (sun) sign specific
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Haha of.course. I honestly don't try to give my sun sign too much credit, especially when it comes to things.like happiness and relationships. That's why I told virgochixk that you are only as critical as you make yourself out to be. I am critical because of anxiety, not just because I am a virgo.

Moonman was right to say that letting go a little also helps. Don't stress or overanalyze because you should. If you are criticizing your.man to death, you probably aren't happy with him.in the first place.
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Since everyone seems to think Virgos as too nit-picky and fussy, we don't get any love 😢

We can't really help it.

So, which sign really can put up with Virgos and have the patience to deal with us on a normal basis? lol

its the best way to be or else everyone steps all over ur feelings and uses u 🙂
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I get along very well with Virgo women; I'm dealing with my first Virgo man and I have to say I'm crazy about him. He's not too nit-picky nor fussy. But the planning of every darn thing! Sheesh! I'm an unusual Gemini in that I do like to plan...but Gemini in me also likes to do things spur of the moment as well...not so my man...*sigh* Oh and I'm the neat/clean freak. My says I'm obsessed with it! I can't sleep if my bed is messy (it can get messy during...but after it needs to be neat lol!). I cannot work in my home office if it is messy--it messes with my thinking! My Virgo is a bit messy though...hmmmm