That seriously just happened?! Why Virgos...WHY?

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I have no idea what the heck this was... But tonight a random chick showed up at my job where myself and my virgo crush work. Girl asks to sit at his section and literally just sat there all effing night waiting for him and he was closing that night! She just diddled around on her tiny meal taking small bites basically killing time. Like you seriously didn't even bring a book to read? And who the heck are you anyways! .... Needless to say, my Cancerian (plus Scorpio asc) is worrying and wanting to get nasty and attack mr. virgo with accusations. ....all I have to say is, THANK GOODNESS FOR MY MOON IN VIRGO because it took all my might to talk myself down and tell myself to keep my darn cool that whole time. .... Meanwhile, mr. Virgo just kept checking in on me, making small talk and trying to make jokes and have me laugh. I mean I can sense he is feeling me out and although I'm typically transparent with my emotions, I still NEVER brought her up. I just pretended nothing was going on! And you know want, that virgo ALSO never brought her up. WHAT THE HECK— ..... I ended up sneaking out the back door at the end of my shift. The last he saw of me was when we walked past each other and I just smiled back at him. .... Hey Virgos? What the heck just happened and what do I do now— .... Coworkers asked him who she was and he just kept saying someone he used to work with...a "friend"...he told my manager the same thing and I guess they walked out together, not close, no holding hands or anything. ... btw, we are supposed to be "friends" too yet just the other night we finally admitted to each other that we like each other. Of course every girl is FRIEND.
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
Well I actually give myself props for not saying anything to him about it. ... But yeah sure, I can certainly say what I'm thinking here. Rip on me all you want Virgos, but the real Virgo that I like in real life never had to hear "WHAT THE HECK" from me so I'm quite alright with that.



Just curious, what would you have said? Why is she eating here? What?

See, I don't get what got you so worked up about this situation. It's not like she was "eating" him. LOL! You too are just friends & you just recently admitted your feelings for each other & now he can't have friends? R-E-A-L-L-Y? I'd be afraid if I were him.
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Lol ya I'm a little confused, I do that with friends a lot. I go to their jobs, which is actually a restaurant most of the time and wait for them to get off or just to say hayyy. Even if she was more (which you have no way of knowing) friends are friends, not boyfriends :p
It's okay to be jealous haha it seems like you are...or feel threatened.

Also I'm not sure if a Virgo moon is too level-headed, most Virgos I know have blow ups. My ex was very calm but when mad very mad.
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Btw, I think it's something else in your chart that's making you act this way, but it's definitely not the scorpio. I have 4 scorpio planets & I OBSERVE 1st before having any kind of emotional reaction. Even if I did sense something is not right, I sure as hell wouldn't have said anything to anyone...I'd store my "observation" at the back of my mind to compare it to something else that may come up later on & see if they match my suspicions. Worry is for later, usually followed by dumping because who needs to deal with that.

Just calm down next time or you'll be at risk of coming off as a psycho. Remember, your suspicions are not always correct, so wait until you find something worthy to act all crazy about. Never act crazy though, it's not cute...no guy is worth that.
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You totally did the right thing in talking yourself down and not letting him know that you were jealous. Trust me, he knows (even if he just caught a glimpse of it) that you were a bit. But, it's MAJOR points to you that you didn't let him see it. Good work! 🙂

Just move ahead like you were going to. If he is moving forward with you, not stalling, but moving forward, then I would most likely bet that he doesn't have something else going on. At least for me, even though I have a decent amount of options, I will put them all to the side if I've decided I like someone and am going for it.

You did exactly what you should have done. He didn't do it to make you angry and it very likely was just a friend. She might like him more than that, but if, like I said, he is moving forward with you, he probably isn't doing the same with her. 🙂
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Well that's what I was all happy about...That's why I said thank goodness for my moon in virgo because that was my saving grace that told my emotional side to chill the f out at least externally so that I don't end up saying anything to him. And I didn't! I laughed at his jokes, I responded to his banters, I smiled back. I just snuck out the back door at the end of my shift. Give me some credit lol.... Because yeah you're right, that was my train of thought also. I didn't want to act on anything until I've made an informed decision and all I could do was take his word for it that when our nosey coworkers kept asking him who it was, he said she was a friend. .... I was just jealous okay! I like to feel special and I failed kindergarten..because I don't share.
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I'm the one who is slowing things down. Things were going too fast. Physically too. Like we would give ourselves time limits to say bye and have a goodnight makeout session but it never mattered, it would always take us 2-3 hours later just to part ways for the evening. With more than just making out and then it is always followed by an hour long "pillow talk" is what we call it lol. ...The other night, he said we gotta have better self-control and I absolutely agreed and even came up with this solution where we don't talk during the ride home and not even look at each other especially as he is getting out of the car. All of our banters and laughing will only be done at work where we are restricted from throwing ourselves at one another and via text/iMessages where it's physically impossible to get it on lol... We both laughed at my idea and he said he can do it. ...ITS THE ALL THE TALKING AND EYE CONTACT!!! all bets are always off...just give us privacy and time to talk about anything and everything, laugh, and then it's on like donkey kong. ------I HAD TO SLOW THAT DOWN!! I'm a Cancer, I need security, stability, etc. I need to know I'm special!
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
Well that's what I was all happy about...That's why I said thank goodness for my moon in virgo because that was my saving grace that told my emotional side to chill the f out at least externally so that I don't end up saying anything to him. And I didn't! I laughed at his jokes, I responded to his banters, I smiled back. I just snuck out the back door at the end of my shift. Give me some credit lol.... Because yeah you're right, that was my train of thought also. I didn't want to act on anything until I've made an informed decision and all I could do was take his word for it that when our nosey coworkers kept asking him who it was, he said she was a friend. .... I was just jealous okay! I like to feel special and I failed kindergarten..because I don't share.


Haha it's okay you got jealous and needed to vent.

I shared, but I don't share men lol
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Posted by WaterCup
Btw, I think it's something else in your chart that's making you act this way, but it's definitely not the scorpio. I have 4 scorpio planets & I OBSERVE 1st before having any kind of emotional reaction. Even if I did sense something is not right, I sure as hell wouldn't have said anything to anyone...I'd store my "observation" at the back of my mind to compare it to something else that may come up later on & see if they match my suspicions. Worry is for later, usually followed by dumping because who needs to deal with that.

Just calm down next time or you'll be at risk of coming off as a psycho. Remember, your suspicions are not always correct, so wait until you find something worthy to act all crazy about. Never act crazy though, it's not cute...no guy is worth that.



Seems to me she actually did just observe, but just came here to ask a question to get some insight.
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow

With more than just making out .....

... where we are restricted from throwing ourselves at one another and via text/iMessages where it's physically impossible to get it on lol... We both laughed at my idea and he said he can do it. ...ITS THE ALL THE TALKING AND EYE CONTACT!!! all bets are always off...just give us privacy and time to talk about anything and everything, laugh, and then it's on like donkey kong.

I'm a Cancer, I need security, stability, etc. I need to know I'm special!








So, the truth comes out.

You two were fuck buddies, and then you decided to try and manipulate him into catering to your insecurities .... and when it blew up in your face, and he now has another chic waiting for him after work ... now you're mad, because your high school tactics didn't work.

fwb relation made you a slut ... congratulations on not maturing enough to recognize that ... maybe next year, you'll grow some brain cells.

Meanwhile, he's better off without someone like you, who cannot even own living up to her own life's decisions.

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So, the truth comes out.

You two were fuck buddies, and then you decided to try and manipulate him into catering to your insecurities .... and when it blew up in your face, and he now has another chic waiting for him after work ... now you're mad, because your high school tactics didn't work.

fwb relation made you a slut ... congratulations on not maturing enough to recognize that ... maybe next year, you'll grow some brain cells.

Meanwhile, he's better off without someone like you, who cannot even own living up to her own life's decisions.


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Quite you. I owned up to my choices when I decided not to say anything to him about it. I'm just venting here. I was curious and I went for it a couple times knowing full well the kind of person I was getting into and the consequences of my actions. That is why i kept my mouth shut about the mystery girl and I went along with his usual interactions with me during that shift. ..... Well it's nice to see that other people get what I was saying though so you can disappear now. Thanks anyways.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Virgos are very sneaky people and cancer intuition is spot on. Listen to your gut.



Yeah I call him out on his many facades. If Cancers have multiple personalities well perhaps I have one to go with each one of his facades...
Oh yeah, we are both Scorpio rising.. Tra la la.
My Venus, his Mars .... Gemini
My Mercury, his Venus.... Leo

My moon and his moon .... earthy virgo and cap