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when he finally pushed too far he was arrested.
My girlfriend's sister, commented that she believes I am possessive and I would get violent in the future.
All of these things really had me wondering... sure, I have problems controlling my anger. However, I have never been a man to raise his hand against a loved one.
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this is the rest of it.
A deeper self-understanding, perhaps through courses and study in psychology, occultism, meditation, and self-exploration, would benefit you considerably, and give insight into the energies and levels of consciousness which create the complexity of the human personality.
i also have my moon trine Uranus which is good.
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As true as this all may be, I have never been violent...
Incidentally, psychology has been one of my long dreamed areas of study.
Thanks for the insight, really appreciate it.
Do you think you could ever be as described in the article?
no problem glad i was able to help a fellow virgo friend
i didnt kno you had a moon square pluto my moon trine Uranus balance me out at times
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I am a Leo woman who dated a Virguy for a brief period. He was VERY controlling, possessive and smothering. Being a Leo, I was not one to be dominated so easily so when he realized that I was far to strong to fall prey to his controlling ways he moved on to weaker prey (while he was still dating me). I didnt really mind it very much because I was starting to see his true colors and knew it would never work out. So, I watched it happen from afar. After only a couple of months of dating her, he alienated her from her family, moved her with him out of town, convinced her she didnt need a vehicle of her own, lied to her about the dynamics of our relationship which caused her to form an unfavorable opinion of me, unbeknownst to me of course!
During the course of our brief relationship, I had become very close friends with a girl that I met through him. She and I remained in touch and she would update me on his "new relationship" telling me that she felt sorry for the new girl and that she was just so glad that it wasnt me. Just recently, the girlfriend lost a family member and had to return home (without him) to support her family during their time of loss. I ran into her the other night and she proceeded to tell me that she was so sorry she had been unfriendly to me and had no idea that he had lied to her about me and our relationship, that she had since learned the truth. She told me that she had gotten away from him without him realizing that she did not plan on returning to him, but that she was NEVER going back!!! Good for her! She is a very sweet and young girl that definitely was taken advantage of by an older and mentally unstable individual. I thank my stars for not being in her shoes.
I now have another Virguy that is pursuing me and despite the fact that he seems like a very nice and normal guy, I am extremely apprehensive on letting him take me out. He is very persistent but I am unsure. I fear that he may not be a good match for me and I certainly do not wish to fall prey to a controlling and manipulative man. I know that you cannot lump everyone into zodiac signs, but the behaviour is befitting in many cases. I am taking it very slow and not letting him in or giving him much to go on. He says he likes a challenge and will pursue until I am ready to go out with him, but Im just not sure!!!!
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hikoro, I have always believed my girlfriend should be mine. In this field, Scorpios and Pisces women excel. I don't see why I should ever have to tolerate my girlfriend squealing for or entertaining any other men. I am not controlling, restricting or overly possessive as some have accused me on this board.
LegendaryVirgo, thanks again man, good to know you got your balance going on.
Dyar, this is true. I thought the same thing. An example of worst case scenario with uncanny individuals involved.
I have been very keen to follow your advise based on your account of your Libra wife. My Sag always wants me to make the decisions and I always emphasize that she is just as much in this relationship as I am and I expect her to put me in my place and allow me to do things for her without compromising her individuality.
LeoLady, I am sorry to learn of your unfortunate encounter... though I am sure it is not exclusive for Virgos to be this way. I hear this about Scorpio men and women a lot more.
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^^^^^lol true. Sags (of opposite sex) are annoying though. They are annoyingly persistant for a leo. Cajun all you have to do to keep a Sag is be active, busy, have a carefree attitude, and have wandering EYES (as in both). LOL