the other night ... my husband ...

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by P-Angel on Wednesday, October 29, 2014 and has 25 replies.

... nobody could believe it, the girls, I mean.
After over 3 decades of marriage, this man still ......

I'm sure all the married men are pissed ... because now they have to be gentlemen, too !!!

So, we were at a local bar, a place we go to all the time to play poker with the same people. The place is really dirty, and so I always make sure to have a strap purse, and this time I forgot. I have an expensive bag that I have to put on the nasty floor.
I didn't say anything, he saw me standing there holding my purse and he knew.
Here, this man comes and lays his over-shirt on the floor so I could lay my purse down. And it was cold in there.
The Gentlemen will lay his shirt down for his lady.
And I'm literally still blown away by this man after 32 years of marriage to him.
Life doesn't get any better than that.
I love gentlemen.
Natural and true gentleman, not the part time gentlemen.

Where did you meet your husband P-Angel.
You know P, posts like these bring a tear in my eye smile
Reminds me so much of my father and another Virgo friend.
I was in a summer camp when I was younger and I met this Virgo guy. One day there was an orientation contest in a forest. He didn't want to partake in it so I said I will stop by his cabin when it's over. It started raining heavily and me and my team lost our way in the forest. Hours after all the teams have found their way back we managed to get back to the camp. I go to his cabin, he isn't there. His friends tell me he went into the forest to look for me. I stay put waiting for his return, 2 more hours pass. He comes into the room soaking wet and his first instinct is to run to his bag to find some warm/dry t-shirt for me to wear so I wouldn't get a cold. Before finding one for himself.
To this day one of my fondest memories.
I love True Gentlemen. My Leo has that down and he is a young male too. They are not easy to find in these younger generations. His attention to detail and taking care of me as a lady makes me feel inadequate at time because I can be bad with reciprocation. I am working on it. smile
Posted by TheLioness79
I love True Gentlemen. My Leo has that down and he is a young male too. They are not easy to find in these younger generations. His attention to detail and taking care of me as a lady makes me feel inadequate at time because I can be bad with reciprocation. I am working on it. smile


Virgo love doesn't even take reciprocation into account. It just is.
Yes indeed.
Reciprocation is not necessary for him but comes from this Leo Female who will give to the bottom of her heart with utter appreciation and loyalty. smile

Oh no, he is no part-time gentlemen ... in fact, he does stuff all the time, like carry things or people. Just about a month ago or so, we were at a restaurant and an elderly couple came in and the man couldn't sit down .. like his body didn't move right ...
Up pops my man, with a smile and a warm heart ... people love him, and he deserves that they do.

anyway ... I met him through my brother. My brother was living with his sister, and I went with his sister to her mothers house one day, and there he was ... laying on the floor watching television.

Yeah, it was in the early 80's .... we watched television.
Posted by Damnata
I was in a summer camp when I was younger and I met this Virgo guy. One day there was an orientation contest in a forest. He didn't want to partake in it so I said I will stop by his cabin when it's over. It started raining heavily and me and my team lost our way in the forest. Hours after all the teams have found their way back we managed to get back to the camp. I go to his cabin, he isn't there. His friends tell me he went into the forest to look for me. I stay put waiting for his return, 2 more hours pass. He comes into the room soaking wet and his first instinct is to run to his bag to find some warm/dry t-shirt for me to wear so I wouldn't get a cold. Before finding one for himself.
To this day one of my fondest memories.




wow, just wow .... now THAT's life, that's what it is all for .. things like that ^^
Posted by TheLioness79
I love True Gentlemen. My Leo has that down and he is a young male too. They are not easy to find in these younger generations. His attention to detail and taking care of me as a lady makes me feel inadequate at time because I can be bad with reciprocation. I am working on it. smile



It doesn't have to be reciprocated, it only has to be sincerely appreciated.

Yes, it is rare to find a real gentlemen, especially with the volume of people who rarely look past themselves.
Posted by TheLioness79
Reciprocation is not necessary for him but comes from this Leo Female who will give to the bottom of her heart with utter appreciation and loyalty.





The secret into the Virgo's heart isn't by what you give, or how you give, or how deep you give ..... rather, your ability to receive.
The Virgo often becomes put-off when what is given you is outdone.
What people read about them being a service sign? .... well, they fail to realize that this literal.
If you have a Virgo, or trying to develop a relationship with a Virgo .... the first thing you have to do is condition yourself to be able to receive what they give you, genuinely.
There's no string dangling here, like some hidden meaning and you think you are suppose to unravel something. They are simple loving people, who show this side, by assisting you.
so, let him .......
People say they just want to be happy and make the other person happy .... so, own that. It makes the Virgo happy to be of service to you. If you don't let him, he will become fussy and critical because he has nothing to do for you.
A happy Virgo is a lifelong Virgo. Alls he wants you to do is appreciate him.
Posted by P-Angel

The secret into the Virgo's heart isn't by what you give, or how you give, or how deep you give ..... rather, your ability to receive.
What people read about them being a service sign? .... well, they fail to realize that this literal.
There's no string dangling here, like some hidden meaning and you think you are suppose to unravel something. They are simple loving people, who show this side, by assisting you.
A happy Virgo is a lifelong Virgo. Alls he wants you to do is appreciate him.


Awwww that was very sweet of him!!!
You need to show me some pointers on how I can get my Virgo Man to do that.
Yup receiving is something u have to let the virgo do, I let my virgo give, but he doesn't let me. Nor willing to accept at times.
Love this!!
"makes the Virgo happy to be of service to you. If you don't let him, he will become fussy and critical because he has nothing to do for you."
+infinity!
Posted by VirgoCupcake
Awwww that was very sweet of him!!!
You need to show me some pointers on how I can get my Virgo Man to do that.
Yup receiving is something u have to let the virgo do, I let my virgo give, but he doesn't let me. Nor willing to accept at times.


You don't do anything. You just learn to be happy because a virgo strives for a happy woman in a genuine relationship.

He is a sweetie, really .... and I wouldn't trade him in for any man/woman.
That was just one incident I told you ... but, these things happen all the time, and always have throughout our marriage.
He loves to help people.
Not even Sean Bean will make P forsake her Virgo Big Grin
wow - here starting to lose hope of virgo's and just in time. Wish I could find a catch like that. smile
Posted by Damnata
Not even Sean Bean will make P forsake her Virgo Big Grin



dude, the man is fucking gorgeous !!!!!



.... but, still, I wouldn't trade my man in for him.
Posted by P-Angel

He is a sweetie, really .... and I wouldn't trade him in for any man/woman.
That was just one incident I told you ... but, these things happen all the time, and always have throughout our marriage.
He loves to help people.



+1 my first virgo love when i was 18 was this way born aug 28. most wonderful man in the world. will always be the love of my life. the sept virgo's i dealt with, not so much
Posted by P-Angel

I'm sure all the married men are pissed ... because now they have to be gentlemen, too !!!
So, we were at a local bar, a place we go to all the time to play poker with the same people. The place is really dirty, and so I always make sure to have a strap purse, and this time I forgot. I have an expensive bag that I have to put on the nasty floor.
I didn't say anything, he saw me standing there holding my purse and he knew.
Here, this man comes and lays his over-shirt on the floor so I could lay my purse down. And it was cold in there.
The Gentlemen will lay his shirt down for his lady.
And I'm literally still blown away by this man after 32 years of marriage to him.
Life doesn't get any better than that.


I love this. So sweet!
P-Angel,
You are blessed as is he. smile
Love stories like these, hope you share more! It's nice to read something positive on this forum as that is sorely lacking.
I can see you making that face that's your avatar as you typed that CC
LMAO!!
Virgo love doesn't take reciprocation into account because to him it will never be as good as his. So nix it.
Posted by bridgelover
Virgo love doesn't take reciprocation into account because to him it will never be as good as his. So nix it.


You know exactly jack shit.
Virgo love doesn't take reciprocation into account becase (shock) we're actually humble people. We feel really awkward when people lavish a lot of attention on us..we just like to be appreciated from time to time. Not as an ego boost..as long as we know we succeed in making you happy in our service oriented ways..we're happy.
But you're a Leo so what would you know about the small things in life?

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