The Virgo Conundrum....

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Mars.In.Aries on Sunday, December 6, 2009 and has 21 replies.
..... try and change the one who is playing games, or try with the one who you know you can't change?
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I personally believe Virgos can change anybody.
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Posted by Cajunspirit
I personally believe Virgos can change anybody.


really y u say that huh.
i will never try 2 change no one ima let live type of person smile
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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by Cajunspirit
I personally believe Virgos can change anybody.


really y u say that huh.
i will never try 2 change no one ima let live type of person smile
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I'm with ya LV!! smile
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Posted by oddball73

really y u say that huh.
i will never try 2 change no one ima let live type of person smile


I'm with ya LV!! smile

It's not about if we will or want to change people, I am just saying we can.
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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
Posted by Cajunspirit
I personally believe Virgos can change anybody.


really y u say that huh.
i will never try 2 change no one ima let live type of person smile


I'm with ya LV!! smile
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awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thanks oddball u kno what im very honest and blunt it must be all those air planets in me or
my moon square Pluto but who knows but i always been a freedom loving person i tell people be ur self and be happy and keep it moving feel me. smile
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Mars.In.Aries is right.
If you look around wisely with open eyes, you will see only three forms of relationships. Authoritative or submissive change or get ready to be changed.
The 3rd one is....... Well you guys are too young, too idealistic, too horny to know about it anyway.
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Posted by moon_eyes
Posted by Cajunspirit
I personally believe Virgos can change anybody.


Thats just damn manipulation. WRONG very very wrong.
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says the cancer lol. bah cancer chicks are the queens of manipulation. its a shame they r scrubs with it Winking
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Posted by Virgo07
Thats just damn manipulation. WRONG very very wrong.


says the cancer lol. bah cancer chicks are the queens of manipulation. its a shame they r scrubs with it Winking
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*High Fives Virgo07*
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Posted by Learus
What we may not see as negative, someone else can. We all know we are going to be lenient when it comes to our own perspective about ourselves. Very seldom do we as humans acknowledge our flaws and address them in a healthy way.


Virgos do
Instead, we find every excuse under the sun to be way we are, just to justify them. When we want to see what we look like, we look in the mirror at our reflection. If we see a flaw in our image, it's up to us to change that. Working on your personal flaws is difficult, because it requires to be honest (just like that mirror reflection).


True.
For someone to go out of their way to take the time to help you correct a potentially dangerous and/or negative personal flaw speaks volumes about how that person honestly feels about you IF they are trying to make you a better person. People who don't give two craps about you could care less if you walk around all jacked up. It's funny but I hear a lot of people complain about "oh he/she is trying to change this and that about me", yet they don't see that person's motives were purely in their best interest.
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Amen sister... Amen!
And you're a Taurus? Amazing!
I wish more people could understand this...
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Posted by sortilege85
hahaha that does sound like a virgo influence learus >=D


I think she deserves honourary enrollment into the "Virgo Book of Worthy Wives"
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Posted by Cajunspirit
Posted by sortilege85
hahaha that does sound like a virgo influence learus >=D


I think she deserves honourary enrollment into the "Virgo Book of Worthy Wives"
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published by LV hehehehehe owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmfao
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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

I think she deserves honourary enrollment into the "Virgo Book of Worthy Wives"


published by LV hehehehehe owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmfao
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Hahaha!
I see what you're doing, reeeeal slick!
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Posted by Cajunspirit
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

I think she deserves honourary enrollment into the "Virgo Book of Worthy Wives"


published by LV hehehehehe owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmfao


Hahaha!
I see what you're doing, reeeeal slick!
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Im confused whatever are u talking about lmfao
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Posted by Learus

I think she deserves honourary enrollment into the "Virgo Book of Worthy Wives"


No such book exists for Virgos, hence ranked the highest number of available bachelors on planet earth. Winking
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It is a secret book... one of our most prized hidden possessions. It exists only for exceedingly well educated women "who get Virgos", such as yourself Winking
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Posted by moon_eyes
O jesus dont get me started on gem women. They screw everything up, things even no one would think of.



lmfao
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Posted by Learus
I'm sure there is an available one out there. My patient nature will wait it out. Big Grin


Ya'll are our No.1 Marriage choice! Big Grin
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Posted by Learus
Ya know, it's a shame I will be deleting this account soon. Just when I was getting used to you all. I'll miss y'all. Sad



yea dont go u have good vibes Sad
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Posted by Qbone
Mars.In.Aries is right.
If you look around wisely with open eyes, you will see only three forms of relationships. Authoritative or submissive change or get ready to be changed.
The 3rd one is....... Well you guys are too young, too idealistic, too horny to know about it anyway.



Yes, I see it. I completely agree with you.... but both males and females are guilty of it.
What really perplexes me is this, and I'll revert to my original question.
The first part.... try and change the person who is playing games. You know full well that this person is toxic, so allowing that person into your life and trying to change them means that you must have to include self-destruction into this equation. What is the fasination of someone completely belittling you? Is the urge to try and change someone that strong that you will tolerate it, even when equating destruction into your rationalization?
The second part....... try with the person you know can't change.
Perhaps my choice of the word "can't" isn't what I intended. This person HAS changed, for the better, and won't revert back to old ways. Does the Virgo admire this person for their personal achievements? If this person is self-analytical and fixes things on their own, does this leave little to no room for the Virgo?
We are constantly changing beings. That is part of life. But if someone is stuck in their ways and is manipulating you, why exert the energy? Why not give that amount of energy to someone that can help you grow and change?
It can't be because of "love". Love is acceptance, but love isn't about hurting. If that person is playing games with you and hurting you, then what does that say about you as a person?
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Posted by moon_eyes
Posted by Virgo07
Posted by moon_eyes
Posted by Cajunspirit
I personally believe Virgos can change anybody.


Thats just damn manipulation. WRONG very very wrong.


says the cancer lol. bah cancer chicks are the queens of manipulation. its a shame they r scrubs with it Winking


Says the VIRGO manipulation central man.
What is this scrubs business?
Ps. not all cancer women are text book manipulators. now Virgos yall manipulate.Tongue ha
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well, i am the master
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Posted by Learus
Posted by moon_eyes
Learus there is nothing to start. Im said something and thats it. Idk what gives you the idea i was gonna start something lol. smile
Why aren't there more taurus visitors on this board?


lol don't start stopping starting something then lol. Confused yet? Winking
Why aren't there more Taurus visitors? Because it's grazing time right now for us cows LOL. Wait a couple hours.
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LOL! Learus it's called "taurus time"....and I agree with your comments...most taurus's don't really "get virgo" until either they've matured a bit or some crisis hits, then they suddenly realized what a truely fabulous lot they really are. I completely understand your harsh behavior with them, because I reacted the same way when I was young (like in high school). It wasn't until college that I realized how much they have impacted my life (this pertains to the virgo's in my family of course) and I've said this many times but, I've yet to meet a virgo I haven't liked...except maybe the dean of my faculty who's just nut's!!!....loveable....but nuts! Anyways sista, it's sad to hear that your leavin', but like you said you gotta get back to doin' you, so I send you a warm "farewell you won't be forgotten" taurus hug **huuuuuuuugggggg** and regardless of what life throws at you don't ever compromise your oh-so-sexy taurus self! best wishes!... btw(your comments always made me smile)
Oh! and I think Sorti mistook you for me when he asked if your the one with the virgo guy...no sorti that's me
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