The waiting is over.... advise please?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Lucriu on Monday, September 16, 2013 and has 17 replies.
So after about 2 months of courting. Being told to take it slow and feeling like I was under the microscope the whole time, I called her up and asked for a date, made her laugh with my eagerness and she finally said yes!!! I've never actually waited for someone to be ready and always took it as a sign of weakness (fear of being hurt) and i found it kind of contradicting to have someone say they feel comfortable talking to me and that I brought a sense of comfort that enabled them to open up BUT wouldnt go out with me 0.0 . Anyway!!! Virgo chicks please help me out. I'm outgoing and wierd when i fall and im afraid that if i start licking her hand on the first date and tell her she tastes good, or spin her around from exitement on the first date ill be kinda scarrying her away >.
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You're cute. Love the post smile
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Posted by pathfinder
You're cute. Love the post smile


=] thx, but any advise? shes a virgo too
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DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT lick her hand on the FIRST date. Are you kidding! Lol, you're a hunk but jeeeez...let's not do that yet, k?
You'll freak her out for sure, but you are hottttt! Tongue
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Stop complimentimg me!! Please Sad focus on HER. And i wasnt kidding about the licking..... im playfull like that =D . So ok, no licking. Spinning her around ok? MORE ADVISE PLS. Cluelesscancer im sorry.... but i take back my marriage proposal.....
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Lol...ok. I just call it like I see it, haha. But after 2 months you should have some indication as to how her personality is. Is she reserved, playful, stuck up, shy?
How do you perceive her to be? Whatever it is, go with it & proceed.
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Posted by RealTalk
DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT lick her hand on the FIRST date. Are you kidding!



OMG + infinity on this lol

Nothing wrong with being weird but licking someone on the first date...yeah umm gross!
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Posted by Lucriu
So after about 2 months of courting. Being told to take it slow and feeling like I was under the microscope the whole time, I called her up and asked for a date, made her laugh with my eagerness and she finally said yes!!! I've never actually waited for someone to be ready and always took it as a sign of weakness (fear of being hurt) and i found it kind of contradicting to have someone say they feel comfortable talking to me and that I brought a sense of comfort that enabled them to open up BUT wouldnt go out with me 0.0 . Anyway!!! Virgo chicks please help me out. I'm outgoing and wierd when i fall and im afraid that if i start licking her hand on the first date and tell her she tastes good, or spin her around from exitement on the first date ill be kinda scarrying her away . Id hate to have to pretend im "normal" but i have heard you chicks are kinda conservative, but do you value that more over the other person being who they are from the beggining? HELP

@Lucriu, I'm not a Virgo and your post was on the dxpnet homepage, so I clicked it based on the title. So, when I said "you're cute", I meant your post sounded cute. And then there's that avatar...
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I have been in her shoes (and you sound like how my hubby felt about me). Although my darling is a scorpion, I made him wait over almost two months before I would actually go out with him. We communicated over the phone or email. When we did have first date, it was lovely. When it came time to say good night, he held me in his arms so tight, nuzzled and kissed my neck, then began kissing me very deeply. Intoxicating? Yes, to say the least. Scary? Only that I would fall flat on the ground if he let me go.
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I know you don't literally mean you would "lick her hand" but I do understand the passion of which you speak. My advice would be to enjoy the date with her, be attentive to little things about her, Smile when you see her, pull her chair out, open her door, etc. You are both earth signs so if the chemistry is there, just go with it. I don't think you will scare her away unless she doesn't like you. Make the kiss count (if you both vibe well). My guy did kiss my hand sweetly though, which made me feel very beautiful in his eyes.
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LOL mellymel...but what she wrote is pretty spot on for myself at least
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by Lucriu
Stop complimentimg me!! Please Sad focus on HER. And i wasnt kidding about the licking..... im playfull like that =D . So ok, no licking. Spinning her around ok? MORE ADVISE PLS. Cluelesscancer im sorry.... but i take back my marriage proposal.....


its okay, i don't like being licked, well not on my hands, only in certain other area(s)
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Sexy, tell me more.
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Posted by KingVirgo
Bruh if your done waiting let her go and live your life somebody will come and won't make you wait.



Read the original post, then read it again, and after you think you understand it, read it once more before commenting = )
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Posted by RealTalk
Lol...ok. I just call it like I see it, haha. But after 2 months you should have some indication as to how her personality is. Is she reserved, playful, stuck up, shy?
How do you perceive her to be? Whatever it is, go with it & proceed.


You??re right... She??s obviously reserved, i was just hoping that you virgos would share like some kind of deep secret that no one besides you guys know that would go along the lines of ??We secretly like to be surprised by playful outgoing behaviour and dont mind being licked from time to time.?? Guess thats not gonna happen. = /
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
Posted by RealTalk
DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT lick her hand on the FIRST date. Are you kidding!



OMG + infinity on this lol

Nothing wrong with being weird but licking someone on the first date...yeah umm gross!
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Lol im not like putting her whole hand inside my mouth or anything like that GEEE! BUT FINE! no licking, No one that has replied has said that this would be a good idea so i guess i will let it go... or i might not be able to help myself and just do it to see if she gets shocked or laughs =P Ill let you guys know. =D
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Posted by MellyMel909
Posted by Lucriu
Posted by RealTalk
Lol...ok. I just call it like I see it, haha. But after 2 months you should have some indication as to how her personality is. Is she reserved, playful, stuck up, shy?
How do you perceive her to be? Whatever it is, go with it & proceed.


You??re right... She??s obviously reserved, i was just hoping that you virgos would share like some kind of deep secret that no one besides you guys know that would go along the lines of ??We secretly like to be surprised by playful outgoing behaviour and dont mind being licked from time to time.?? Guess thats not gonna happen. = /


I did!!! Or at least I tried to before the quoting feature messed up!! Sad
But seriously, a lot of it depends on her other placements; as well as her upbringing and personality in general.
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I was just going to quote that other message where you say the thing about the stick up the assLaughing yeah you did! Thanks! Her venus and Mars are both in libra, so we both like to talk, I dont think that Libra is as Quirky as Aquarious though (my Venus is in aquarius and my mars is in scorpio.... yeah i know fucken sexy huh Winking ) Anyway, Imma just be myself, if the oportunity presents itself for me to lick her, then its a sign from god ??Lick her David...... LICK HER!!! its your destiny....?? 0.0 hehe
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Posted by Lucriu
So after about 2 months of courting. Being told to take it slow and feeling like I was under the microscope the whole time, I called her up and asked for a date, made her laugh with my eagerness and she finally said yes!!! I've never actually waited for someone to be ready and always took it as a sign of weakness (fear of being hurt) and i found it kind of contradicting to have someone say they feel comfortable talking to me and that I brought a sense of comfort that enabled them to open up BUT wouldnt go out with me 0.0 . Anyway!!! Virgo chicks please help me out. I'm outgoing and wierd when i fall and im afraid that if i start licking her hand on the first date and tell her she tastes good, or spin her around from exitement on the first date ill be kinda scarrying her away . Id hate to have to pretend im "normal" but i have heard you chicks are kinda conservative, but do you value that more over the other person being who they are from the beggining? HELP

@Lucriu, I'm not a Virgo and your post was on the dxpnet homepage, so I clicked it based on the title. So, when I said "you're cute", I meant your post sounded cute. And then there's that avatar...
smile
I have been in her shoes (and you sound like how my hubby felt about me). Although my darling is a scorpion, I made him wait over almost two months before I would actually go out with him. We communicated over the phone or email. When we did have first date, it was lovely. When it came time to say good night, he held me in his arms so tight, nuzzled and kissed my neck, then began kissing me very deeply. Intoxicating? Yes, to say the least. Scary? Only that I would fall flat on the ground if he let me go.
smile
I know you don't literally mean you would "lick her hand" but I do understand the passion of which you speak. My advice would be to enjoy the date with her, be attentive to little things about her, Smile when you see her, pull her chair out, open her door, etc. You are both earth signs so if the chemistry is there, just go with it. I don't think you will scare her away unless she doesn't like you. Make the kiss count (if you both vibe well). My guy did kiss my hand sweetly though, which made me feel very beautiful in his eyes.

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You give me too much credit. I do LIT
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Posted by Lucriu
Posted by MellyMel909
Posted by Lucriu
Posted by RealTalk
Lol...ok. I just call it like I see it, haha. But after 2 months you should have some indication as to how her personality is. Is she reserved, playful, stuck up, shy?
How do you perceive her to be? Whatever it is, go with it & proceed.


You??re right... She??s obviously reserved, i was just hoping that you virgos would share like some kind of deep secret that no one besides you guys know that would go along the lines of ??We secretly like to be surprised by playful outgoing behaviour and dont mind being licked from time to time.?? Guess thats not gonna happen. = /


I did!!! Or at least I tried to before the quoting feature messed up!! Sad
But seriously, a lot of it depends on her other placements; as well as her upbringing and personality in general.



I was just going to quote that other message where you say the thing about the stick up the assLaughing yeah you did! Thanks! Her venus and Mars are both in libra, so we both like to talk, I dont think that Libra is as Quirky as Aquarious though (my Venus is in aquarius and my mars is in scorpio.... yeah i know fucken sexy huh Winking ) Anyway, Imma just be myself, if the oportunity presents itself for me to lick her, then its a sign from god ??Lick her David...... LICK HER!!! its your destiny....?? 0.0 hehe
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LMAO!
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Posted by Lucriu
Posted by RealTalk
Lol...ok. I just call it like I see it, haha. But after 2 months you should have some indication as to how her personality is. Is she reserved, playful, stuck up, shy?
How do you perceive her to be? Whatever it is, go with it & proceed.


dont mind being licked from time to time.
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BS...I like to be licked anywhere & everywhere all of the time Tongue. Just not on the first date.
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